I'm Sorry (Paperback)

by Jay Krunszyinsky (Author)

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About the Author
For 20 years, Jay Krunszyinsky has provided service to others as a Juvenile Probation Officer, Case Manager, Therapist, Behavioral Specialist Consultant, and Administrator for several human services agencies. His clientele have included children, adolescents, and adults with issues that have included abuse, criminal involvement, drug & alcohol addiction, and psychiatric disorders. In 1983, Jay Krunszyinsky obtained his Bachelors of Science Degree in Business Administration. He later went on to obtain his Masters of Art Degree in Counseling in 1995. He is a Certified Psychiatric Rehabilitation Practitioner and Abuse Investigator for the state of Pennsylvania. He has helped individuals, couples, and families identify and work through hurt while promoting the development of positive relationship skills.

Product Details

• Paperback: 104 pages
• Publisher: Word Association Publishers (November 11, 2002)
• ISBN-10: 1932205020
• ISBN-13: 978-1932205022
• Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.4 x 0.4 inches
• Shipping Weight: 5.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #1,160,737 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Terrific practical guide to moral wisdom, October 1, 2004

By	Dr. A. H. Knock (Alloa, Scotland) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

Jay Krunszyinsky has written a passionate book on practical morality, in which he maps out a system to help develop core personal virtues by making acts of atonement whenever we fail other people. He is not concerned to argue the merits of his system against other forms of morality, but aims to convince by the clarity of his system and the wealth of illustrations he provides for different stages of personal development.

Jay Krunszyinsky's core approach to moral issues is broadly that described as 'virtue ethics,' that is, consideration of the chief virtues which contribute to a fulfilled and purposed life. He has clearly brought great insight to helping children and adults face profound scarring and damage, and find ways of healing. In the early part of the book he develops a thorough system for schools to use in order to "define behavioral expectations and allow children to evaluate their successes and problems." Teachers and parents will find this a valuable tool to reflect on, either applying it or measuring their own methods alongside it.

Building on this foundation of rationality, Jay introduces what his book's title is about - saying Sorry, "making atonement." For Jay atonement is intensely practical: "Through atonement or problem resolution you can take responsibility for hurtful actions and demonstrate acts of love, respect and honesty." (p 43)

The three core virtues mentioned here are really the heart of the book. Jay views them as applicable to us all - love, respect and honesty. They give substance to what he means by 'atonement': (try to) undo the damage you have caused (and will inevitably cause, like everyone does) by building up these three core virtues. In the heart of the book he illustrates how to 'grow' these virtues in ourselves and in the children and adolescents we parent or have responsibility towards, exploring 'owning' these virtues at the different stages of our personal development.

To end Jay invites his reader to develop a personal spirituality in some form, developing out of reflection on love, respect and honesty. This generalised approach is entirely consonant with the virtue ethics approach, for which the ultimate human goal is eudemonia, fulfilment.

The book will inspire anyone who genuinely wants to grow as a good, moral person, someone who wants to fulfil their life by improving other peoples' lives. I also sense it will speak particularly clearly to men, since it's such a 'hands-on' approach to relationship issues and personal growth, areas where women normally feel more comfortable.

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Relationship book of our time, February 10, 2004

By A Customer

This relationship book finally addresses the real issues in relationships. This book looks at development of children and why many relationships are not working out in the long run. This is a must read for all!