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Friendshifts: The Power of Friendship and How It Shapes Our Lives
 
 

Friendshifts: The Power of Friendship and How It Shapes Our Lives (Paperback)

~ (Author) "One Sunday afternoon about a year ago, I called my close friend Joyce just to say hello, but she was not home..." (more)
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A rewarding, sensible self-help manual for making, keeping and improving friendships, sociologist Yager's how-to takes its title from a word she coined, which refers to the way friendships change as we move through life's stages. Drawing on hundreds of interviews with adults, children, teenagers, workers and executives, she examines the challenges to friendship posed by marriage, divorce, parenthood, job changes and geographic relocation. Yager, whose 10 nonfiction books include Single in America, has distilled a morass of psychological and sociological research, including her own. Among her findings: it takes an average of three years to form a genuine friendship; women, as they advance in the corporate hierarchy, increasingly distrust workplace friendships, whereas men open up and trust these friends more; friendships can be a source of help for dysfunctional families, and for adults who had poor early relationships with parents or siblings. This primer amply supports its central message, that friends are vital to our emotional health.
Copyright 1996 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.


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"Friendshifts" is the word that sociologist Yager (Business Protocol: How To Survive & Succeed in Business, LJ 6/15/91) invented to explain how friendships change throughout life. Drawing on her own research, Yager discusses how friendships develop and how changes such as relocation, marriage, or a new job often provoke changes in relationships. Yager sees making friends as a skill that can be learned, but she cautions that each friendship is unique, with its own rules and privileges. Arguing that shared values are more important in predicting the longevity of a friendship than shared interests, Yager gives practical advice on how to nurture new friendships, maintain old friendships, salvage shaky friendships, and terminate destructive ones. Friendships at work, friendships with relatives, and ethnic, racial, and gender friendship patterns are also covered. Throughout, Yager ably demonstrates how friends can improve the quality of our lives, enhance our self-esteem, provide encouragement, and compensate for family defects. Well recommended for public libraries.
Lucille M. Boone, San Jose P.L., Cal.
Copyright 1996 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 287 pages
  • Publisher: Hannacroix Creek Books (October 1, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1889262293
  • ISBN-13: 978-1889262291
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.3 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (17 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #187,994 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars one of the best I've ever read!, December 21, 2000
Friendshifts is one my favorite books of all time! I read it cover to cover and still keep it at my bedside as a reference! It has helped me to understand why some of my friendships have lasted 20 years and others only 20 minutes! What I found most interesting though, were the insights into all of the relationships in between. This book has helped me to discover why I may maintain a relationship with someone I instinctively prefer to hold at arm's length, and why I sometimes manage to lose touch with someone I hold dear. Friendships are an enormous part of my life and to understand them better, and to understand myself better, is nothing short of a blessing to me. I highly recommend this book to anyone interested in the many facets of friendship.
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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A useful read!, July 28, 2004
Understanding the changes that friendships go through is the first step to helping them last. This book helps you to do that. It gives the reasons behind why friends act and say the things they do, and how to handle shifts throughout the course of life. I wished I had read this book sooner-it may have helped me understand my own friendships more.And the advice here may help you to make an educated choice on whether to continue a friendship or end it. A great read and highly recommended.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Powerful book on power of friendship!, January 3, 2003
By Caryl J. Frawley (Louisville, KY United States) - See all my reviews
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Throughout our lives, friendships are among the most enduring and treasured relationships. They are often complex and of many variations: old friends, new friends, lifetime friends, close friends, casual friends, etc. Friendships are seldom static, and they evolve, grow, deepen and sometimes even wither and fade away. Sociologist and author Dr. Jan Yager, in her excellent book "Friendshifts: The Power of Friendship and How It Shapes Our Lives," explores all the various facets of these most precious connections. "Friendshifts" offers thoughtful, insightful and wise observations which can only serve to strengthen the "ties that bind" and increase our understanding of these dynamics. Highly recommended!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Great book to help you improve your friendships...even if you think you do not need help
FRIENDSHIFTS was great! I was looking for a book to help understand how friends seem to come and go at different stages in life. Read more
Published on July 20, 2006 by JRK

5.0 out of 5 stars Friends tell us who we are
No matter what stage in life we are in, friends are needed for sharing experiences and receiving support whether if good or bad things happen to us. Read more
Published on April 1, 2003 by Simona Nielsen

5.0 out of 5 stars Friendshifts-Power of Friendship by C. Hartline, Edreferral
Friendshifts is a very powerful,interesting and informative book on one of the most meaningful aspects of all our lives - our relationships with our friends. Dr. Read more
Published on December 24, 2002 by i800ther

3.0 out of 5 stars good but needed an editor, baadddd...
the content was very profound and enlightening but she needs to work on her writing skills. some of her sentences could have been arranged better, which made it a little hard to... Read more
Published on December 1, 2002

5.0 out of 5 stars Friendshifts: A Must Read
Friendshifts is one of the best books I've read this year. There were times when it was difficult for me to set the book down -- it was that interesting and thought provoking... Read more
Published on August 17, 2002 by NiceGuy1

5.0 out of 5 stars a must read for anyone who values friendships
Friendship is considered an important enhancement to a full and
rich successful life.
It ranks right up there with fulfilling work, a happy homelife
and good... Read more
Published on June 15, 2002 by art10708

5.0 out of 5 stars Friendshifts is also read in Germany!
„Friendship is the most important thing in my life", „Without my friends my life would not be worth living. Read more
Published on November 26, 2000

5.0 out of 5 stars The book was very informative and helpful.
This was just the book I needed to remind me that relationships, particularly friendships must be nurtured. Friends are a valuable resource. Read more
Published on October 25, 1999 by Elizabeth Stewart

5.0 out of 5 stars Great friendship tools for everyone!
I never consciously understood the value of cultivating and maintaining varied friendships throughout our lives. Friendshifts has opened my eyes immensely. Read more
Published on October 25, 1999 by Deborah

4.0 out of 5 stars Friendship Takes Work
Dr. Yager's thoughtful and encouraging book about relationships and their complexity is oblviously the result of important research and an ability to synthesize information and... Read more
Published on October 24, 1999

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