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HeLa: How To Be Truly Immortal

1:14 AM PDT, May 22, 2009

This story begins with a sleepy if fascinating conversation with my late night study-buddy, Jan. We’re both night owls working on decoding certain levels of human experience that we wish to be able to change, enhance or amplify. Among my peers, he’s one of only a handful who really gets the more arcane things I’m into. And like few others, he always tells me something I never knew before which sparks intense debate, discussion, learning and more research.

Being a wizardly sort, Jan lives in Berkeley. If you’re a magically gifted world-changer in the San Francisco Bay area, and need help changing yourself, he’s definitely your man. I give him my highest recommendation and you a referral to his website here for more information.

A Little Night Music…

Henrietta Lacks, mother of the immortal HeLa cells

This particular evening, Jan was speaking of immortality and mentioned the cancer cells of Henrietta Lacks, branded “HeLa” cells by scientists. I’d never heard of Henrietta or her world famous cell cultures and finding out about them makes me want to spread the word rather like HeLa cells have spread…worldwide.

Henrietta Lacks was a homemaker living in Baltimore in 1951 when she was diagnosed with, and died of, virulent cervical cancer. During diagnosis, cells were taken from her tumor without her knowledge or consent and grown in some of medical science’s first cancer cell research.

Researchers found that HeLa cells had extraordinary properties. Unlike cells from other donors, they grew on everything. They grew out of control. They consumed the growth medium in their test tubes and Petri dishes and grew outside of them to infect lab equipment, entire labs and finally, the world. HeLa cells can survive freezing, dehydration, starvation, radiation and deep space. They are known to be virtually indestructible.

(There could quite literally be some of Henrietta Lacks in that glass you’re drinking from, right now. Mind that small speck on the rim there. Yes…that one.)

Because these were the first cells to be cultured for study, labs across the world wanted samples, which were grown and shipped to Russia, Paris, Chile, Amsterdam, London, Reykjavik and many other labs. And from there due to their extraordinary growth properties, they spread outward like a virus, worldwide.

HeLa cells were used to first culture then find the cure for polio and other diseases. They have learned to masquerade as cells from different parts of the body, and even as different diseases. In one notable incident, documented by author Harold Schmeck, American medical researchers had the unenviable task of notifying

“…Soviet scientists that the cells in which their viruses were growing were not even derived from Russian cancer patients. The cells actually originated from Henrietta Lacks…”

This interesting yet devastating property of HeLa meant that worldwide, contamination needed to be assumed, studies needed to be trashed, intense cleanroom protocols needed to be established and millions of dollars of research had to be done all over again. A commission was formed to contain the spread of HeLa, and today, genetic sequencing ensures the purity of research from HeLa contamination.

Now that you know some of the background, we’ll be picking up this thread in later posts. As Jan and I debated, immortality is in the eye of the beholder - be it the individual or the collective. But for now…

Enter the Goddess…

Crazy? No. While this may all sound like science fiction, it is most assuredly science fact. Though the woman herself perished, her cells have achieved true immortality. HeLa just can’t be stopped, so in a way, Henrietta Lacks has become the first known modern Immortal.

And in an interesting twist which brings in threads of my former life as a priestess in Northern European spirituality (yea, these many decades ago), Hela is also the name of the Nordic goddess of the Dead. She is typically depicted, as in this image, half white, living, and half black, dead.

Goddess, thy name is Henrietta Lacks.

Which brings me to the main theme of this afternoon’s symposium:

In what ways will you achieve True Immortality?

I’m not talking cellular immortality (which includes having children) but other ways. What will you leave behind you that will go on after your macrobody ceases to exist?

  • As the great philosophers, what immortal thoughts, questions and other cognitions will you leave behind?
  • As the developers of cures, what patterns or processes that help others will you bequeath the world?
  • What other things will survive you - perhaps forever?

Here is a place to let the world know, and get the word out about the value you will leave beyond your physical death. You can do that in the comment form below and we can continue this most interesting and provocative discussion…

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HeLa: How You Can Be Truly Immortal

4:07 PM PDT, May 21, 2009

I have a late night study-buddy named Jan Saeger. We’re both night owls and both working on decoding certain levels of human experience that we wish to be able to change, enhance or amplify. We’ve been researching the same kind of thing for ages, and among my peers he’s one of only a handful who really gets the more arcane things I’m interested in. Like few others, he always tells me something I never knew before and sparks intense debate, discussion, learning and more research.

Needless to say, being an arcane wizardly sort, Jan lives in Berkeley - you can see his website here for more information. If you’re a uniquely gifted world-changer and like most of us, need help changing yourself, he’s definitely your man. Highest recommendation.

A Little Night Music…

Henrietta Lacks, mother of the immortal HeLa cells

This particular night, Jan was speaking about immortality and mentioned the cervical cancer cells of Henrietta Lack, branded “HeLa” cells by scientists. I’d never heard of Henrietta or her world famous cell cultures and finding out about them makes me want to spread the word rather like HeLa cells have spread…worldwide.

Henrietta Lacks was a black homemaker living in Baltimore in  1951 when she was diagnosed with, and died of, virulent cervical cancer. During diagnosis, cells were taken from her tumor without her knowledge or consent and grown in some of medical science’s first cancer cell research.

What researchers found was that the HeLa cells had an extraordinary property - they grew on everything. They grew out of control. They consumed the growth medium in their test tubes and Petri dishes and grew outside of them to infect lab equipment, entire labs and finally, the world.

Because they were the first cells to be cultured, labs across the world wanted samples, which were grown and shipped to Russia, Paris, Chile, Amsterdam, London, Reykjavik. And from there, due to their extraordinary growth properties, spread out like a virus worldwide.

HeLa cells were used to first culture then find the cure for polio and other diseases. They have learned to masquerade as cells from different parts of the body, and even as different diseases. In one notable incident, documented by author Harold Schmeck, American medical researchers had the unenviable task of notifying “Soviet scientists that the cells in which their viruses were growing were not even derived from Russian cancer patients. The cells actually originated from Henrietta Lacks…”

This interesting yet devastating property of HeLa meant that worldwide, contamination needed to be assumed, studies needed to be trashed, intense cleanroom protocols needed to be established and millions of dollars of research had to be done all over again. A commission was formed to contain the spread of HeLa, and today, genetic sequencing ensures the purity of research from HeLa contamination.

Sound crazy? While this may all sound like science fiction, it is most assuredly science fact. Though the woman herself perished, her cells have achieved true immortality. HeLa just can’t be stopped, so in a way, Henrietta Lacks has become the first known true Immortal.

Which brings me to the main theme of this afternoon’s symposium:

In what ways will you achieve True Immortality?

I’m not talking cellular immortality (which includes having children) but other ways. What will you leave behind you that will go on after your macrobody ceases to exist?

As the great philosophers, what immortal thoughts, questions and other cognitions will you leave behind?

As the developers of cures, what patterns or processes that help others will you bequeath the world?

What other things will survive you - perhaps forever?

Here’s the place to let the world know, and get the word out about the value you will leave beyond your physical death. You can do that in the comment form below and we can continue this most interesting and provocative discussion…

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Ever since my hiatus…

11:43 PM PDT, May 20, 2009

I’m back from my email hiatus…just barely.

I’m quasi-back from my six week hiatus from email though not back in the office. What I deduced is that I need far more time offline, off email and incubating the juicy things bubbling on the back and middle burners in my life. On the front burner? Family, friends, real experiences (ie; offline, in the real world, like sand squishing between my toes and taking a whole hour to follow the flightpath of just one gull at the beach) and very long bouts of meditation. Lots more swimming. Softness of mittie ears rubbing affectionately against my ankles in the bower. Sunshine and moonlight. Yes.

