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~ Nina Brown (Author) "Do many of the following words or phrases fit a particular person or persons at your work site?..." (more)
Key Phrases: destructive narcissist, underdeveloped narcissism, narcissistic boss (more...)
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Sufferers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder may be bosses, fellow workers, or employees, but whatever their status, they can make working anything from a headache to a nightmare. Narcissists like to take credit for others’ work, inflate their own accomplishments, and expect — even demand — an unlimited supply of favors from their colleagues. Nina Brown provides a no-nonsense, hands-on approach to coping with — and overcoming — such stresses without losing integrity or self-control. An expert on group interpersonal relationships, she offers realistic strategies for changing expectations, listening and responding constructively, learning not to take things personally, and deciding when it’s best to simply ignore especially outrageous behavior.


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Narcissists in the workplace take credit for others' work, inflate their own accomplishments, and expect an unlimited supply of favors from their colleagues. Working with or for such a person often means feeling discredited and unrecognized in their shadow. This new book from the author of "Children of the Self-Absorbed" shows readers that they are not helpless in face of a narcissistic coworker and that they needn't consider giving up their rights or their job. Instead, she offers practical methods for managing the narcissist's destructive behaviors and making sure one's own work gets the respect it deserves. Realistic strategies are suggested for changing expectations, responding in a constructive manner, not taking things personally, and deciding when it's best to ignore especially outrageous behavior.

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  • Paperback: 196 pages
  • Publisher: New Harbinger; 1 edition (October 1, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1572242922
  • ISBN-13: 978-1572242920
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.4 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.1 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #123,356 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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4.0 out of 5 stars Practical help and sensible advice, September 20, 2002
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If you think that you're acting in unusual ways and feeling frustrated at work for no discernable reason...you may want to read this book. In it you'll find out what destructive narcissists do in the office environment, and it will convince you you're not imagining the slow drain of energy and increasing discomfort you feel! Brown's detailed descriptions not only of the work-related behaviors of destructive narcissists but also of the feelings these behaviors inspire in others is concrete and helpful. Especially useful is her delineation of the four response stages that you might feel when confronted with a destructive narcissist--she rightly identifies a process of initial elation, when the person is entirely focused on impressing you (I would call this the "honeymoon" period, which comes from the language of domestic violence), to confusion, self-doubt, and then overwhelming frustration. She then offers practical coping strategies that you can enact immediately and that really do work, whether your workplace narcissist is your boss or your colleague.

Just knowing that *you* are not overreacting or imagining things is the best reason for reading this book. This book appeared on the shelf when I most needed it. Although I would have liked to see a chapter dealing with how destructive narcissists can actually enlist the help of others in the workplace in their quest for control, in general I found this book very helpful and enlightening.

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