I agree with those who say you are looking for true love. You can't go looking for it, it has to find you. I will say this: when it does find you, hold on to it for dear life because true love doesn't come around often. JMHO. :)
1.) Why did you post this on Amazon? Random 2.) Don't take offense by #1, I was just asking 3.) Smile a little bit? 4.) Don't look for love, because when you're looking for love, you're looking to BE loved. The best kind of love is when you stumble upon it, and then you realize, you want to love someone ELSE, who in turn loves you back. It may take a while, but that's the whole point. You're on a journey, and the destination is only half of the entire experience. You need to have hope, because a bad attitude will hinder you. You are worth so much, and you will find love. 5.) hope that helped. :)
maybe cause you are trying to find true love. You have too high of expectations which is usually the case with women. They think they can have it all. They think a guy exists that checks off every bullet point on their list... and if they find one that almost checks off every point they try to change the man to fulfill the rest....
It requires that your hormone level is in sync with another's hormone level, that the chemical clues you emit and receive match those of the second party, that your social and economic levels be at least in shouting distance, that you be in physical proximity, and the two of you at least sorta match some programmed inner clue of desired physical traits. All of those have to be bang on for "true" love, so, as Ringo said, "It don't come easy."
Oddly, only a tiny bit of disturbance in any of those things, or alternately just a few months of acquaintance, is pretty much going to lead to true hate. Go figure.
Most of the time the charts are off. If they love you, they don't qualify at all, and if you love them, YOU don't qualify at all (Well, not for the long run anyways!). BE ready, educate yourself, be kind, smile a lot, have personality... Then maybe one day, if your karma is positive, the charts will cross paths! It's like a home run... The ball and bat need to match perfectly in dimension and time to hit it off! And helps a lot if you know what kind of pitch you are looking for!