Others are experiencing this need to unplug, in increasing amounts. The more I enjoyed my own vacation from electronical the more people began to gripe about it. Two items on the news the day I came back to watching a little limited tv - one on having teens unplug their cells and computers for 10 days (the teens actually recommended it to their peers) and another on “Staycation my ass, I’m saving up to go to freakin’ HAWAII. I DESERVE IT.” by an employee (one of many) on the edge. Scary, kids, but not all that unusual. We’re fed up, had it and not about to take anymore.

Here’s some help. Alex Fayle is guest writing on Men With Pens. He’s doing good work teaching soloprenurs to unplug and take real vacations. Read his sage words, they make sense. Then drop down and see what Byron Kati has to say below this:

First Alex’s blog post: http://bit.ly/17WE3W

And another, from which I quote: “frickin’ learn to delegate!” http://bit.ly/2Y0vvu

Then proceed on to a fix Alex offers in the form of inspiring emails designed to get you relaxing and recreating no matter where you are: http://bit.ly/8va00

“But Maryam, I *can’t* just uproot my life and go, what would people think??!”

I’m now getting this on a regular basis from coaching clients who just can’t see their way clear to making time for themselves. “What are you, meshugginah? Crazy? I got stuff to do and people to see. It would hurt my business if they thought I was being a slacker or a flake by taking time off for myself. That’s nuts!”  Sometimes it takes a doctor telling them to chill out or face a double bypass. Or we could all try to just listen to our bodies.

Are you listening to your body? To your heart? Are heart and head in congruence?

Byron Katie has some interesting words that parallel my experience on this. She says that another person’s opinion of you is never personal, because it’s not really about you, it’s totally about them. What YOU think and feel about things is about you and is my business. And what someone else thinks and feels is THEIR business. If I get upset about how you feel about me, I’m minding your business. And if I’m minding in your business, how can I be conscious, alive and present to my own life and business? The answer is that I can’t.

So ask yourself again, can you let go of others opinions of you? And if so, when?

Can you listen to the subtle voices of your body, and heart before they become the scream of the ambulance siren? When?

And anything that wouldn’t allow that to happen, you can uncreate, dissolve and release. Pulse your three cues:

yesyesyesyesyesyesyes…seeing the rose opening its petals to all possibility…feeling the delicious deep relaxation sweeping over you and clearing the way to manifesting magic in your life.

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-04-12

1:02 AM PDT, April 13, 2009
  • “Be Spirited in What you Do & Think” says @murnahan Curious? Read the archives: http://maryamwebster.com/blog/ Offline in 9-8-7-6-5-4-3-2-1 #
  • 15 mins until offline 6 WEEKS. Woo! Thought abt pre-tweeting 4u, but decided not in integrity. Gr8 talking w/@murnhan rt now on integrity… #
  • Sorry! Gave u link to Mad Hatter @Murnahan live webcast. Get on his real list tho, worth it, here: http://awebguy.com #
  • Cool Follow While I’m Gone: @murnahan. Dude is out of the box in CLIENT PROCUREMENT. His list is filling so if you need: http://murnahan.com #
  • Less than an hour to offine for 6 weeks. I promise you, if you take this time off you WILL have Gold and Pearls fall into your lap! #
  • #SanFrancisco Bay Area temp 77°F with winds @ 2mph. The sun is shining and I’m taking off for a beach bonfire & barbecue in 2hrs. w00t! #
  • RT @sabrinareich: Just added myself to the http://wefollow.com twitter directory under: #entrepreneur #productivity #crm #
  • RT @autismfamily: coming face to face with autism (4-4-09) Science Daily http://is.gd/qcZQ #asd #autism #
  • Part of experiment is 2 c if some1 cn disappear entirely leaving only yesterday’s electrons & make even stronger comeback. I predict: YES. #
  • Ppl DM’ing me lk crazy “Wht r U doing w/just 1.5 hrs 2 offline for 6 wks?” M: Enjoying apricots, Mittie Toshka, warm & breezy in the bower #
  • RT @Marielhemingway: wrote 4word 4friend’s yoga bk…i luv 2 write 4 othrs..it’s lk writing a luv letter…inspired by loving anothr|M: Yes! #
  • Hey @Meggy2105, @webaddict & @shenoi, thanks for the RT luv! #
  • RT @GeekAsana: @maryamwebster Mary’s Pizza Shack restaurants in the bay area are making GF pizza! |M: Ooo-ee lawd! #
  • RT @YogaHeals: Suffering from pain? Get on the mat and surrender. The heart will follow and the pain subsides. blessings to all #
  • One more thing for the #gfree - use Gluten-free Teff, Amaranth or Quinoa tortillas for easy pizza bases. Yes, you CAN haz pizza again! #
  • RT @Positive_Thinkr: “Soma distribution!” shouted a loud voice. “In good order, please. Hurry up there.” ~Aldous Huxley, Brave New World #
  • BTW, thx for retweets @NatalieTM & @WendyYBailey! Hug-hugs 2 you…. #
  • My next six weeks unplugged will be abt me reconnecting w/wonder of all outside the matrix. I love all of u - profound thanks & blessings! #
  • RT @markress: Thx 4 the Retweets …@maryamwebster Jus making sure I got U & thanked U |M: Asbolutely & mah pleasure! #
  • RtLifestyle=Check. Yoga, hikin’, swimmin’ - check. 90% vegan, no sugar & #gfree - check. @murnahan chat in 5 - priceless. (MUAHAHAHA!) #
  • RT @ChefAsata: @drflower Did u check out the hemp milk? What did you think? |M: Hemp milk is gr8! Like soy but bettr taste, no “beany” flvr #
  • RT @perrybelcher: Free Wordpress Templates http://www.tutzone.org/2009/02/free-wordpress-temp lates.html #
  • RT @markress: Filttr - mobile twitter interface from Filttr - Interface helps U Tweet easily thru Ur cell phone http://is.gd/qTDs #
  • RT @EFTRadio: That DOES sound lovely! |M: Yep, the kitties are particularly pleased. Growing butterfly attracting flowers 4 them #
  • RT @BiggiFraley - even worse, no @shermanhu live for 6 wks. We’ll miss u! |M: Tx Biggi! Absence mks heart grow fonder… Nothin’ but love! #
  • Round 2: Read 4 gr8 content while I’m off for 6 wks: @colderice @ellenbritt @loa_lover @nik_nik @eftradio @larryczerwonka @NancyMarmolejo #
  • 4 hours ’til offline for 6 glorious wks. Read while I’m gone for gr8 tweets: @shermanhu, @markress, @murnahan @redhotcopy @feleciaslattery #
  • RT @markress: Twitter search tool article http://is.gd/qTvy Here’s direct link 2 the tool itself http://is.gd/2fv #
  • RT @murnahan: A GREAT READ by A GREAT MARKETER: Top 10 Tips! http://bit.ly/sWU6s (by @jimconnolly) #
  • RT @FadiSemaan: How to get links that will help you website rank higher on Search engine - Google - SEO http://tinyurl.com/cmmx2n #
  • RT @AlohaArleen: I’m working w/Kona growers 2 set up ez access |M: Can feel..fangs growing…saliva dripping…NEED KONA COFFEE NOW… ROFL! #
  • RT @AlohaArleen: Time for cup of Kona Mountain Private Reserve Dark Roast. |M: Arleen, you’re killin me here. Peets ran out of Kona last wk! #
  • RT @sabrinareich: how to improve typography in your designs http://tr.im/ii4v from @smashingmag #
  • RT @esukop: Have u met angry ppl who want to change the world? And when world changes they’re still angry. Anger is what they enjoy & want. #
  • RT @murnahan: RT? What, Why, and How: The RT Explained http://bit.ly/nEyO8 #
  • How much richer is life when we stop the hubbub in our minds & be motivated by what the body desires. To wake, laugh, sleep, dream…purely #
  • RT @ellenbritt: “We don’t see things as they are. We see them as *we* are. ~Anais Nin~ #
  • Why take 6wk sabbatical? My biz entirely online. But the more U depend on thing, more it owns U. 2 re-own & care4 self MUCH MORE IMPORTANT. #
  • RT @TimBrownson: Name names! |M: Follow-strafers: There are about five of them, they know who they are. You’re not 1 of them tho! #
  • RT @lifecruise: I want to go to Zion! |M: Hee! Don’t we all! Look for the Germans in Bryce Canyon Nat’l Pk 2: Thor’s Hammer (it’s a hoodoo) #
  • RT @lifecruise: I am going in for a back tune up this week. M: Hey Scott, HIGHEST RECOMMEND Balance dvd will keep u gd: http://is.gd/qSBZ #
  • Follow-up on “follow-strafers” who follow to DM then unfollow ASAP. No, I will NOT just “@” you in public. Please get a clue. #
  • RT @UsborneJody: Still time to fill Easter baskets w books not candy: http://bit.ly/143Dg8 |M: Jody, what a GR8 idea!! Protect kids teeth! #
  • Note 2 dude who follows 2 DM, then unfollows: This is “follow-strafing”. NOT cool. You wanna DM? Stay followed til I DM back @ least. Geez. #
  • Awesome lifestyle-defensible post by @michelfortin on the Autofollow & DM business. Check this then see my next http://is.gd/qSxn #
  • Argh, correct URL: Got a WordPress blog? Integrate Twitter in it, step-by-step guide #qtyb, free download http://tinyurl.com/byqh7m #
  • RT @staceymayo: Got a WordPress blog? Integrate Twitter in it, step-by-step guide #qtyb, free download http://tinyurl.com/byqh7 #
  • I’m offline for 6 wks @ 6pm PDT today. If u don’t get why I’d want to, 1 reason: I want 2 do w/out 2 re-dev senses dulled by screen staring #
  • RT @sabrinareich: what are your exp with IE8? We we’ll have 2 reinstall our online helpdesk. A review of http://tr.im/ii1U from @24_Seven #
  • RT @KellyGrrrl73: @maryamwebster what’s tweetdeck/ sounds dirty. | Google it. You need one. #
  • New follow-back RT @stockpilesrus Totally F-R-E-E Dr.Pepper & More! http://tinyurl.com/c7l8q8 Click to clip then print out online! #
  • RT @stockpilesrus Walgreens: Softsoap F-R-E-E!!! http://tinyurl.com/cerfl5 #
  • RT @calmtechcoach: basecamp has married twitter to produce http://www.staction.com for simple project/people management i’m in heaven! #
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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-04-05

