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by J. Shep Jeffreys (Author) "What is going on inside someone else's mindthe person walking by you on the street, standing behind you at the checkout stand, waiting at the..." (more)
Key Phrases: human grief response, exquisite witness, witness care provider, Compassionate Friends, Complications of the Human Grief Process, Older Adult Grief (more...)
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This Handbook for Care Providers could easily be renamed The Bible for Care Providers given its depth of coverage, enormous range of topics, soulfulness, and its usefulness as a guide for all grief-care-providers. - The Maryland Psychologist


‘So reader-friendly was this book that I’d happily encourage the interested bereaved to dip into it to help make sense of what they are experiencing and to gauge its normality.’ – David Kissane, Bereavement Care


I recommend this book wholeheartedly to healthcare chaplains who are wanting an introduction to the subject of grief, looking for a guide through the maze of current thinking, or (like me) needing to bring their knowledge a little more up to date. The book includes a very helpful summary of seminal theorists from Bowlby to Neimeyer and the insights of these and others are drawn on throughout the book. - Geoff Walters, Senior Chaplain at Pilgrams Hospice, Ashford, in Association of Hospice and Palliative Care Chaplain News, February 2006.



The authors wealth of experience, both personally and professionally, allows one to step into a world of practical clinical information, useful case studies, and deeply personal reflections that carry the reader to broader levels of understanding of the mourners path.


The interaction of the reader is a major component to the success of Helping Grieving People, as it allows insight into personal discovery which can only serve as a tool for working with others.


This book well serves professionals and grieving individuals as a template of understanding of the grief process, a practical guide for care providers, and a complete wealth of information on the subject of bereaved mourners. J. Shep Jeffreys has produced an invaluable tool for anyone working with issues of loss and grief by building a strong foundation of knowledge necessary to deal with the complexities associated with bereavement in todays world. - Linda Goldman, in Death Studies, 32: 693-699, 2008.




This Handbook for Care Providers could easily be renamed The Bible for Care Providers given its depth of coverage, enormous range of topics, soulfulness, and its usefulness as a guide for all grief-care-providers..
–The Maryland Psychologist, May 2005

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We are care providers all. Whether you’re a professional care provider or someone who wants to comfort a loved one in pain, you can learn how to accompany and support an anguished person on his or her "grief journey" when tears are not enough. Helping Grieving People teaches you how with practical guidelines on what to say, what to do, and how to act around a person who is grieving. Special emphasis is given to the needs of grieving children, parents, older adults, family caregivers as well as the dying and chronically ill and/or impaired. The book includes a rich source of both supportive and clinical suggestions, discusses the role of culture, family and nature of the death on the grief reactions. Personal stories, case histories, and self-awareness exercises are woven in throughout the book.

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 376 pages
  • Publisher: Brunner-Routledge; 1 edition (January 1, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0415946034
  • ISBN-13: 978-0415946032
  • Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #574,202 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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What is going on inside someone else's mindthe person walking by you on the street, standing behind you at the checkout stand, waiting at the stop light in the car next to you, smiling hello as you enter the elevator, serving you coffee or sitting across the aisle in the commuter trainwhat he or she is thinking. Read the first page
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human grief response, exquisite witness, witness care provider, human grief process, unfinished loss material, old loss material, helping grieving people, grief complications, care provider interventions, very negative factor, health care representative, many grieving people, grief material, grieving person, complicated grief, adult grief, unfinished grief, serious alert, traumatic grief, current grief, ill loved one, professional care providers, distorted grief, grief journey, mourning behaviors
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Compassionate Friends, Complications of the Human Grief Process, Older Adult Grief, United States, Review Chapters, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, American Psychiatric Association, Mother's Day, Suggested Responses, Safeway Samba, Shep Jeffreys, Factors Interfering, Helping Children Ages, Lou Gehrig, Principle Four, World Trade Center
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5.0 out of 5 stars A Bible for Grief/ Yours and Theirs!, August 27, 2005
This book could easily be called a bible given the depth, breadth and soulfulness of its content. Dr. Jeffreys speaks of the need for the care provider to communicate from the head, hand and heart, and he does just that in this book. It is rare to find a text so full of relevant information, well organized, well presented, and at the same time nurturing the heart of the reader. This makes for an amazing experience. The care provider leaves this book with heightened empathy, with increased love of self and of fellow man, what a unique gift! I have been in practice over 25 years as a psychologist with a specialty in grief, loss, and trauma. I trained with the senior staff of Elizabeth Kubler Ross, MD and I find Dr. Jeffrey's book to be the most comprehensive writing I have ever encountered on this topic. I highly recommend it for everyone, the professional, the friend or family member and each individual, for we are all grieving people at some time , arn't we?
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Most Comprehensive Book On Grieving On The Market Today., February 17, 2005
This book is a gift to clinicians and lay people alike. As a counselor working with grieving families for fourteen years, it immediately gave me fresh insight and hands-on tools for working with the complexities of those who are grieving. Each situation for a respective client is unique. This book helped me to think outside the box, and to bring even greater depth to the healing process.

I also believe this book would be directly helpful to those who are personally grieving. It addresses one of the questions that my clients most often bring to sessions: "Is what I am experiencing normal?" This book is laid out in a highly readable and organized fashion. I have a full library of books on the subject, and this is the best one I have seen thus far.
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5.0 out of 5 stars 5 stars--superior resource--a "must have", January 24, 2005
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Dr. Jeffreys has written a highly readable, comprehensive book on grief. Not only does he cover grief from an academic viewpoint, he teaches us, the readers, how to "celebrate the dignity and authority of the grieving person" as an "exquisite witness." Helping Grieving People: When tears are not enough helps us to understand that all change contains loss and grief. This book contains personal stories and practical, easy to follow directions for coping with grief and/or helping another. Jeffreys teaches us how to integrate thinking, feeling, and doing. He makes distinctions between the usual (or expected grief process) and complicated grief. He includes exercises and case studies to clarify the material. The book is appropriate for grief counselors and lay people alike. Highly recommended.
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