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Trans Forming Families: Real Stories About Transgendered Loved Ones, 2nd Edition (Paperback)

by Jessica Xavier (Introduction), Mary Boenke (Foreword), Arlene Istar Lev (Foreword) "It has been a little more than four years since the first edition of Trans Forming Families was published, and in that time so much..." (more)
Key Phrases: gender variant children, trans people, trans persons, Social Services, New Kids, Daddy Danny (more...)
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No concerned parent, family member or friend can fail to be moved by these stories; an indispensible resource. -- James Green, past president of FTM, International

The variety of people -- deaf, Iranian, gay, straight, young, old, single, Christian, feminist -- present an extremely diversified range of experiences. -- Gary Bowen, Past Coordinator-in-Chief, American Boyz

Trans Forming Families is one of the most pro-family books I've ever read... -- Phyllis Frye, trans attorney, past Ed of the international Conference on Transgender Law and Employment

Product Description
This is a family oriented book published especially for families, friends, and others interested in understanding and learning about transgendered persons. The first edition sold out; this is the expanded second edition, published in 2003. It deals with all ages and types of transgender - FTM, MTF, Intersex, crossdressing, and androgeny. It is an ideal first book for families who want to understand.

There are seven sections. Section one is comprised of stories written by parents of very young gender variant children, i.e pre-schoolers and school age children who insisted they were not the gender their parents thought they were. Section two is by parents of adult transgenders, each describing their child's coming out process and the journey this revelation started for both the adult child AND the whole family. Section three includes stories by spouses and partners who have weathered the trauma of living through a gender change with their most significant other. Section four is by strategic others - grandparents, siblings, friends, children of trangenders.

In Section five, transgender folks tell about coming out to their children, with both positive and some painful results. Section Six includes short autobiographies by transgender persons, who are FTM, MTF, Intersex, crossdresser, and androgenous. In Section Seven several psychotherapists talk about common issues transgenders raise in therapy.

The back matter includes:
Glosary of Transgender Terms
National Transgender Organizations
Transgender Family Reading List
...How to Contact Authors

Also included are short quotations, quips, poems and items that are both profound and humorous. A quick, fun read.

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 192 pages
  • Publisher: Oak Knoll Press (February 1, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0615123074
  • ISBN-13: 978-0615123073
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.5 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #849,755 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Must read? Nope - GOTTA HAVE!, April 18, 2001
This has to be one of the most powerful books I have ever read on how families deal with a Transgendered child. I cried, I yelled, and I recieved hope that some day, some where, people will understand.

This is a must for families and loved ones.

THANK YOU, Mary!

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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A great comfort to trans people and/or loved ones of people who are transgendered., January 9, 2006
By Book Lover (Ventura County, CA, United States) - See all my reviews
I believe being born transgendered is not a lifestyle choice, but probably coded in DNA somewhere. This book factually and carefully outlines the facts of life for transgendered people and their loved ones. These short stories will take the reader through a multitude of emotions, but end at one great and comforting thought...the issues can be dealt with and the transgendered themselves, as well as family and friends can come through this with grace. I ordered my copy through PFLAG T-Net and the author herself, sent me a personal note. I am a Christian, but a welcoming Christian who believes that all humans were made in His image. Because we are lucky enough to have come after Jesus Christ AND live at a time of modern medicine, the condition of being transgendered can be treated medically. While I am not transgendered myself, I have a loved one who I think is. I plan on keeping this book in my library and give it to that person when and if the time is right. A must have for anyone who is, cares about a trans person or who is curious about trangenderism.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Good for families, April 27, 2003
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This is a wonderful book for anyone who is trying to explain transgender to a family member, friend, or child. The stories in this book vary from one end of the gender continuum to the next. There are works from all different aged people. Some sections have been added from the original including work from trans people themselves as well as clinicians. If you are comming out to your loved ones anytime soon then this is the book to give them. It's a simple, quick read.
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