1:55 AM PDT, April 6, 2009
  • RT @markress: PLEASE RETWEET: @Allxfunclub is a SPAMMER promoting Adult MLM. BEWARE!! Last 18 posts same Adult link #
  • Off to play backgammon in The Bower with my honey and the Mitties who will climb the ziggurat to heaven (top of Bower fence - grin) #
  • listening to David Sylvian’s “Gone to Earth”. The “Wave” track begins with a sound that is shivery exciting & does evil things to my libido #
  • OMG, tomorrow is my last day online for SIX WEEKS! I’ve pre-tweeted some blog posts for you to remember me by until I come back May 15th tho #
  • RT @markress: THIS is EXACTLY what I’ve taught my students: 3 Biggest Sources 4 Hot Topics & Trends Online http://is.gd/oZJ7 I hav mor tho #
  • RT @andyfranco: Top 10 Adsense Optimized Wordpress Themes http://budurl.com/26hg #
  • RT @lifecruise: @maryamwebster Is your back healed? |M: Hey there, yep, back healed but takes rigorous exercise 2 keep it chilled out. #
  • RT @willburns1: What is craziest thing u ever done? #crazy |M: Climbed 6 stories 2 top o’Jesse Hall (UnivMo) atop dome & partied naked (yup) #
  • RT @lifecruise: Fave hike of all time: Zion National Park. Back in day whn *had* a fnx back! Now: Huddart or Wunderlich, Santa Cruz hills #
  • RT @Jon_Aston: RT @StaciJShelton: #ILOVEYOU is now #1 Trending topic on Twitter! We did it!! Keep it going, beautiful people… Pls RT. #
  • RT @colderICE: “What jobs will survive the recession?” http://ow.ly/2535 #
  • RT @lifecruise: What’s your favorite cross training exercise? |M: I really enjoy yoga or Pilates + hiking, or aquacize + lifting #
  • I’m going to miss you all while I’m away 4 a month! Present before I go: my tutorial on how to Kick cravings in 5 mins: http://is.gd/jT1Q #
  • RT @Debbas: If you r an expert on a topic and would like to be interviewed email weeklyinterview@gmail.com and put Subject : Topic of Choice #
  • RT @FadiSemaan: Just installed tweetberry on my storm. Cool now I am officially a tweet addict |M: Official moniker Fadi is “Twiddict” ;-D #
  • RT @webmaid: RT @Don_Crowther: Wow - you can now Bring Twitter Right Into Gmail with the Amazing TwitterGadget http://ow.ly/251b #
  • Wunderbar! Gloriously Web 2.0 Mac Icons in beautiful splendor: http://is.gd/qkdR #
  • Good day tweeple! ONE DAY LEFT until I’m officially on vacation & offline Apr 5 - May 15th. Woohoo! Maxing my time here 2day w/pre-posts #
  • RT @andreajlee: Wnt 2 pick up tips 4 abbrev in twitter? #followfriday @shermanhu how does he do that & stay so understandable? #
  • RT @openzine: Bipolar disorder and Gender, is there a link http://tinyurl.com/8fnor7 #
  • RT @iamkhayyam: ☆ 23 Twitter Plugins for WordPress http://ow.ly/23rW #
  • Late-nite @Murnahan-ites: @jonathanrussell #iamkhayyam @rmilana #followfriday #
  • Thanks @KimNishida, @stepmomcoach, @robbmoon, @patweber, @EFTRadio for #followfriday love! #
  • Hey thanks @bunltd, @maritzaparra, @markress, @TevisVerrit, @andyfranco, @jimsutton5 for #followfriday love! #
  • RT @mrskutcher: Jenny McCarthy has a new book just came out called “Healing & Preventing Autism” Please check it out http://bit.ly/cUmW0 #
  • Shopping & lovely 1/2 hr talk w/”Organic Elder” John Sigona of Sigona’s Farmer’s Market, Redwood City, CA. Patronize ppl, its’ the BOMB! #
  • If you wish to change your conditions you must first change yourself… - Charles Haanel |M: Best way is to go Unlimited: http://is.gd/q9oD #
  • RT @KendallCoach: New Post: How To Get Clients 2Buy In This Market: Number one question Im asked in every inte.. http://tinyurl.com/c6ng5j #
  • Provocative Coaches & Writers #followfriday: @CoachDavender, @RedHotCopy, @MarkRess, @ShermanHu, @BarbaraSher, @MaritzaParra #
  • #FollowFriday Coaches 2 Luv! @CoachDeb @ProsperityGal, @MariSmith, @BianaBabinsky, @LizMarshall, @IntuitionCoach #
  • #FollowFriday Xlnt Writers: @KendallCoach, @MichaelPort, @LarryCzerwonka, @YogaDork @BreakingNews (tho’ follo w/care), @GreenMoms, @Murnahan #
  • #FollowFriday Brilliance: @RobbMoon (4 hat alone), @andreajlee (Becos she’s A. Period.) @KimNishida (you wanna be bathed in this energy!) #
  • RT @andreajlee: #lasercoach helpful4 coachee 2bforced in2 140char? |M: Yes, brevity soul of wit & wisdom. Thomas v. brief…but DEEP. #
  • Had a wonderful Hatha Yoga session this eve w/gr8 new teacher, followed by weight room, Hundreds on the Reformer. Flowing off 2 bed now… #
  • RT @muvar: My friend just FIRED her family… |M: I am firing my *biz life*. Sometimes, ya gotta. April=Unplugged http://is.gd/pLxW #
  • OMG Jake, you are my hubby’s new idol! @jfrankenfield, check out: RT @jakepearce: …digitising loads of 78’s so I can mix new tracks #
  • RT @Jon_Aston: Hey Jon, you’re welcome. Autism is something I support help for. Have you heard of EFT? http://is.gd/qoVU Has helped… #
  • RT @Jon_Aston: This video will completely change your understanding of autism: http://bit.ly/2bbK7c #
  • “May I be a guide for those who do not have a guide, a leader for those who journey and a light for those who need light.” - Shantideva #
  • RT @IanMcKendrick: I don’t actually drink beer but *loved* the psychedelic coffee @ Live & Let live, cream went all paisely… Sleep well! #
  • RT @Jon_Aston: UN declares Apr 2 “World Autism Awrness Day” Gr8 news for tweeps w/autism, or autism in the family! http://bit.ly/136IdS #
  • RT @ellenbritt: @JeffHerring AKA the Internet Marketing Article Guy is up at 8PM Easter 2nite join us free~~> http://bit.ly/AtccU #
  • RT @KimNishida: @maryamwebster Awesome, thanks for the pain-in-the-back fixes! |M: Welcome! W/out them, wouldn’t be walking 2day #
  • An xlnt Mashable post, reminds of @davidbullock : RT @murnahan: HOW TO: Build Your Personal Brand on Facebook http://bit.ly/11y4ro #
  • Found out @ianmckendrick is @ Cambridge Food and Drink Festival, Bottisham. M: B’ham! Pleasant village, gr8 14th cent. church. ENJOY, mate! #
  • Cheer up, it might never happen! 90% of bad feelings are us projecting into might-be future. Stay Present, be happy. http://is.gd/q9oD #
  • RT @FeliciaSlattery: @maryamwebster … ok it’s unanimous — resending. Ugh. |M: Yep. A gal’s gotta do whatta gal’s gotta do… *wink* #
  • RT @WendyGYoung: Who are your favorite women in history and why? |M: Sojourner Truth & Harriet Tubman, if u kno who they r, you’ll kno why #
  • Looking forward 2 going offline & unplugging for 6 wks. Can I do it? Ppl hv been doubtful. I anticipate great gifts! What brings u gifts? #
  • RT @mariaandros “the BIGGER u get the more ppl will talk. When u see this, pat yrself on back - it means U R a Leader & Stirring up EMOTION” #
  • RT @sabrinareich: hey Maryam….feel hugged! |M: Hey beautiful friend, I’m offline as of Sunday April 5th, too many ends to tie up. Luv ya! #
  • Join me with @adelarubio on the Selfcare Mastery Teleseminar in 3 - 2 - 1… Registration is free! http://bit.ly/agP0a #
  • RT @AlFerretti: “Your income is determined by how many people you serve and how well you serve them”.. http://tinyurl.com/df3etc #
