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The Parent's Problem Solver: Smart Solutions for Everyday Discipline Dilemmas and Behavioral Problems (Paperback)

~ (Author) "Like most things in life, anger is anger neither all good nor all bad..." (more)
Key Phrases: notice your body language, thinking influence the way, respect your child, She's Feeling, Reframe Ask, The Sore Spot (more...)

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Well written by experienced professionals, these two books describe child-rearing problems and solutions in brief chapters. Neither book is meant to be read from cover to cover but instead referred to as situations arise, limiting usefulness in the library. Goldstein, who teaches child development at Johns Hopkins University, and coauthor Gallant, a writer specializing in family issues and education, have organized The Parenting Bible into three parts based upon a child's age: the first five years, ages six to nine, and ages ten to 13. Each part is color-coded on the edge of the page and contains topics phrased as a question (e.g., "How can I help my child adjust to moving?") for the appropriate age. The descriptions of children and the resolution of issues are based upon the theories of child development researcher Jean Piaget and psychosocial theorist Erik Erikson, offering an accessible way for parents to understand their theories. The Parent's Problem Solver was written by a pediatrician/licensed midwife with over 20 years' experience in parenting issues. Tobin has developed methods for solving problems using the Three Rs (reframe, reflect, resolve) and the acronym STOP (see, think, observe, put it together). These methods, along with worksheets at the ends of chapters (problematic for libraries), are meant to help resolve parenting issues. The chapters are arranged alphabetically by topic (e.g., "Crying"), and the book closes with an annotated list of resources for each chapter that includes books, web sites, and organizations. Goldstein and Tobin do not concur on many topics, such as the use of pacifiers or what to do when children wake up at night, which will frustrate parents. Tobin's list of resources will be useful for library collection development, but Goldstein's book covers more topics and, given its organization by age, is more conducive to browsing, making it the more likely choice for public libraries. Alice Hershiser, Reedville, VA
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"Discipline, in a nutshell, is giving children tools to succeed in life. This book shows parents how."--William Sears, M.D., coauthor of The Baby Book and The Discipline Book

"Dr. Spock helped us understand our children, but Dr. Tobin helps us understand ourselves. By the time you finish reading the first chapter, you'll find a new approach to parenting problems that you can rely on."--John and Linda Friel, The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do

"This is a wonderful book! Dr. Tobin gives us a brand-new twist on solving problems with our kids. If Dr. Tobin can't be your pediatrician, read her book!"--Jack Canfield, coauthor of Chicken Soup for the Mother's Soul --This text refers to the Kindle Edition edition.

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Product Details

Paperback: 368 pages
Publisher: Three Rivers Press; 1 edition (June 25, 2002)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0609807617
ISBN-13: 978-0609807613
Product Dimensions: 7.9 x 5.2 x 0.9 inches
Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces

Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars See all reviews (19 customer reviews)

Amazon.com Sales Rank: #631,808 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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Like most things in life, anger is anger neither all good nor all bad. Read the first page

Key Phrases - Statistically Improbable Phrases (SIPs): (learn more)
notice your body language, thinking influence the way, respect your child, sleep issues, sucking her thumb

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She's Feeling, Reframe Ask, The Sore Spot, Anxiety Disorders, Fear Generally, American Academy of Pediatrics, Reframe Begin, Clear Message, Mixed Message, Reframe Consider, Reframe Take, Resolve Think

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This book cites 21 books:

My Baby by Inc. Marquand Books in Back Matter
How Weaning Happens by Diane Bengson in Back Matter
Ben Has Something to Say: A Story About Stuttering (Concept Books (Albert Whitman)) by Laurie Lears in Back Matter
Raising Respectful Kids in a Rude World: Teaching Your Children the Power of Mutual Respect and Consideration by Gary D. McKay in Back Matter
Tired of Yelling: Teaching our Children to Resolve Conflict by Lyndon D Waugh in Back Matter

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1.0 out of 5 stars Bogus Reviews, July 28, 2006

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Notice the verbage used by the first 12 of 18 reviewers. Pretty similar. And these were all written in about a 7 day period of July-August 2002. Bogus reviewers.

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5.0 out of 5 stars My favorite parenting resource!, April 14, 2003

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I don't usually write reviews, but this book is so great that it deserves another review (even though everyone else who has reviewed this book so far thinks it's great too)! Dr. Cathryn has such a wonderful way of writing, it almost feels like she is having a dialogue with you. I found that as I was reading, I would have a mental question, and low and behold, within the next section she would address it, just like she knew what I was thinking. Her advise is practical and realistic, and she presents it in a very non-judgemental way, which makes it very easy to read all of the different sections, even those that may not seem applicable (yet!).

I originally bought the book to address sleep issues, but have been very pleased by all of the other issues she addresses. She provides very simple instructions to follow to correct this all too common problem. And they worked!! She also explains the why's and possible consequences of not changing certain behaviors, which is enlightening and certainly motivating.

Thanks Dr. Cathryn for providing such a great resource for new parents!

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5.0 out of 5 stars THIS BOOK SAVED MY LIFE...., August 2, 2002

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I can't believe how much easier it is to deal with the every day "stuff" now
that I'm using the 3R's. Reframe, reflect, and resolve comes naturally and
is a simple tool for realizing the areas you need to work on. Now, when I'm
finding myself getting upset with one of my kids, I stop and ask myself,
"How am I caught up in this situation?" This book is a MUST for anyone who
is baffled by their kids behavior.

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Published on August 2, 2002

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5.0 out of 5 stars MY KIDS FEEL GREAT !!
My problems haven't disappeared BUT I feel a great deal less frustrated when my kids whine and bicker. I now have a way of working through problems that works! Read more

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5.0 out of 5 stars I FEEL GREAT !! MY KIDS FEEL GREAT !!
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