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Inside U: How to Become a Master of Your Own Destiny (Hardcover)

by Byong Yu (Author) "My family is Korean..." (more)
Key Phrases: martial arts community, martial arts studio, mind garden, Master Ko, Monkey Man, San Francisco (more...)
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Inside U is an incredibly moving, engrossing, and almost-mythological tale of how one man endured the highest of highs and the lowest of lows throughout his extraordinary life.

Born into Japanese-occupied Korea, young Byong Yu was diagnosed as developmentally retarded. Convinced that he would become a burden to his family, doctors told his parents to put him in a corner of the room and let him die. Consequently, survival was an instinct that he honed at a very early age.

Byong was known to the village as "Ugly Boy," yet he refused to give up. His destiny led him to a wise and gifted martial-arts master who agreed to accept him as a student. In the years that followed, Byong used the profound wisdom instilled in him by his master to triumph through the Korean War, years of poverty, and homelessness.

After emigrating to the United States, Byong struggled to live the American dream, but a tragedy that drove him to the brink of suicide almost shattered his spirit once and for all. However, in the long and arduous process of rebuilding his life, he managed to become a martial-arts legend—one who now trains some of Hollywood’s elite.

This is Byong Yu’s story, but even more important, it’s a guidebook to discovering your true path—whatever that may be—and conquering any obstacle that stands in your way. As Master Yu says, "I have triumphed over countless obstacles that I have faced in my lifetime. Yet through it all, I have managed to fulfill my destiny and come to intimately discover who and what I am. And if I can do it, so can you!"

About the Author
Born in 1935, Grandmaster Byong Yu, Ph.D., was raised in Korea and later moved to the United States in 1964. Overcoming physical disabilities, language barriers, racial prejudice, and homelessness, Master Yu (nicknamed "Lightning Bolt") took the martial arts circuit by storm and eventually attained the highest rank of black belt (9th degree) from the World Tae Kwon Do Federation. He was inducted into the "World Professional Martial Arts Association’s Hall of Fame," voted "Man of the Century," and in 2001 received the prestigious "Martial Arts World Federation Lifetime Achievement Award." Master Yu presently resides in the Los Angeles area, where, at the age of 67, he continues to teach martial arts at his school located inside the CBS Studio Center. His life story is currently being chronicled in a full-length feature film project entitled Monkey Man.


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Hay House (August 15, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1401902111
  • ISBN-13: 978-1401902117
  • Product Dimensions: 9.4 x 6.4 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #1,908,400 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars A Psychological Perspective, September 17, 2003
By Dr. Cynthia Allison (Los Angeles, CA USA) - See all my reviews
As a psychologist, I like to find books for my patients that will inspire and educate them. Grandmaster Yu's book serves all of us well. He shows us that we can overcome great psychological shortcomings. That we can heal ourselves. This is valuable, he gives us all hope. And we discover some survival secrets of martial artists, which provide the smarts and encouragement necessary to get into the game of life and win.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Great man - Great Master - Great book, October 25, 2004
By Steven Kahn (Studio City, CA) - See all my reviews
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I am lucky enough to have Master Yu as my master. So my review is biased. But all I can say is that he is the real deal. He still trains with his black belts and we have trouble keeping up with him most of the time.

In his book he is brave enough to show how though he is a 9th Degree Grand Master he can have foibles and weaknesses like all the rest of us - but still grow and become a better person despite his weaknesses. He doesn't pretend to be a guru or Buddha. He has had life struggles like every average person.

Just today Master Yu got this e-mail from this person who read his book (I will exclude their name so that they may remain anonymous)...

Master Yu,
I just finished reading your book and was completely inspired by your story. I am a 25 year old recovering alcoholic in my first month of sobriety and it has been extremely tough. Your story has really motivated me to continue on my path of becoming a better, stronger person. I have also been inspired to take up Tae Kwan Do. I really believe that it will strengthen me on my path to sobriety. Thank you so much for your time. You really have no idea how much your book has meant to me. Take care.
Sincerely,
Xxxxxxx Xxxxxxx

Master Yu just smiles when he gets a note or e-mail like this.