  • RT @lisamariemary: @maryamwebster Hahaha! That’s a good one! Don’t have any, tho…. M: Pebbles? Coco Krispies (that’d be cool: krunch!) #
  • RT @babyboomerbev: “It is no disgrace to start all over. A new direction can lead to a new horizon.” Bev Mahone (I agree. Taking month off) #
  • In just half an hour I’m speaking w/@adelarubio on why most “healing” modalities fail & how u can succeed: http://bit.ly/agP0a Reg is FREE! #
  • Hey @patweber, See you tomorrow whn I speak on how ETHOS is different from other “healing” modalities: http://bit.ly/agP0a Reg is FREE! #
  • Muahaha! Mom did 2 me in 4th grade @Carissa_MomIF: skittles in shoes is AWESOME! for an april fool’s day joke… on your kids? love it! #
  • RT @ShermanHu: SBA (Free) Step By Step Small Business Planner http://budurl.com/egmy (via @davidbullock) #
  • RT @zappos: “Being a leader doesn’t mean everyone will follow you. It means setting a higher standard for yourself” - @tonyrobbins #
  • RT @christianfea: 60+ Great “how to” sites and resources! http://TwitPWR.com/8QE/ #
  • RT @Carissa_MomIF: who’s got great idea 4 april fool’s joke on your kids? |M: I remember short-sheeting the bed…or Skittles in the shoes? #
  • Five Days & counting until I’m offline for all of April! Whee!!! What r you doing to unplug?? #
  • RT @AnnEvanston: Did you know Google has decided 2b VC 2 entrepreneurs! Get your biz plan and presentation ready! http://ow.ly/1Lk8 #
  • RT @FeliciaSlattery: Twitip: If u want 2 thank someone 4 results do it in the main stream not DM. It’s a win-win credibility booster. #
  • RT @iamkhayyam: ★ON THE AIR★ Hot Buttered Soul on CFCR 90.5FM | Taking it back to the old schools… http://tr.im/hotbutteredsoul #
  • RT @ShermanHu: 20 Twitter Badges to Show Off Your Tweets http://ping.fm/IZ3Pq (via @mashable) #
  • Currently recording interview with Faten of @connectingwomen for distr. April 18th on BlogTalk Radio. Exciting! #
  • Join the Masters of Transformation: I’m spkg Weds. on the 1 THING u need to make “healing” Work For You - register FREE: http://bit.ly/agP0a #
  • Goodnight Twitter, 5 days & counting til I’m off the air for a month+ - have a wonderful party, delightful conversation & love yourself! #
  • RT @barbara11121: How to do you get inner peace? I take deep breaths and set the intention of letting go and feeling inner peace. #
  • RT @gotmelik: Check out the Twitter Blog about the changes to @replies: http://blog.twitter.com/ #
  • Wordpress.com tip: I created blog 4 nontech friend. Used my email 2 temp admin. Now her gravatar turns up as mine. Change that email folks! #
  • RT @colderICE: so you will come back super charged eh? |M: Maybe much LESS supercharged…but fresh as a daisy & w/amazing new ideas! #
  • What feels infinitely delicious that you’re not doing that if you did, would open new doors & blow the shingles off your tired ol’ life? #
  • RT @ellenbritt: Just a half-hour away from learning @_ryanlee ’s secrets to recurring revenue! Join us free ~~> http://bit.ly/AtccU #
  • RT @colderICE: Thanks for responding guys…NOW a little video on The Trinity http://is.gd/pJMY Good One buddy! #
  • Sweet life begins, I’ll be enjoing more April: Just took nap in sun w/kitties in garden, rolled out of clothes & got days Vit. D too. Mmm… #
  • Roses have come into bloom on the deck, the pool is almost clear of winter crud & the mitties are chasing butterflies in the garden. Ahh… #
  • Wow!! RT @WritingSpirit I stopped what I was doing & walked to the window, but there they were: 4 dolphins swimming in the channel. #
  • New Research Project! I’m taking time completly unplugged from ALL computer/phone April 5th - May 5th (can I do it?): http://bit.ly/LPDuj #
  • RT @maritzaparra: “There ain’t no rules around here - Just take Action now!” @jeffherring [excellent advice - now let's break some rules!] #
  • Are you a mom of toddlers? Or raise stock animals? Did you know some think yr life an “easy job”? Neither did I. http://tinyurl.com/ddf6uh #
  • RT @dianecesa: Desk-bound? 5 Yoga poses you can do at work — http://tinyurl.com/c9ahkq #
  • Are you persecuted for being an Owl in an Earlybird-centric society? Hookup & find out why I’m outta here: http://bit.ly/LPDuj #
  • Are you persecuted for being an Owl in an Earlybird-oriented society? Hookup to othrs & find out why I’m outta here: http://bit.ly/LPDuj #
  • RT @skinnyjeans: Hydration moment: Drink a glass of water & replenish. Take 10 minutes and give your eyes a break from the screen too. #
  • Your 6 Day Warning: As of April 5th, I am OFF all electronic media for 1 month. No EM, IM, DM, Txt, nuttin’. Why: http://bit.ly/LPDuj #
  • RT @Manage2Pro: RT @fantomaster: MediaOnTwitter online database http://kl.am/DL #
  • RT @motivationmama: Motivation Tip of the Day - There’s always tomorrow… or, there isn’t. Get busy living your dreams today! |M: Oh yes..! #
  • On a crappy date? Have “the office” or “the hospital” call you urgently to get out of Dodge w/grace: http://bit.ly/AK8h6 #
  • RT @BreakingNewsOn: The Northern California Management Center reports the earthquake in California had revised preliminary magnitude of 4.6. #
  • It’s SHOWTIME PEEPS! Over at http://shermanlive.tv - join right now! (Sherman’s got a nice neighbor letting him have connect-pwr!) #
  • RT @lkr: Link to a website that cuts plaintext emails down the right line length please? |M: http://formatit.com #
  • 15 Masters of Transformation: I’m spkg Weds. on the ONE THING u need to make “healing” Work For You - register FREE: http://bit.ly/agP0a #
  • RT @Deltavogue: @maryamwebster that is adorable and uplifting! |M: I sing HappyCells in bathroom, driving down hiway - WHO NEEDS DRUGS? #
  • (finally, picture change took!) The above happy cell song was tune of “Mammy’s little baby luvs shortnin’ bread” Repeat until HAPPIER! #
  • (continued from last) “I can tell, every little cell, in my body is healthy and well!” #
  • RT @shermanhu: Sorry tech difficulties with net connection, cable repair might be servicing local area, Huddle down for now. Start in 10… #
  • RT @bizopps: RT @Deltavogue Retweet after me… “I am Healthy, Wealthy, and Whole!” ✝ “I am Healthy, Wealthy, and Whole!” #
  • Join us all over at Sherman Hu’s Half Hour Huddle, LIVE NOW: http://bit.ly/UwaFD #
  • (yeah ok folks, I did *not* change my pic. No idea why this one is appearing…again…after being deleted for 6 months)(Fail Whale ahoy…) #
  • Bwak! What happened to my Twitter picture?? Others reporting same weirdness… #
  • 15 Masters of transformation FREE! ‘m spkg Weds. on why healing can fail & how u cn SUPERPOWER yr efforts - register: http://bit.ly/agP0a #
  • RT @skinnyjeans: Apartment just shook. Was that a little earthquake ? |M: Oops, too fast on enter button. Sm quake east of San Jose dwntown #
  • RT @skinnyjeans: Apartment just shook. Was that a little earthquake ? #
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In Defense of Moms & Stock Farmers

