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The Elephant in the Living Room: Make Television Work for Your Kids (Hardcover)

~ Dimitri A. Christakis (Author), Frederick J. Zimmerman (Author)
Key Phrases: mindful viewing, nonhostile humor, toy requests, Sesame Street, United States, Blue's Clues (more...)
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"Reading The Elephant in the Living Room is like having two smart, sensitive, reasonable experts in your living room as you think about the role of TV in your kids' lives. This is the only book you’ll need to help you parent through the ever-growing maze of television options."  -- Rachel Simmons, author of Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls



"This book is an excellent guide for parents who want to understand the effects of TV and DVD viewing on their children. I highly recommend it."  - Alvin F. Poussaint, MD, Professor of Psychiatry, Harvard Medical School and Judge Baker Children’s Center, Boston MA
 
"In an ever expanding television universe we think we understand what television is, but do we know what is does? Drs Christakis and Zimmerman illuminate the contentious issue of how television's messages can be a potentially positive or significantly negative influence in your child's life. How television makes that happen and what parents can do are cleared described. This is a must read for any parent, grandparent or other caregiver raising a media-exposed and often exploited child."  -- Donald Shifrin, MD, FAAP, Chairman of Committee on Communications, American Academy of Pediatrics



"This is the book about television that thoughtful parents have been waiting for. Instead of arguing with your friends and neighbors about how much children should or should not watch television---everyone one has an opinion on that subject!---read this book. It is all in here. When you have finished The Elephant in the Living Room you will make wiser decisions for your child. You will know what you need to know about the impact of television on violent behavior, sexual behavior, the spending habits of children, and obesity. Drs. Christakis and Zimmerman have done a superb job of synthesizing and explaining what scientists know about the impact of television on children in this fascinating, readable book."
- Michael Thompson, PhD, co-author of the New York Times bestseller, Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys



"Television has a huge impact on every child and family in this country.  This should be required reading for every parent and teacher who’s concerned about the topic." - James P. Steyer, founder and CEO, Common Sense Media (commonsensemedia.org)

 





"Christakis and Zimmerman have an important message for all parents. They have produced a book that balances science and good sense and spiced it with humor and wisdom. Today’s concerned parents want to tame the elephant in the living room. The authors deliver sound advice born from years of scientific research and from their own experience as parents. This is a book that will make a difference to parents, policymakers, and child educators. Finally, a book that can help today’s overwhelmed parents cut through the hype. It is the best book about television and children on the market."   - Andrew N. Meltzoff, Ph.D., Director, Institute for Learning and Brain Sciences, and co-author, The Scientist in the Crib: What Early Learning Tells Us about the Mind



"This is an important book which will help parents understand and redefine the role of television in their children’s lives. Christakis and Zimmerman have done a masterful job of making their research accessible to those who want the best for their children."  - Michael Rich, MD, MPH, Director, Center on Media and Child Health, Children’s Hospital Boston, Harvard Medical School



"This wonderful, highly readable book translates the very latest scientific research on a wide array of important issues into easily understandable terms. It clearly explains the effects of TV on kids, and provides well-designed techniques for parents to promote their children’s healthy psychological development. Anyone who cares about kids should read The Elephant in the Living Room."  - Joanne Cantor, Professor Emerita, Director, Center for Communication Research, University of Wisconsin-Madison, author of Mommy, I’m Scared and Teddy’s TV Troubles.



"This is a skillful summary of current research on the effects of television on children and adolescents.  It should be a must-read for all parents, whether expecting or in the middle of coping with the electronic world in which their children are living.  Rather than simply bashing television for all the harm it can do, the book rightly assumes that the more important question now is how to make television work for us rather than against us?  Blending anecdote with scientific studies in a highly readable way, the authors make a compelling case that parents can help their children be more "mindful viewers" so the good effects will outweigh the bad.  We’ve needed a book like this.  I look forward to recommending it to the many parents I talk with who are concerned about the increasingly powerful role of television and other media in their children’s lives."   - Jane D. Brown, Ph.D., James L. Knight Professor, School of Journalism and Mass Communication, University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill



"A must for every parent's library. In an easy, conversational manner, packed with solid information and good advice, Christakis and Zimmerman help us understand the urgent need to take control of TV's impact on our children and ourselves--and they provide us with the tools to do it."  - Susan Linn, Ed.D., Associate Director of the Media Center of Judge Baker Children's Center and Instructor in Psychiatry, Harvard Medical School



"Drs. Christakis and Zimmerman's The Elephant in the Living Room is easy to read and contains information that every parent and grandparent must have, but doesn't. As parents, we cannot make intelligent decisions about our children's physical and mental wellbeing unless we have the facts -- and finally, here they are!  I have been waiting for this book for a long time."   - Robert Kesten, Executive Director, TV-Turnoff Network



"Television has a huge impact on every child and family in this country.  This should be required reading for every parent and teacher who’s concerned about the topic."  -- James P. Steyer, founder and CEO, Common Sense Media


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The nation’s top child development experts examine the effects of television on children and their groundbreaking research will startle many

Television is the "elephant in the living room" of our culture. American children watch television an average of 3 hours per day, and many parents sheepishly concede that they rely on television as an electronic babysitter. But TV is not necessarily harmful to kids. The authors present groundbreaking scientific evidence that television can be a powerful and effective tool—for entertainment, for education, and for socialization.

