Speak from the Heart: Be Yourself and Get Results [BARGAIN PRICE] (Hardcover)

by Steve, Ph.D Adubato (Author), Theresa Foy Digeronimo (Author)

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Amazon.com Review
Communicating effectively--with a significant other, a roomful of colleagues, or an auditorium packed with strangers--can challenge even the most articulate. In Speak from the Heart, Emmy-winning broadcaster Steve Adubato maintains that success comes from the direct emotional connections you make with your audience. Using his own experiences, as well as those of a range of notables from Oprah Winfrey to Colin Powell, he offers specific ways to develop that bond in circumstances where it matters most. Adubato shows how public speakers can get a handle on their audience and their message, determine their key themes, and then outline them to encourage as interesting and engaging a delivery as possible. He explains how "talking without speaking" plays a vital role in communicative settings and offers tips on body language (gesture toward someone with an open hand, palm up, rather than a pointed index finger), first impressions ("the level of confidence you have is first seen in the way you hold your body"), and active listening (eye contact, gestures, and smiles all convey your interest). Adubato additionally applies these principles to casual business encounters, leadership situations, workplace teams, communication technology, customer service, and the particular considerations that gender often interjects. "Being a truly great communicator is not simply about being articulate," he writes. "It's about who can make an audience care about the message and find the words that touch not only the intellect but also the heart." His precise advice and suggested exercises should help anyone improve this critical skill. --Howard Rothman --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

From Library Journal
These two books treat similar subjects, but the contrasts are significant. One covers the entire landscape of speaking, whereas the other focuses just on "small talk." The title of Speak from the Heart describes the book's very solid premise. Emmy Award-winning broadcaster and motivational speaker Adubato emphasizes the importance of being genuine as he attempts to cover every conceivable speaking situation, including public speaking, private conversations, group discussions, and listening. He guides readers in the use of eye contact, developing a conversational style, and being comfortable with their message. Despite many charming personal anecdotes and stories drawn from other sources, this book remains a heavy read. Ironically, while Adubato tells us to make a connection with our audience rather than to "cover the material," he does a much better job of covering the material than of connecting. In contrast, Fine fully engages her audience. She involves readers in the discussion and gives lists of lines people can use to start, maintain, or end a conversation. She discusses conversation topics and how to use them and also includes quizzes, throws in a poem, and scatters a few cartoons to break up the text. Originally released as an audiocassette in 1997, this work comes across much like one of her seminars on small talk. The Fine Art of Small Talk does everything that Speak from the Heart says should be done. Adubato's book is best for academic libraries or large public and business libraries. Fine's is a better choice for most public libraries, as well as business libraries. David Leonhardt, Toronto
Copyright 2002 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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Product Details

• Hardcover: 256 pages
• Publisher: Free Press (April 2002)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0743217152
• ASIN: B00008JYQ2
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #2,686,132 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars You'll learn the author's secrets for being a great communicator, July 3, 2008

By	Blaine Greenfield "eclectic reader" (Belle Meade, NJ) - See all my reviews (TOP 500 REVIEWER)    (REAL NAME)

This review is from: Speak from the Heart: Be Yourself and Get Results (Paperback)

Heard SPEAK FROM THE HEART, written and read
by Steve Adubato . . . he's a broadcaster and motivational
speaker who shares his secrets to being a great communicator.

Listening to what Abudato grabbed my attention so
much that I then went back to get the print version--so as
to make sure I did not miss anything.

Furthermore, some of his ideas made so much sense that
I wanted to make sure I had them down exactly; for example,
his two-step approach on preparing speeches:

* Step One: Determine How You Feel About Your Primary
Message

Step Two: Ask Yourself Three Key Questions

1. What is my message? (This is the one thing you want people to
remember when you finish.)

2. Who is my audience? (What will move them? Touch them? Reach
them? What do they need or want from me?)

3. What do I want these people to do or feel when I'm finished?

I also liked the "Do It Now" activities at the end of each chapter . . . this
one, in particular, caught my attention:

* How well do you use eye contact? Starting today, notice if you look directly
into the eyeballs of the people you communicate with. If you find you have a
problem doing this consider these pointers:

1. Start small and slowly. Practice making eye contact for a few seconds at
a time. Just make contact for a few seconds and then discreetly move to
another part of the face-lower forehead or bridge of nose. You can also
look down, but only for a second or two. Then look back up and engage the
eyes again.

2. Relax. Consistent, steady eye contact doesn't mean you stare at a
person throughout the entire conversation. You need to make easy,
relaxed contact for a short while and then allow your glance to comfortably
look away and then come back.

3. Smile. Just the simple act of smiling while speaking can make eye contact
more relaxed and easier for you. Let your face show how you feel.

4. Increase the amount of time you make eye contact. Little by little it will
become less of an issue, less of an obstacle, less of a barrier. The key is
for eye contact to become second nature to you. That takes practice.

5. Concentrate. You have to give the person you're talking to your full
attention. If another person walks by who may be more "interesting" you
must make yourself focus on the person you're talking to and maintain eye
contact. Nothing is worse than talking to someone while your eyes are playing
the field. Finish your conversation with one person before you move on to the
next.

And one other thing that made this book a winner for me was Abudato's
use of real examples . . . he not only used himself, but also the
experiences of such speakers as Barry Farber, Richard Carlson, Bill
Clinton (before he became a great speaker), Kathie Lee Gifford, and
Joe Torre, to name just a few.

The book's subtitle says it all . . . Abudato urges you to BE YOURSELF
AND GET RESULTS . . . read what he has to say, and you should be able
to do just that.

5.0 out of 5 stars Heartfelt Thanks, April 18, 2007

By	Dave Carpenter "Peak Performance Scholar" (Atlanta, GA) - See all my reviews (TOP 1000 REVIEWER)

This review is from: Speak from the Heart: Be Yourself and Get Results (Hardcover)

As a professional speaker, I long ago learned the secret of "speaking from the heart." And, most of the better books on public speaking do in fact make this among their most important points. But, by using this critical point as his book title, Steve Adubato has brought this important concept front and center. Loud and clear!

One of the things I liked most about this book was its excellent organization. The author connects with his great title by devoting the first part of the book to "Communicating with Passion." Then, the author drills down on the specific skills that support ones ability to speak with passion.

In an age where so many books are not well organized and therefore tax the reader with developing ones own analytical framework for the subject, this book lays out a sound framework for being a great communicator. The framework is then well supported by both theory, and anecdotes that serve to effectively drive home the learning point.

At the risk of being picky, my sole disappointment is that the author acknowledges some leading self improvement greats (e.g., Dyer, Robbins, et al) as among the very best speakers, but regretfully never shares what he thinks makes each of them such a standout. Is the only learning point from these greats that they speak from the heart? Personally, I believe each of those listed draws on many of the other points made by Adubato. Given the authors clear expertise, I would have benefited even more had he shared his insights into what makes those he learned from so great.

MMMMmmmm...so Steve, is that the sequel? "Speakers from the Heart"?? I am ready to preorder that gem.