4:07 PM PDT, March 30, 2009

On another post in the archives, a commenter by the name of Ted got a little upset at my repost of an Yahoo.com article on “Top 10 Stress-less Careers”.  I thought Ted’s comment was provocative enough to post (yes I approve vitriolic comments if they provide value) and also to answer. Here’s that thread, for the possible enlightenment it might provide:

Ted:
“This article is utter bull shit. Every one of those jobs is full of stress. They are either very stressful, too low paying to create financial stress (Maryam note: I think he means “too low paying SO they create financial stress”), or both. Try being an accountant. Every calculation you make must be accurate! And tax season is the worst.

Even being a masseuse causes your own muscles to tighten up. Who massages you? And a teacher? Try making ends meet on a teachers salary when you’ve baby sat a bunch of adolescents all day. You do no one any favors by propogating this drivel. It’s obviously written by someone who’s sitting at home, drinking tea and out of touch with the real world. Why? Because she’s figured out a way to make a stress free living by working 3 hours a day by writing useless garbage. I’d bet she’s living on a farm raising toddlers and chickens.”

(~*~*~*~*~ pause for interlude music ~*~*~*~*~ )

Hi Ted,
Can I recommend you take a chill pill? The vitriol here only indicates that YOU are stressed.  Your outlook effects your experience of life a great deal. My accountant is happy as a lark right now. It’s his outlook. He enjoys tax season and revels in the work it brings. If you’re an accountant and you don’t enjoy it, then you’re in the wrong job. Change your job to reduce  stress. It’s entirely doable, no matter how closed all avenues might seem. (see the end of this article)

You’re also making a lot of judgements that may or many not have any basis in reality. And your experience may be atypical. So…why “propagate such drivel” yourself?

To answer a few of your rants: who massages you? Your buddies - as a massage therapist, you develop cooperative relationships with other massage therapists. Been there, done that.  Teacher? Been there too - high school English. Most teachers who are in it as a career are doing it for love of the job..and don’t view it as “baby sitting”  - you demean teachers by this suggestion. The fact that you can read and write you owe to a teacher. Don’t disrespect them by suggesting their jobs amount to babysitting.

But before you jump on your keys to write a retort, I must correct the worst misperceptions you list: the job of “mom to toddlers” and also that of raising farm animals are two of the most time-consuming and stressful on the planet. Both require early hours until way late at night and in the middle of the night when a child or animal is ill or a large animal is giving birth. (woman and farmer? Resources here) There’s no calling in a workmate to handle your load when you “don’t feel like” going in to work or are sick yourself.

Moms and stock farmers work through it all - no exceptions.  Respect.

The next time you eat a steak, chop or chicken breast think about that. The next time you take a breath or do anything with your mind or body, you can thank your mother for that. Like her or not, you wouldn’t be here without her and whomever raised you to adulthood. If you were as angry then as you exhibit here…it probably wasn’t a 100% pleasant job.

Finally, the article didn’t say zero stress, just less stress. Perhaps I should adjust the title (already done)…but really, is all the venom-spouting necessary? If destressing is important to you then I recommend:

http://maryamwebster.com/stressrelief

or your favorite aerobic exercise.

