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~ (Author), Linda Holmes (Author) "If you're not committed to getting this thing right, putting in the necessary effort to meet men, and bouncing back each time something goes wrong,..." (more)
Key Phrases: Two Become One, Just Love Your Shoes, Linda There
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A must-read for all singles! This book is like one big 'Aha!' moment. -- Rachel Greenwald, author of Find a Husband After 35 Using What I Learned at Harvard Business School, New York Times Bestseller

Mixing humor with practical tips, the authors pack a lot of relevant information into this slim volume. -- Library Journal

Puts itself at the head of the class by proving it's possible to let readers laugh while they learn. -- Dr. Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First and Be Honest- You're Not That Into Him Either


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This book isn’t about catching men or reeling anybody in. Catching is for nine-year-olds playing freeze tag, and reeling is for trout. This is about you, considering the possibility that you’re tripping over your own feet—no matter how much of an amazing, smart, hot, totally worthwhile ass-kicker you may be as a general rule. Some food for thought:

• Don’t be the "men are pigs" woman. She’s boring. She’s unhappy. And the good men don’t want her.
• Don’t demand the right to set arbitrary rules, let alone change them every five minutes. Act like a crazy person and you’ll be treated like one.
• Realize when he doesn’t want to talk and give him that space. Men don’t usually feel the need to share as much. Respect that or watch him shut down even more.

. . . In other words: If you’re looking for a different approach, this book has one.

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  • Paperback: 208 pages
  • Publisher: Plume (May 30, 2006)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0452287383
  • ISBN-13: 978-0452287389
  • Product Dimensions: 7.8 x 5.3 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 4.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (26 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #220,902 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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63 of 71 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars "Desperation knows no gender boundaries.", May 30, 2006
By Luan Gaines "luansos" (Dana Point, CA USA) - See all my reviews
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This clever book addresses dating negatives or stumbling blocks from both the male and female perspective with suggestions on how to turn them into positive, mutually reinforcing attributes. According to the authors, everything has an opposite; this guide attempts to dissect the common stereotypical negatives and reframe them into positive, action-oriented approaches. Each chapter deals with particular obstacles, providing the male and female response to overcoming common problems in a manner that is empowering and personally instructive. But it is your journey in the end. The topics are spicy: The Desperation Tango, Women Who Hate Men Who Hate Women, Everything You Say Can and Will Be Used against You, Good Girls Don't and Deal Breakers, to name but a few. Plainspoken and to the point, the guide is simple, practical, and above all, positive, the real message valuable beyond the humorous rhetoric.

Linda Holmes is Paula Abdul to Evan Marc Katz's Simon, but this isn't a competition, it's a journey and one that offers many helpful lessons if defenses are removed. Every blunt word Evan utters, Linda tempers, smoothing the edges and reworking the dialog into female-friendly advice that women will easily relate to. It is interesting to note how each author, male and female, perceive the obstacles, the Venus and Mars approach, but both are written with an eye to solutions. In a conversational tone, each issue is discussed, all couched in the current pop rhetoric that is so familiar to the dating scene. Clearly, these are common sense approaches, but sometimes people need extra help sorting through the baggage of old behavior before moving on to the new and improved. The remarks may be couched in yin and yang, but the intent is the same, a fresh look at the dating scene, armed with the tools for a successful endeavor.

Some of the suggestions: Don't isolate- go out into the world when you can and interact; Desperation is a recipe for failure- don't set a wedding date the first time you meet him; Don't generalize- "all men are dogs"- treat each new date as an individual, not a means to an end; Insecurity is unattractive- instead, learn to know and love yourself to attract a like-minded person (we attract what we are); Don't mistake emotional clutter for emotional complexity (!!!); Have the confidence to say no without guilt and weigh the other person's reaction and willingness to consider your beliefs and opinions. These are only a few of the many ideas worth serious consideration. Seem like too tall an order? Not if you are stuck in a rut and seriously need to rework your dating skills. There are enough small gems in these pages to reinvigorate even the most pitiful dating repertoire. It's all in the perspective. Luan Gaines/ 2006.
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35 of 41 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars An "Aha!" Moment Ensues, August 5, 2006
By D.S. White (Whitehall, PA USA) - See all my reviews
*About the Book:*

The subtitle: "things your friends would tell you if you promised not to get mad" is quite on target because certain chapters either make you mad at yourself or at your friends and family for never pointing them out, whether you got mad or not. The book is divided into eight sections:

I. You're knocking Yourself Out of the Game
II. You're Just Not That into Yourself
III. You're Being a Bitch
IV. You Know How to Be the Girl Friend, but Not the Girlfriend
V. You're the Patron Saint of Lost Causes
VI. You Fight Like a Girl
VII. You're Boring Him in the Bedroom
VIII. You're Missing the Signals for When to Get Out ... and When to Stick Around

Armed with a sense of cheek and at times downright irreverance, the authors take you through a journey of contemplation, emphasizing your sense of worth and the bottom line, you have a right to choice: to be single or not and to be a happy single or not.

Key positives: (For me)

**The authors' voice is that of everyday folk who happen to be single and not gods on a pedestal who have rarified advice to share.
**The authors themselves are still single so you're not hearing about being single from someone who sleeps with a human blanket.
**The authors keep it real (translation: blunt). At times a little too real (for me) in terms of language and approach to topic.
**The book encompasses the male and female point of view, therefore is not one-sided.

Key Negatives: (For me)

**Irreverence.
**Blue language.

Rating:

This book earned 4 out 5 stars for humor, honesty and sustained relevance throughout the book.
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18 of 22 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars I'm gonna hit on 20!, May 31, 2006
I consider myself a pretty enlightened person. I read a lot, I care about others, I don't take up two parking spots. I am a great catch! It was only when I picked up "Why you're still Single," that I realized why such a generous gal was, well, still single. I LOVED this book! It was astute and wise without being condescending; and entertaining without being corny. I found myself unable to put it down! Evan and Linda's "he said/she said" was so witty and smart that it felt less like I was reading a self help book, and more like I was getting advice from a couple really good friends. It was also really nice to get a man's perspective, without feeling like he is pointing a finger. I feel like if you are open to change and constantly striving to be a better friend, lover, girlfriend, or wife, and you feel like you are continuously devolving into the same negative patterns in your relationships, then you need to read this book. There is something helpful for everyone, attached or not. It is just good life advice. And for those of us who consider ourselves "enlightened," it is just one more reason to get out there and keep trying. Because, like Evan says, "You can't change men, or make them buy self help books, you can only change yourself." And I think that is a great place to start.
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3.0 out of 5 stars Enjoyable read with some useful advice
I picked up a copy of this book because I am a fan of Evan Marc Katz's articles and blog. Much of the advice written here is common sense for down-to-earth women, however, I see... Read more
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I really enjoyed this book, and the only thing that is disappointing is the title because the book speaks to all of us whether we are single or not. Read more
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2.0 out of 5 stars Not really for men
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Published on June 29, 2007 by John Wheeler

4.0 out of 5 stars Very funny but true book
This book is very funny but it has true reasons on why we are single.
Published on April 23, 2007 by enjoli

4.0 out of 5 stars Pretty Good....
It was actually pretty good. It helped me look at things a bit differently, and examine a few repetitive dating errors I have. I really liked the male/female prospective. Read more
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I think this book has some good ideas, and makes you think about your habits that may be driving people away. But it really didn't tell me anything I didn't already know. Read more
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