The secret is for parents to learn how to use television as a tool, not a crutch. With a detailed explanation of the effects of television viewing on kids’ emotional, mental, and physical development, plus tips to enable parents to act on this new knowledge, they’ll soon be able to turn TV into a positive force in their child’s life. The authors share:

• which popular shows increase your child’s reading ability—and which may delay speech development
• which televised sports boost girls’ self-image—and which ones could cause eating disorders
• the best and worst programming for every age, from toddler to teen


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  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Rodale Books (August 22, 2006)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1594862761
  • ISBN-13: 978-1594862762
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 5.6 x 1.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #122,734 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Long overdue, September 1, 2006
By Natale's Dad (Pittsburgh, PA) - See all my reviews
At last, a book that helps involved parents make informed and thoughtful decisions about the ubiquitous TV. It's hard to believe that it's taken so long for this type of book to be written, but what a reflief that it finally has. As the father of a lively 6 year old boy, I've yet to come across a book related to parenting that is so readable while being interesting, relevant to day-to-day life, and genuinely useful. It's changed the way I think about TV, and I suspect it will actually improve that life of our family over the long haul (no small claim).
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11 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Not perfect, but helpful, January 7, 2007
I picked this book up already convinced that t.v. is basically the worst thing that ever happened to society, so I was skeptical to say the least. However, as the authors state, their intent is to admit that t.v. is here to stay, and for the overwhelming majority, getting totally rid of it would not be an option, and offer guidance in how to make watching it as beneficial as possible.

What this amounts to, it seems, is telling readers that your children under 7 are basically confined to 'Sesame Street', 'Mister Rodger's Neighborhood', 'Blues Clues', and nature shows on Discovery channel. I found their assessment of Sesame Street a little over the top in their praise of its supposed benefits, though later on in the book they admit that merchandising has begun to compromise the integrity of the show and its imitators. The fact is, there are a number of major studies that have directly challenged the ability of shows like Sesame Street to produce real-life results in reading and mathematics, and much of the research the authors cite as supportive of the show was done or funded by the creators of the show themselves, a definite conflict of interest when funding is on the line.

The research on content in terms of sexuality, violence, and materialism that is dealt with is pretty accurate. My biggest disappointment was that the authors failed to spend any real time dealing with the long term effects of visual media on learning ability at the neurological level, a subject that in and of itself makes one quite wary of significant exposure to television. There was maybe a paragraph or two, but that's all.

Overall, the impression I got was that the authors have an underlying uneasiness with the whole idea of t.v., and if they thought enough of their readers would accept it, they'd recommend chucking the thing out the window. However, as stated in the beginning, they know this is impossible, so the book ends up sounding like a hesitant admission of the fact and an almost reluctant setting forth of strategies to overcome the inherent and perisistent flaws of the medium, punctuated here and there by brief offerings of lavish praise for the possibilities of t.v. to expand our horizons and foster meaningful conversation. In short, most chapters give all kinds of wonderful suggestions, but are interspersed with admissions that seem to contradict their earlier celebrations of the potential benefits of television.

Personally, I would still recommend the book since I know also the futility of asking people to abandon t.v. altogether. However, I would strongly urge the reader to also get a copy of 'The Plug-In Drug" by Mary Winn, a book written about ten years ago that comes to the same basic conclusions and recommendations, but is more forthright about the downside of television and the industries it propogates. I find it significant (and revealing), that it was never cited by the authors of this book, considering that it is seen by most who have followed this subject for some time (as the authors obviously have been) as a seminal work. Critics of Winn have labeled her a Luddite, but while she does come off as somewhat hostile toward t.v., she is also realistic and manages to stay objective. It is a necessary companion to this book.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A Tremendous Resource For Parents, September 5, 2006
By Evan Westerfield "Parent of Two" (Chicago, IL United States) - See all my reviews
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As a father of two young children, I have often wondered (guitily) whether I was failing as a parent by letting my children watch TV. Frankly, I enjoy watching TV myself, and have fond memories of watching it as a child. Plus, I find it is an indispensable "soux chef" at times to preparing meals or getting anything done around the house. Is this wrong? Everything I had read in the popular press suggested maybe it was, or maybe it wasn't, without any satisfying reasons either way.

Finally, this book came along. It answered my questions and ended my feelings of guilt. It explains all the ways in which certain forms of TV can be good for children, in clear, entertaining language and with specific suggestions on how to maximize those opportunities. It further identifies the various forms of "bad" TV that exist (using really interesting, easy-to-understand examples from current research), and gives good suggestions on how to avoid that TV (or even better, how to turn them into learning opportunities themselves).

In this book, TV is neither all good or all bad - but instead something that can be one or the other depending on how you approach it and use it. The authors give you a way to think about TV (along with practical advice) that (for me) provided reassurance about the TV I do watch - as well as renewed strength to stand up and turn off the TV that (let's face it, I knew already) shouldn't be watched by my kids. My sense of confusion and guilt has been replaced with a clear sense of understanding and purpose. I can't thank the authors enough.
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