Also, know that you can step away from this and into your own Unlimited Self, where the problems, stress and upset don’t exist.  You started out in life Unlimited, able to make your life anything you choose. You still have that power and that choice, no matter what your station in life or how crappy your job or living situation. Ask yourself  - “Would an Unlimited being choose to remain this angry, upset and stressed-out?” More here:

http://ethosmethod.ning.com

Have a good one Ted - Be Good to You!

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April Unplugged

4:07 PM PDT, March 30, 2009

One of the things that I’ve truly “gotten” on my hiatus is that I have not allowed myself enough down-time and really need some quality unplugging. No computer, no tv, getting back to a spare, but rich, non-tech lifestyle. Accordingly, for the entire month of April, but for the master class in ETHOS I’m doing for Adela Rubio:

http://selfcaremastery.com/maryam

and a radio interview I’m doing for Connecting Women, I will be completely offline AND off email - our offices, help desk and all connection outlets will be closed.

I’d like to share a lesson from this that I have learned as it will be beneficial for anyone to think about. That is, we have many yardsticks in our lives - many ways of measuring the shoulds and musts. And though we may have come to the point of removing the words “should” and “must” from our vocabulary, those very ideas exist in our molecular structure as strong encodings.

In my case, the coding was around “I *should* be able to rest from a week of work in the two days of the weekend and be okay” and “I *should* be able to  work during the day from 9-5 as others do”.

But my system is not set up that way - it never has  been. I’m an owl, not a lark. A small percentage of the extremely creative (some call them “renaissance people”) have biorhythms that predispose them to work at their best, and to high proficiency on a variety of topics, later in the day. Voltaire, DaVinci, Michelangelo, Tesla and Bill Clinton are among those whose bodies also favored a night-owl lifestyle. I work best in the late afternoon and evening, sleep around 6 - 7 hours at most (7 is almost too much and 8 is definitely oversleeping) and usually work on several projects at once by preference. And I need more than two days to be “off” on the weekend.

My long-suffering workhorse parents despaired of me ever being respectable in the sleep department. I happily created in the wee hours, even as a child. Well-meaning though it was, they used every moral imperative to suggest that I was not a righteous person for being a night-owl and if I kept up “these shenanigans” I would not mature into a good upstanding citizen. Mother consulted Reverend Pegues when I was seven over this perceived fault, with the result that I was awakened every morning at 6am without fail to pray and read the Bible before school in the hopes of rehabilitating my wayward biorhythms.

It didn’t work. I slept through third period in school, refusing to be rousted, and stayed up at night until my body told me it was time to sleep. It exasperated Mother no end, but she finally gave up and when she saw that I was doing cool things - nature photography and essays in philosophy at that point.  She even briefly catered to my 10pm dinner habit  and harbored hopes that I might turn into Imogen Cunningham. No such luck though.

In the intervening years, I’ve found it’s always best to do what my body tells me it needs. When I do that, I am never sick or tired, and am always at my best and sharpest.

Late last year however,  though it was a relatively minor thing, I fell prey again to the moralizing of others around my natural biorhythms and tried to be early-to-bed-early-to-rise to join with a group of yoga friends who were all early risers and determined to make me one as well. And I mean, sunrise type early, greeting the day with Surya Namaskar as the sun crested the local Diablo hills.

The result was that I became out of sorts and was tired quite a lot which is very unusual for me. And even though I love writing more than life itself sometimes, computers, Twitter and email began to irritate me severely. These were cardinal signs to me that I was not honoring my body’s needs and was one of the ingredients in my decision to take a hiatus from business in January.

I naievely thought that my break would begin in January, but no, tying up ends so I actually could take a break took well into February. Then a conference came in March with heavy email, Twitter involvement and text messaging before and after, pushing things even further out.

So drop-dead earnest here, April is my month off. Completely away from the computer. Even cellphone. Don’t send me an EM, IM, DM, TxT or Skypee because I’m nailing the keyboard to the desk upside down and locking the mouse in a drawer. Not kidding.

I’m taking this unplugged break both for my own self-care and health, as well as research for an interesting article, or it might even be a book that I am writing. It keeps extending itself so it could well be the next book. <grin> More much later about that though.

The Moral of the Story Is… that there is no moral imperative around what the body needs. Each of us is wonderfully diverse in our unique makeup.  We all have slightly to profoundly different needs for food, water, sunshine or darkness, sleep or waking, downtime,  romance-time, exercise and alone-time.

That old biblical verse about the plank in your own eye comes to bear here. If someone in your life isn’t configured the same way you are don’t bring your judgements against them. Take care of your own needs and support each other to extreme and joyous acts of self-care, no matter what the hands on the clock say, no matter how different you might be to each others.

Diversity is what makes the world go ’round, be interesting and create genius.

Meanwhile, have a *beautiful* and *joyous* spring!

