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"A bold, in your face guide to becoming what a man wants - April opens up in true girlfriend form." -- Heather Froeschl, Quilldipper, January 30, 2006

"April Masini, author of "Think & Date Like A Man" is the new millennium's answer to Dear Abby." -- Steve Kasper, Executive Vice-President MillionaireMatch.com
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"Think & Date like a Man, April Masini's latest book is a winner!" -- Shirley Roe, Allbooks Reviews, Febuary 14, 2006.

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This book was written in response to the countless questions and calls for help from my readers about dating and relationships – and specifically, requests for advice on how to meet Mr. Right and "close the deal."

We all know that men differ from women in so many ways, especially in how they think – in this case, how they think about women, about sex, about dating, and about relationships. Now, if you were trying to make a business deal with, say, a Japanese CEO, wouldn’t it make sense to learn how the Japanese think and speak? Attracting a man is no different than scoring a successful deal: You want something from (or better, with) him – a relationship. Mastering the intricacies of the mind of your prospective mate is the key to attaining him – and keeping him. So learn his language. Learn his thought processes. And be prepared for success: That understanding will greatly increase your odds of getting what you want. I know because I’ve experienced it personally, as have countless women I’ve enlightened about "Man-Think."

Here’s an example: Unlike a woman, a man does not worship at the altar of The Relationship. He does not throw himself body and soul into developing and nurturing The Relationship. He does not fall apart like a house of cards if The Relationship doesn’t work out. It’s not that a relationship wouldn’t be important to him at some point down the line. And it’s not that he can’t commit or isn’t capable of real love. It’s just that The Relationship isn’t the be-all and end-all of his existence.

What is the be-all and end-all of a man’s life? He is. His needs, his desires, and his goals are. Men were not brought up to please everyone around them like most women were. Men have been doted on and waited on by over attentive mothers since birth. While girls were learning how to make boys happy, boys were learning how to make themselves happy. As a result, men have learned that THEY are the center of the universe. Not you. Not The Relationship. Does this mean that men will never want a relationship? Of course it doesn’t. A relationship with you could very well be on a man’s list of desires. But if it is, it’s probably not his only desire or even the most important one to him. On the list of things important in his life, getting to know you could be ranked number 3, 7, or 12, along with his career, exercising, sports, his male friends, his family, his female friends, his hobbies, his penis, his quest to find himself, his search for an autographed photo of Angelina Jolie on eBay, or even his desire to simply be alone for a while.

And just as you are hopefully on his list of life essentials, you are certainly not the only one on that list. To men, dating is a numbers game. He’s not waiting by the phone for you to call. He’s not planning his weekend around you and your schedule. He’s getting out there, increasing the odds — his odds -- at least, for now. At least, until you both have mutually made that agreement of exclusivity. Until then, he’s not marrying you, he’s not getting engaged to you, he’s not committing to you; he is dating. He is dating you, just like he is dating other women. He’s finding out what’s out there, what he likes, what he needs. That’s what a man does. That’s how a man thinks. That’s how a man dates. And that’s what you should do, how you should think, and how you should date – if you hope to eventually have that mutual commitment. Because if he gets wind of your worship at the altar of The Relationship before he’s even considered what’s between the two of you, he’ll be out the door.

Think & Date Like a Man will reveal how a man thinks and dates so that knowing this, you can now employ your most womanly powers effectively.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 164 pages
  • Publisher: iUniverse, Inc. (November 15, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0595374662
  • ISBN-13: 978-0595374663
  • Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (15 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #529,675 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars What Woman need to know!, June 14, 2006
By Jenny Paulino (New York, NY) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Think & Date Like A Man: (Be the woman who gets the man she wants...and keeps him!) (Paperback)

This book tells the truth about men, and it tells women what we NEED TO KNOW (to succeed with men), which is not necessarily what we want to hear. It's a well written, easy read that had me laughing out loud. It is also full of valuable information, including where and how to meet successful men. This is not a politically correct book, but it is a book that motivates you to take action and delivers results. ( It is working for me!) My only complaint is that I wish he had read it sooner!
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9 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars Misleading title & poorly written, January 23, 2007
By Cinnamon Girl (Studio City, California USA) - See all my reviews
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This is a poorly written book in urgent need of an editor. As well, I did not find anything in this book about how to think and date like a man. How MEN think (or feel) about some things and how they date, yes, but not how WOMEN are to think and date that makes their thinking and dating like that of men. Maybe it would help if the book had a different title that more accurately represented what the author actually does write about instead of a title that was, perhaps, used to get women to buy the book. Misleading title aside, I think this book might be suited for young girls or newly single women who are re-entering the dating scene. However, I even hesitate to recommend it for them because I think that, overall, what AM writes about is not conducive to a mutually loving, respectful, enlivening, and emotionally mature relationship between adults.

I agree with AM that confidence is key, but one must learn what confidence is and how to have it, as real confidence cannot be faked. There are many authors and books I'd recommend instead of this book. Peace.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars This book is ridiculous., June 22, 2008
This review is from: Think & Date Like A Man: (Be the woman who gets the man she wants...and keeps him!) (Paperback)
I purchased this book awhile ago, but not from Amazon. I have no idea how this woman could be compared with "Dear Abby". I'm not saying she's a complete idiot, because I'm sure she can't have this much success without knowing how to market herself in some way, but she clearly doesn't know how men think, or atleast not consistently.

One conclusion I've come to, is that only men know how men think, and only women know how women think. Anything more, is merely a guess. You have your good guesses, and bad guesses. April Masini makes MANY bad guesses. It's also generic stuff, for the most part.

In general, I don't like "gurus". They lie, they are marketing experts, and they are incessantly devoted to patting themselves on the back. They also tend to recycle the "facts" of others, to fit their own scenarios.

April Masini, is a guru. I wasn't going to give a review, but I noticed an article by her on what women think about nice guys on Yahoo, and it was generic, like this book. It was also more than partly mistaken, just like this book. I bought it, because I was looking for real answers about how men think with regards to dating. I didn't get any of those answers. If you buy this book, I hope it can provide something for you, because it certainly hasn't for me.

I wish Amazon allowed you to give zero stars in a rating. This is worthy.
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