How do i deal with the petty stuff? my nephew and sisterinlaw are the golden ones. nephew runs down one of my four year olds on purpose and is not punished, in fact its brushed under the table. his mother even witnessed this and said he aimed right for him, motherinlaw says i spoke with my friends and they said it was normal seven year old behavior. no stinking way. i have raised two kids already 21/23 and they never nor did any of their friends run down a small child whose back was to them never even seen him coming. we have requested that our children be around our nephew when we are. when my motherinlaw was bringing over the nephews when i was at work, the golden child was allowed to take a toy he liked from my sons room and it never was returned. my son asked for his green motorcyle and mil said its gone i dont think he has it anymore, my son cried she told him to get over it. The favortisim is so great i prefer my sons not be around it. plus my nephew also has a history of hurting my oldest son 7, we let our sisterinlaw take our son home before we came so we could get the triplets ready, we get there we find out nephew wrapped up our son in the hameck and kicked him because he got in it. now sisterinlaw complains about her parents and how they treat her sons yet they always have them shes working. sil went to mil and wanted to know if i was upset. i told mil why did she go to you.? i told her i was upset, i ask all the time for the boys so i can have them. they all sneak over here with my nephews when i am at work to see my sons mil is watching them for me i work two days.
sisterinlaw never called me to tell me i would not have the boys mil announced she is going to have them, but did not say hey sil wanted me to let you know i will be having the boys, no that came after i said i was upset with her about a month later. mil remembers she MIGHT have told sil she would let me know.
so you see the petty stuff, can anyone help? my inlaws dont like me much because i am independent, i dont run to dadinlaw for every stinking thing. I choose to handle it on my own. like the 42yearold i am. so because i have a life and dont see my mommy and daddy everyday or weekend like sisterinlaw i am nothing but the dirt on their shoe. hey i still have four of your grandkids and i managed to carry three of them for 331/2 weeks to a healthy size. you people dont know how truly blessed you are.
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