Have you thought about a doll house? My daughter is 3 and am waiting until she's 4 to get her one but I think its a good idea. This one is awesome because it divides in two, so she would be able to design her own house with different levels or into two homes if playing with friends. Our niece has this one and loves it. Maxim Designed by You Dollhouse with Furniture the same company also makes a Noah's Ark, I think that could make for a very special gift that could be saved forever. Maxim EverEarth Giant Noah's Ark and Animals best of luck to you! Happy holidays!
I am a preschool teacher with a 4 year old and the best gift I feel is the nabi 2. It is childs fun tablet and an educators dream come true. This tablet is amazing. Visit the website. It beats out innotab2 and leappad 2. Hope this helps.