Before, During, and After: Poems (Paperback)

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Sirowitz’s poems might be the channeled voice of Philip Roth in a state of catatonic dementia. -- Village Voice

These poems map the tangled terrain . . . of the American family—its complex relationships, its twisted fears...sad, disturbing, and funny. -- Details

Product Description

With Mother Said, Hal Sirowitz introduced the world to his overprotective, overwrought mother. In My Therapist Said, he showcased his neuroses. In his new book, Before, During, and After, he explores his tumultuous (and sometimes nonexistent) sex life. In a series of witty poems, he shares the ups and downs of his romantic history from tortured adolescence to not-much-better adulthood in his poetically comic stroll through life as a beleaguered mama's boy.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 120 pages
• Publisher: Soft Skull Press; 1 edition (September 16, 2003)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 188712893X
• ISBN-13: 978-1887128933
• Product Dimensions: 8 x 6.6 x 0.4 inches
• Shipping Weight: 6.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 2.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #1,506,130 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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3 of 6 people found the following review helpful:

2.0 out of 5 stars If you're gonna stick with one joke, better make it funny, May 22, 2004

By	A. Liebling (Long Island City, NY United States) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

If you're not familiar with the poetry of Hal Sirowitz, just imagine a Woody Allen of poetry. His poems are invariably short one-sided conversation tidbits, usually a third person berating or critiquing the author. In typical nebbish humor, the speaker-in his last two books, his parents (Mother Said) and his therapist (My Therapist Said)-point out in sharp, clever ways all the fallacies and neuroses of Hal Sirowitz. In his latest book of poems, his exes get their turn.

Divided in chapters of before, during, after, and later (sex, of course, being the theme), the poems chronicle Hal's misadventures in the realm of physical relationships, in a "she said" format. These poems are enjoyable and breezy, but few are as clever or original as his previous works. The payoff of these "she said" poems tend to be dated punchlines that feel more like tired man-woman relationship clichés than anything confessional or insightful: Hal the Everyman is horny, likes to have a lot of sex, doesn't like to cuddle or leave the apartment, and is a commitmentphobe; his exes like to cuddle, have conversations, travel and do things of a nonsexual nature, and be in a committed relationship. Although what makes Sirowitz's poems appealing is that most people can relate to them, this new set, I feel, turns the complexities of relationships into a one-dimensional gag.

Fortunately, Sirowitz is bringing it all back home in his next book, Father Said. Even if it's the same format, and his "father" seems like everyone's father, hopefully it'll be more inspired than the "she said" poems. In any case, you know they'll still be fun to read in the Sirowitz style.