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3.0 out of 5 stars A Good Autobiography, April 27, 2006
By C. J. Hardman (San Diego, CA USA) - See all my reviews
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Byong Yu is a name martial arts historians will recognize from the late 1960's and 70's--he was a well respected competitor in American point and contact karate tournaments. Here Yu tells his life's story from his birth in Japan-occupied Korea, growing up with a childhood disability that hindered his coordination (he didn't speak until age 5) and nearly got him abandoned by his mother. He describes how he learned focus, found a taekwondo teacher, joined the South Korean Army at age 15 to fight North Korea, trained as a medic, lost a brother in the Korean War, and returned home to teach taekwondo in Sin Kil Dong, a village outside Seoul.

Byong Yu describes some of the politics of taekwondo in Korea, and is honest about some of the problems associated with martial arts and the individual. He is continually examining his own tendancy towards violence and the authoritarian model of the martial arts teacher, writing:

"By the time I reached the age of 20, such worship turned out to be a double edged sword. With more than 5,000 students under my control, I was a powerful person in the Seoul martial arts community. Because so many people were treating me as if I were an ancient emperor, I began to act like a dictator. My martial arts had become unbalanced due to youth and pride." (page 47)

Yu relates his abusive nature, describing an incident where his Master Ko sent him to a rural village to test six students of the teacher there. Disgusted at the size of the humble school in the back of the local market, Yu used his position as a highly ranked teacher to heap physical abuse on the students, destroy a 50-lb sack of rice by kicking through it, and also kicking out a post holding up part of the market's roof. When he returned and tried to justify his rudeness to Master Ko, he was sent on a teaching "Mission" to another rural village, where he is told to establish a school.

While the hardships Yu describes going through trying to gain students in this little town convey an important lesson, I had difficulty believing that he as a stranger could move in to a "...communal farming village where everyone paid a lot of attention to the singing birds and blossoming flowers" and get a people who were "...totally opposed to violence..." where he knew absolutely no-one, to study a pugalistic discipline. Yu is describing a traditional Korean Rural village where everyone knows each other and the families have been there for hundreds of years. Even more incredible in this setting is Yu's claim that at the end of the chapter that he had over 60 students including the Elderly (!). Small wonder he does not refer to this "village" by name. (page 52-55)

On the other hand, Yu's description coming to America to start a new life (starting with Chapter 6) has the ring of truth. In Korea, he is a respected martial arts Champion and a Graduate of Korea University. He decides to travel to the U.S. to teach taekwondo. Yu describes the shame and confusion he felt not knowing enough English to do basic things, how after his arrival in the United States, through his own lack of understanding he fast became homeless and penniless. Particularely interesting was his initial perception of America as a sort of paradise, and the dawning realization that it would take a lot of effort to survive. His story really could be that of a lot of immigrants who put their hearts into learning the language, going to school, and working--making themselves part of America. Once settled and enrolled at UC Berkely, Yu keeps up a hectic schedule of going to school, teaching taekwondo, and then working as a dishwasher at Denny's. Sleep is precious an rare, and like many students (now as then), he survives mainly on a stately diet of Top Ramen.

Another particularely interesting account is his association with Taekwondo teacher Kang Myung-kyu of Sacramento, who is referred to as "Master K". Kang is Yu's senior and was one of his teachers in Korea. Evidently, it was customary for established "Masters" to use newcomers such as Yu as virtual slave labor. Kang lavishes $300.00 dinners on the sons of friends back in Korea, and pays his 6 Korean instructors $5.00 -- FIVE DOLLARS! a month. The account of Yu's confrontation with and departure from Kang on pages 83-85 is rare in print and a must-read. Such things are generally hidden among Korean Immigrants.

Byong Yu's story is worth reading. Although I didn't care for the "self-help" applications in the second part of the book, they do include personal anecdotes. For the life of me I can't figure out why on earth this book was marketed as "self-help". My biggest complaint is that in trying to get this autobiography to fit into the self-help mold, and including all of the student testemonies on the cover, it seems the volume has something of an identity crisis. Yu's honest autobiography is enough of a sell without having to repackage and gussy up this volume. It also would have been nice to see pictures of Master Ko, or training in the "early days" in Korea in the photo section and fewer celebrity buddy shots. I bought this book because I wan interested in reading about the experiences of a Korean Immigrant and martial artist, not because he had his picture taken with Steven Segal or Chuck Norris.
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