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Of the many stay-at-home mommies who dream of writing the Great American Novel, few actually try; fewer still get published. Though not a novel, The Big Rumpus certainly is the Great American Tale of one woman's schlep through early motherhood--honest, hilarious, and irresistibly naughty. Ayun Halliday, a highly caffeinated and refreshingly immodest city gal, acknowledges that motherhood is pretty much like contending with a cloud of locusts swarming toward one's wheat--then laughs her "heiner" off about it.

Under her gifted muse's care, stories about childbirth, holiday acrobatics (sans religious ties), and raising two kids in a tiny New York apartment read like standup comedy routines; they also give way to bittersweet reflections on her own youth--goofy boyfriends, repressed sexual behavior, and all. Yes, she swears; yes, she delves deeply into issues anatomical, gastronomical, and diaporial. But for hip stay-at-homers who find sustenance in friendships honed at neighborhood playgrounds (not slapped together like cold deli meats at those contrived mommy-and-me meetings), Ayun Halliday might just become the patron saint of blissfully imperfect motherhood. Even mommies who lack Halliday's affinity for "unhusking" their breasts in public will find moments of empathy in this mirthful sprint through life as the family "Milk Monkey." --Liane Thomas



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Becoming a mother is a scary proposition. Now throw in strollers on subway stairs, crowded sidewalks, and approximately eight million New Yorkers. This is the life of an urban mother, and the fear of those who will soon carry that title is palpable. The Big Rumpus puts a comic slant on what it's like to be a "hipmama." Halliday, the often bumbling metro mother of two, is no stranger to documenting her life in the concrete jungle. She is the proud creator of the two-year-old quarterly zine, the East Village Inky, named after her daughter India (Inky), upon which this book expands. Her strong narrative voice evokes the power and demands of her life and the city in which she lives. Essential reading for all urban mothers.
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Seal Press (February 26, 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1580050719
  • ISBN-13: 978-1580050715
  • Product Dimensions: 12.5 x 5.5 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (51 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #649,253 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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11 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars big city gal gives birth to great book, March 11, 2002
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Built on the bones of her four-year-old 'zine, The East Village Inky, Halliday's book expands on the experiences of (in her phrase) "a certain transplanted Hoosier mother tromping around Brooklyn, the East Village and several subway lines, more or less joyously burdened with an infant, a coughing three-thumbed three-year-old desperate to kiss him, a big broken orange bag, a Bug's Life lunchbox, an ill-advised plastic sackful of bulk food and a deteriorating stroller." Fans of her quarterly, hand-lettered, forty page 'zine will find the same irreverent, self-deprecating tone in Halliday's tales of rearing her young in the asphalt jungle (though they'll have to settle for a mere half dozen of her endearingly quirky pen-and-ink illustrations). A former massage therapist, off-off-Broadway actress, and waitress, Halliday had feared that her urban hipster life was over after the birth of her first child, India (the eponymous "Inky"). Instead, she's transformed the minutiae of their daily doings into these funky and often touching stories that embrace universal themes (high-spirited preschoolers, sleep deprivation, weaning) while providing a nose-against-the-glass tour of big city life with kids: falafel joints, rooftop parties, and multi-culti friendships forged on tarmacked playgrounds. Mommy voyeurism at its best.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Hip Mama x 2, June 9, 2002
By Virginia Lore "rumtussle" (Seattle, WA United States) - See all my reviews
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Rumpus: uproar, chaos, fracas, bedlam...see parenthood.

What Ariel Gore does for the single young mother on welfare in The Mother Trip, Ayun Halliday does for the older mother of young children in an urban setting. The message from the trenches is loud and clear: we may not be June Cleaver, but we love our messy imps.

Ayun Halliday writes with humor and love of her husband Greg and two children, Inky and Milo. Their day-to-day adventures stomping through the streets of the Big Apple make hilarious and heart-tugging reading. Halliday is particularly gifted at capturing the wisdom of her preschool-aged daughter who says things like "Daddy smells bad" as the Dad in question is puking his guts out while Halliday is going into labor with her second child.

Birth and nursing stories aside, Halliday writes from the perspective of someone who has landed on a strange planet and is determined to make the best of it. In other words, she gives voice to the kind of mother I find myself being, which makes her work almost impossible to put down.

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5.0 out of 5 stars I want more RUMPUS!, March 29, 2002
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Okay, I've read something like 20 books about parenting but I related to none of them. They all embraced scrapbooking, stenciling, etc. and I thought 'Who does this?' Then I read The Big Rumpus, a refreshing look at life from a real mother's perspective. Halliday is an intelligent woman who does endless mom tasks, struggles with philosophies of motherhood, and (YAY) nurses her babes while figuring out how to get around NYC. She says things that I've thought but never dared say - (Sigh) I'm not alone! If you are a mom, want to be a mom, care for children, or want to read about a cool woman's adventures in the big city, read this book. If you nurse, have an intact son, co-sleep, wear your baby, and/or know how to laugh at yourself, buy this book. If you are 30-something and want to remember high school, read this book. If you love or hate the holidays, read this book. Heck, I think anyone will find this book touching, funny and just plain entertaining. Buy this book, you'll be glad you did.
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After reading Ayun Halliday's "No Touch Monkey", I missed her humor so much I ran right out and bought "The Big Rumpus"! Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars This book could laugh you into labor...
Ayun Halliday felt like a sister to me after reading this hilarious memoir of her pregnancies and first years of motherhood. Read more
Published 18 months ago by Revolutionary Mommy

5.0 out of 5 stars Very fun to read - totally real life mom stuff.
I just happened on one of Ayun's other books while on vacation, and man was that good luck for me. This book is great fun for moms to read, since you will relate with lots if not... Read more
Published on July 24, 2007 by D. Izzarelli

5.0 out of 5 stars I give this book to all my expecting girlfriends
I love this book. It makes me laugh and warms my heart. Honestly, there are few books that can truly make one laugh out loud, on the bus ride home after a day of work even... Read more
Published on March 20, 2007 by Fremontmama

5.0 out of 5 stars brilliant
Reading The Big Rumpus makes me want to move to New York City, have kids, and hang out with Ayun Halliday. Read more
Published on March 19, 2007 by A. Mortensen

2.0 out of 5 stars Ehh.
While some of the author's words are touching and ring true (the excerpt on her daughter being in the NICU, for example), I found most of the book to be tiresome. Read more
Published on March 18, 2007 by A. Dameron

3.0 out of 5 stars So self-consciously hip
I just didn't like or appreciate this book, which I ordered after reading and enjoying Ms. Halliday's "Dirty Sugar Cookies. Read more
Published on January 24, 2007 by S. Heil

5.0 out of 5 stars 5 stars doesn't do it justice!
A hilarious and heart-warming trip through the adventures of mommy-land! Good thing I didn't read this when I was pregnant, I almost peed my pants as it was. Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars I loved it so much
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From the first line of her first chapter, the author seems to resent being a mother. I found it hard to sympathize with her plight: she considered herself an artist, but then... Read more
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