With Love,
Maryam

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-03-29

4:07 PM PDT, March 30, 2009
  • Shalalala-Shalalala! RT @shaboom: Help plan The Self Employment Telesummit and win a platinum ticket http://bit.ly/rz47G #selfemployment #
  • BTW for #EarthHour don’t forget not just computer! Turn off lites, TV, unplug charging cords. EV-RAY-THANG! #
  • Powering down for #earthhour - cut the power, save a tree…or words to that effect. Later gators! #
  • RT @prosperitygal: A man fails 7x & rises 8x. |M: My Mom sez: “Honey, No Man gets it up 8x in a row. He must be on Viagra” ROTFL! #
  • RT @jonathanrussell: @maryamwebster thanks for the RTs |M: Hey homeboy! My pleasure… #
  • RT @murnahan: @maryamwebster LOL! Funny stuff! |M: I live to chortle. #
  • OMG - iced coffee made at home w/Peets Maj. Dickason blend, cinnamon, Truvia, half-n-half. Got warm in the San Francisco Bay area today… #
  • It’s official, I’m a fan of Truvia non-sugar sweetener: http://bit.ly/i5O5 They’ve finally found a ($$$) way to make stevia taste good #
  • Hey all you brownie-with-glasses folks ( o_O ’s ) out there - put up your picture so we can see your bright smiling face! #
  • Gratitude begets abundance. What r u giving #gratitude for? Grateful 4 love of my kitties who won’t get off me long enuf 2 let me eat ; -) #
  • RT @jonathanrussell: RT @upicks: 6 Tips For Building Deeper Connections With #Twitter - http://tr.im/hVWH - Simple guide anyone can follow #
  • Worked out @ gym 1 hour circuit, 30 mins cardio, treat of iced coffee after. Making sure treats happen makes healthy habits easy to keep up. #
  • RT @markress: 4 thoz interested plz RT: Couple of slides 2 explain PageRank http://twitpic.com/2jggx & this slide http://twitpic.com/2jgle #
  • Watch this whole channel. ROTFL’s all ’round! RT @ShermanHu: My 10yo son sent me this. Addiction intervention? http://tinyurl.com/d32yf8 #
  • RT @ShermanHu: A Twitter Spinoff Launches for Moms http://tr.im/hVum #
  • What is Genius? http://post.ly/Br1 #
  • #SocMedia explained by felt board cutouts: http://bit.ly/9vPK @LeeLeFever “our product is explanation” - sheer genius: http://bit.ly/SLC68 #
  • RT @murnahan: RT @iamkhayyam: Retweet their salads!! http://is.gd/pmLx (you guys were too much!) #
  • RT @andreawarner: I love that article! Are you a practicing psychologist? |M: Ummm, depends what u mean by that but yes, by & lrg I am. #
  • We tweet, because we are a culture starved for real community. As a psychologist, can’t say I disagree. http://bit.ly/WIsKp #
  • Gonna go solicit the hubbers for game of backgammon & late nite glass of bubbly. Sleep sweet, Twitterverse! LYLAS! #
  • Hilarity heard from the inner compound: “Okay, who ordered the extra anchovy catnip liver supreme pie? GAWD, your breath, ‘Noushka!” #
  • *RAWR!* YES! RT @momlogic: Camping Is The New Caribbean. Not just 4 treehuggers. Would you do it with your family? http://twurl.nl/hkn8yz #
  • Ooo! RT @EFTRadio: EFT for Eyesight: I got rid of my glasses using EFT; free teleclass this SUN http://bit.ly/3M6fT0 #
  • Do u know @KammieK ’cause she’s so cool, must follow her tweets or you’re a fool…thanks for your sparkle, Kammie!!! (& yr welcome #
  • RT @colmcgunnigle: RT @IvanCampuzano: Be who u are and say what you feel - those who mind don’t mattr/those who mattr don’t mind. ~Dr. Seuss #
  • Besides being hilarious, this is all 2 *true* #socmedia pals, is this U? RT @murnahan: “New Media Douchebags Explained” http://bit.ly/4NR3X #
  • RT @JohnMarden: http://tinyurl.com/dbr8pq The beauty of the Internet. Talk about a niche market and the “long tail”. #
  • 52 Tips for Using Social Media Effectively - particularly for non-profits: http://bit.ly/iHP0v #
  • May switch to iPhone (finally). Great vid on how to force ATT to offer you a Month-to-Month Plan instead of 2yrs on iPhone startup. w00t! #
  • Verizon Wireless sucks so badcannot begin to detail particulars. Wanted more private info than I’m willing to give to help on my acct. FAIL #
  • RT @eftpraxis: Twappers! welcm 2 @SueMcKenney new twapper amongst us! @eft4adoption @creativeeft @emotionalengine @moneymakeover2 @chipeft #
  • RT @iamkhayyam: How To Develop A Vision That Will Make You Millions http://ow.ly/1zqW #
  • RT @skinnyjeans: Have a glass of water with dinner. Not only are you hydrating the water will help fill you up to help prevent overeating. #
  • Spent marvellous lazy afternoon w/BFF & biz colleague @ninaprice. You’ll be able to see some of it soon as video uploads #
  • Thanks for RT’s @brentmcnutt, @colmcgunnigle, @pgforte! Agree w/you PG, on the writing front. Is mah main obsession! #
  • For sheer genius of all types, follow: @tomhoobyar @guykawasaki @skydiver @murnahan #
  • Lunch today with @ninaprice. I’ve been sticking my tongue out at her for years…she’s my acupuncturist. Worth a follow! #followfriday #
  • More #followfriday marketing geniuses: @markress @davidbullock @bunltd @lenapple @colderice @brentmcnutt @colmcgunnigle @kammiek @murnahan #
  • Hey @andyfranco, think u might mean me, but it’s “Maryam” (not Mary) Webster Thanks btw! Off to do my Hundreds… #
  • RT @christianfea: What are top 3 things you want to be known for and can contribute to? Incorporate that into your daily marketing messages #
  • Y’all #followfriday @pitchengine , @leesabarnes, @socialedge, @shermanhu, @paullemberg, @christianfea & @feleciaslattery 4 marketing chops! #
  • RT @michaelport: Warning: the cheap prices of small thoughts breaks down the obstinate resistance of our bold, big thoughts. #followfriday #
  • RT @coachdavender: People who’ve RT’d or replied 2 me recently (tx!) …@maryamwebster #followfriday |M: Tx Davender - Y’all follo CoachD! #
  • Interesting 2 note aftr yrs of self-work, as was being driven off road by idiot in monster truck evolutn took ovr: wanted 2 rip his face off #
  • RT @ShermanHu: to doctor’s today for stronger antibiotics. Will flush out system ltr w natural stuff! |M: Worth note, natural tks longer #
  • RT @odemagazine: 7 ways to start writing http://tinyurl.com/d5l76q #
  • RT @AnnEvanston: @maryamwebster thanks Maryam you are fabulous! Energy worker check out Maryam! #followfriday |M: Tx Ann & back atcha! #
  • RT @leesabarnes: catch the canada marketing summit live online via http://TwitPWR.com/a6J/ #cms09 #
  • RT @shermanhu: #FollowFriday (me) 4 her health/wellness brilliance, friendship & taking time 2 help @sarahhu |M: *blush* Thanks buddy!!! #
  • The scaly, sucking vortex of your navel & the fluff it collects is the subject of a new thesis: http://snipr.com/enrr4 Now We Know. #
  • Major risk factors 4 #breastcancer : http://snipr.com/enrig Plus: Yoga eases treatment: http://is.gd/pcR2 #
  • Hee! The Mythbusters get more bang for the buck in my ‘hood: http://short.to/2yke #
  • Hm..it’s vira trafficl, says it’s free…and it’s recommended by @MikeFilsaime. Could it work for you? http://snipr.com/enqar #
  • GR8 List of 8 Ways to Get New Blog Subscribers: http://jijr.com/Sqk Yep, I also need to take heed… #
  • Just added myself to the http://wefollow.com twitter directory under: #marketing #speaker #women #
  • Hey @andymatic check this out: RT @learn_marketing: Cool video: Gay Social Networking Sites http://tinyurl.com/d3yts4 #
  • RT @ShermanHu: Qs: Should I use this pic for my Twitter profile http://twitpic.com/2hina |M: Love it SH! #
  • RT @TomHoobyar: cowboy’s view of the CEO http://ping.fm/IwgXr |M: Tom, was a privilege hearing this metaphor in person @ NLP Cafe last nite! #
  • RT @lkr: Playing with hootsuite, i HATE the name….|M: Assonant w/”Toute suite” (French for: “hurry”) Hoot=Tweet in Elder Owlish. #
  • RT @connectingwomen: OMG. That is terrible. Are you ok? |M: Yes, thanks Faten, but gee whiz! Some ppl REALLY shld lrn 2 share the road! #
  • Almost killed! GINORMOUS TRUCK driver nevr learnd 2play w/othrs -honked, gunned engine, drove me back dn street just short of my own drivewy #
  • RT @ShermanHu: 6 Buzzworthy Laws All Web Marketers Should Understand http://bit.ly/hLEW6 #
  • RT @ShermanHu: 49 Amazing Social Media, Web 2.0 And Internet Stats http://bit.ly/f7jZ9 #
  • RT @KimFalconer: New Moon in Aries=Boldness. |M: I solemnly swear I am up to no good, & that I will be myself no matter who can’t handle it. #
  • RT @shaboom: Don’t use your business to make friends… |M: Tho, friendship often comes 1st - people like to buy from those they kno, trust #
  • RT @RetiredTeacherD: RT @AnnEvanston just booked @maryamwebster 2 speak …She is a brilliant biz woman! M: Thanks for the RT!! #
  • RT @KammieK: I’m SOO over hearing the term “economic crisis”… |M: “abundance opportunity” or “False Evidence Appearing Real” (FEAR) #
  • “Guru” call pointers: Don’t flatter aud. 2excess w/ 5 mins content/55 mins heavy upsell, egoic shills + condescention & expect my business. #
  • RT @iSkip: @maryamwebster Thought FB was changing back, but no telling us to “get used to it.” |M: Hence my hilarity. Too funny! #
  • My girls and I are having a #gno w/movie & coffee after, so this is goodnight Twitterverse. Revel in how little pressure u cn put on yrself! #
  • Choosing theme for my main site redo for 2 months now. Seriously, it shouldn’t be this hard. I admit it, I’m a graphic perfectionist *sigh* #
  • OMG, what a great find. Ladies, get on it! RT @RedHotCopy Luv this: “The world will be saved by the western woman.” H.H., The Dalai Lama #
  • RT @unmarketing: Sometimes you lose followers … (M: Corollary: Sometimes ppl who RT’d you lots suddenly stop) Don’t take either personally #
  • Rolling on floor laughing & kicking feet in glee: RT @techxav: Facebook Surrenders to Users’ Redesign Revolt http://tinyurl.com/dzkuen #
  • RT @Paul_Lemberg: Guaranteed Progress Formula: 1)Decide on the change 2)Have way to measure the change 3)Execute actions to make change #
  • RT @motivationmama: Motivation Tip - Here’s the truth: A downturn is really the time to prepare 4 the upswing. Don’t end up unprepared! #
  • Bottom frozen to chair? Physical procrastinators - take time out to refresh, renew & connect w/body. Now. You’ll be so blissful! Ahh… #
  • Parsing an old interview http://bit.ly/2C5V0f CoreLesson: Tk chrge of health & REFUSE 2 accept others limitations on WHAT U CAN ACCOMPLISH! #
  • RT @shaboom: Asking for help, especially when I don’t know what I need: recipe for breakthrough. |M: Molly, beautiful! :@) #
  • Just had a FUN call w/biz maven @AnnEvanston & will be speaking 2 her local eWomen network. Woo! Check Ann out, she has a COOL Sword! #
  • NO! Making Pizza Cristina w/ #gfree rice wrap: Basil, cilantro, Blk Forest Ham, Arugula, Grana Padano, check. but NO TRUFFLE OIL! AAAGH! #
  • Hey Lennie, only as awesome as those I RT! @lenapple: @maryamwebster - You are so AWESOME! Thanks for the props! #
  • Was all MY pleasure! Re: @ShermanHu: @maryamwebster Thx soooo much 4 chatting w @sarahhu abt her health & stuff. Really apprc8 ya! U ROCK!! #
  • Goodnight Twitterverse, yoga, pranayama & cuddles are waiting…in that order #
  • RT @markburgess The most valuable asset in your business is you! Do yourself a favor…be the best at what you do! #
  • RT @gotmelik: 10 Rare HTML Tags You Really Should Know http://bit.ly/W2mVy (via @Minervity & @Othella) #
  • RT @ShermanHu: Customer Service is the New PR http://tr.im/hIPl by @steverubel #
  • If you’re in a corporate rut, @skinnyjeans wrote 1 of most amazing & brutally honest guides to getting out. Check it: http://bit.ly/MqjqI #
  • RT @brentmcnutt: Nope, I wish! Found out abt it few months ago. Guest at #SNL7 of the fantastic @shermanhu. Will jump on nxt time tho! #
  • RT @ShermanHu: Psychology of color in retail http://tr.im/hINL |M: Xlnt 4all 2 study. I used to consult on color as corp psych. Tx SH! #
  • #ideaparty @competent 4 ALL online biz: sideways leverage - every article repurposed in video, podcast, teleclass, Twitter…4 max exposure #
  • #ideaparty #competent 4 ALL online biz: sideways leverage - every article repurposed in video, podcast, teleclass, Twitter…4 max exposure #
  • #ideaparty http://homeshare.org/aboutus.aspx Tells you how to get time from caring for your elders, FREE ppl to take care of them #
  • #ideaparty Caring 4 Elders & need 2 get away: Find others in same situ. that live close. U exchange care few days/week to get days off #
  • Happening RIGHT NOW: Your Selling Point @ #IdeaParty RT @BarbaraSher: (712) 432-0075 Code: 147182# TONIGHT March 23, 8pm to 2am, EST #
  • RT @michaelport: Together we will find out inner strength, the root of big thinking, and nothing and no one can thwart us. |M: Go Michael! #
  • This was SO good @ #stompernet! RT @colderICE: Barack 2.0 Social Media Lessons For Business: The Tactics That Won - Part 1 http://ow.ly/1jsk #
  • RT @AlexisNeely: Ladies, taking time to connect with yourself bodily every day? when I do, I’m so grateful. #
  • RT @brentmcnutt: People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care. |M: True that! #
  • Marijuana=vomiting???: http://tinyurl.com/casq4m |M: SCARE TACTIC: pot is an ANTI-emetic, used in cancer 2 keep food down. Faux science #
  • RT @marshallk: Tomorrow is Ada Lovelace Day, Celebrating the World’s First Computer Programmer http://bit.ly/298Xg3 #
  • RT @jenlouden: RT @LisaBraithwaite: Today’s blog post: 101 Women Bloggers to Watch for in 2009 (I’m on the list!) http://tinyurl.com/cbhx6o #
  • RT @skinnyjeans: RT @twitterbo options 4 sugar alternatv http://short.to/2q2w ..I use agave nectar & raw sugar |M: Truvia, v. good but $$$ #
  • RT @dianecesa: Yoga Blog Post: Releasing Winter and Joyfully Jumping into Spring: Despite today’s chilly tempera.. http://tinyurl.com/cgbrt7 #
  • Late start as morning stuffed with new focus group respondent interviews. Such a wealth of information! Have you focus grouped yr niche? #
  • RT @davidbullock, RT @johnjaworski: We determine our strategy. Following herd (often 2 slaughter) not best choice. You CAN change YR game #
  • RT @om: Skype Now Means Business, Gettin’ SIPpy with it… http://tinyurl.com/depzez #
  • RT @ShermanHu: 3 Turnkey Shopping Carts (non-WP) I wld use: Interspire.com/shoppingcart, Volusion.com & MagentoCommerce.com #
  • http://twitpic.com/2d3ld - #
  • in Rodin’s hell at Stanford Univ’s Cantor museum w/ @jfrankenfield. See the Door 2 Purgatory @ Twitpic. #
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After twenty years as a psychotherapist, I found energy therapies were more powerful than the standard techniques I had been practicing. Seeking a way to help people transform their lives both quickly and permanently, I merged psychotherapy, coaching and bioenergetic modification methods into a new form that did just that: Energy Coaching.

My agenda is to spread these amazingly powerful healing methods worldwide. To teach the new paradigm to executives, managers and human service professionals, I created and direct The Certified Energy Coach Program (certifiedenergycoach.org) at The Energy Coach Institute (www.energycoachinstitute.com).

I am proof positive that ETHOS Method, ZPoint Process, EFT and related energy therapies work. Many years ago I was hit by a drunk driver which left me with a broken back, partially paralyzed from the waist down. With a combination of yoga, TFH and EFT, I got my mobility back, and made it past the excruciating pain to an active, pain-free life.

With these methods, every time any pain or dysfunction crops up, I simply tap, run meridians or use clearing statements to put myself right again in minutes.

Energy therapies are powerful- they can clear blockages to having more money/time/love/friends, eliminate difficulties speaking up for oneself, banish fears and old angers - in short, turn people's lives around. There is a great short tutorial of some of the fastest energy tips on my website to help get you going:

http://maryamwebster.com/stressrelief

Personally speaking, I am a voracious reader and writer. Writing is my favorite pastime, hiking our local redwoods is my favorite activity. I play the Celtic lowhead harp, sing folk, jazz and soul music and carve in both wood and stone. I have 2 cats, one partner, am independant, and love my job. Without energy work, things would be dull indeed.

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