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Emergency Sex and Other Desperate Measures: A True Story From Hell On Earth (Hardcover)

by Kenneth Cain (Author), Heidi Postlewait (Author), Andrew Thomson (Author) "My husband's colleagues don't believe he has a wife since I never show up at any of their events..." (more)
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Ah, to be young, Western and ambitious in a war zone. It's the early 1990s, and Cain and Postlewait are two American U.N. employees sent to Cambodia to help the country rebuild itself after two decades of war and genocide. Thomson is a New Zealandâ€"trained doctor who has already been there for a short while, patching up limbs shattered by land mines and looking for a corner of the world to save. The three meet during the U.N.'s efforts to install democracy in one of the unlikeliest places. Idealism, financial need, thirst for adventure and the desire to be a part of history bring them there, and the high they get from doing their work keeps them flitting around the globe, looking for hot spots to help cool down. The trio's early success in Southeast Asia is only added encouragement, as they follow their own intertwining paths through the wars and killings of the 1990s. From Cambodia, Somalia and Haiti, to Bosnia, Rwanda and Liberia, Cain, Postlewait and Thomson find death, sex, bureaucratic betrayal, sex, liberation from their pasts and seamy, regret-tainted sex amid the body parts and rotting flesh. Infuriating, heart-wrenching and well written, their tale is compelling both as a bottom-up look at U.N. peacekeeping efforts during the 1990s and a testimonial from the people who put their lives and sanity on the line for the sake of a simple ideaâ€"peace. 16 pages of b&w photos not seen by PW.
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At the beginning of the 1990s, the authors, who did not know each other, came together in, of all places, Phnom Penh, Cambodia. There was the Harvard Law graduate who didn't want to be just another corporate lawyer; the New York social worker who saw her chance to make a difference slipping away; the missionary doctor looking for the best way to use his skills to help the people who need him most. They all came to Cambodia as part of the UN peacekeeping mission, and there they became friends, colleagues, and much more. The book is about people who went somewhere for all the right reasons and wound up facing challenges they never knew existed. The story is vividly told, almost tactile in its details. Many of the book's images--of poverty, desolation, abuse--are difficult to forget. For the authors, it was an experience that enriched them beyond measure. This is a unique and rewarding book, a mix of memoir, history, travel, and personal analysis. David Pitt
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Hardcover: 320 pages
Publisher: Miramax (June 9, 2004)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1401352014
ISBN-13: 978-1401352011
Product Dimensions: 9.3 x 6.3 x 1.1 inches
Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)

Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars See all reviews (64 customer reviews)

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5.0 out of 5 stars powerful, moving, important and timely, June 21, 2004

By	"catherineo" (New York, NY USA) - See all my reviews

Here's a book for anyone who'd like to learn something about what's going on around the globe, in human language--not development jargon, not bulleted press notes, not preachy moralistic speaches, but real human language, from real people, who lived ten years of their lives in some of the world's toughest places, and who lived, loved and lost in those places. A gripping, moving, funny account.

I used to work with the UN myself, and the experiences that the authors write about are in some ways familiar (and in other ways, totally unfamiliar). This is not just a book about UN scandals or failures, as the media (and some reader reviews) suggest. This is largely, and maybe more to the point, a coming-of-age story, about three young people who confront their own life values and beliefs. It will make you think about your own role in the world -- and the roll those who are in positions of relative power, who have been given the "official" authority to proclaim moral judgement over the globe's hot spots. This is an important, moving book, that's sad in some parts, but also immensely rewarding.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Don't Miss the Point!, November 28, 2004

By	Dr. Dan (Tel Aviv) - See all my reviews

This is an astonishingly honest description of what happens to people from a sheltered Western background who suddenly have to cope with some of the most horrifying aspects of the world we find ourselves in. As you read it, look at the situations they find themselves in, and try to imagine how you would respond. Of course you'd criticize (often justly) the chiefs above you, but that doesn't mean that you'd do a better job. Don't read it as a political diatribe but as individuals trying to protect themselves and still do something when nothing can be done. I've worked in these and similar situations for twenty years, and have known many people like these three. Often you won't like them, because of the psychological coping mechanisms they have and the personalities they have developed that helps them through the morass.

THe sexual elements that run through the story--particularly Heidi's narrative--are one way of responding to death: by engaging in one of the most life-affirming acts there is. I've known people who, in the face of death, suddenly need 'emergency' sex to prove they are alive. I'm glad Heidi had the honesty to tell this side of the story, regardless of the consequences. I can't criticize her because I know many people who have many relationships for far worse reasons!

This isn't a book that should be read for its political position, for the 'truth' about what 'really happened'. For example, I disagree strongly with Ken about whether the Rwandan Genocide could have been stopped--and I was next door in Burundi watching it happen. He doesn't mention that the French sent troops in to reinstall the Hutu government, that they found it an impossible situation, and withdrew to the quietest corner of the country. But these are quibbles, and reflect our differing perception of the situation. I'd bet he and I could come to a common ground in a few minutes in a bar over a beer.

But get back to the point. This isn't a political expose, it's a psychological one, and it is the best book I've read that grapples with this issue. I know. I've been there.

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5.0 out of 5 stars An up-close and personal look at U.N. impotence. I loved it., April 16, 2005

By	Linda Linguvic (New York City) - See all my reviews (TOP 100 REVIEWER) (REAL NAME)

From the moment I heard about this 2004 book, subtitled "A true story from hell on earth", I knew I had to read it. Co-written by three former U.S. peace workers who met in Cambodia in 1993, this book is a perfect fit for my interests. Told in alternating first-person narratives, every word of their story rings true. And, as an added bonus, there's humor mixed in with the horror which is so funny that there were places where I actually laughed out loud. Their assignments included Cambodia, Somalia, Haiti, Bosnia, Rwanda and Liberia - and they soon lose their innocence about their "do-gooder" status.

When we first meet Heidi, she's 30 years old and has just walked away from a bad marriage. She's a secretary at the U.N. and jumps at the chance to travel to Cambodia as a peace worker for the elections. Then there is Ken, a Harvard law student who knows he wants more out of life than sitting in a corporate office. Andrew comes from New Zealand and is already working as a doctor in Cambodia. Through their own voices I felt I personally knew these individuals and was hearing their stories at a social gathering.

These stores, however, were more than just a tale told to entertain friends. They were personal, such as when Ken had a romantic experience with an Israeli woman during a scud missile attack and when Heidi, on a short vacation, has an affair with an African tribesman. But it is also about the abject fear they feel when the bullets are flying and the hard and scary choices they have to make when suddenly they are in charge. The stories also held details of terrible injustices and their privileged and powerless status of U.N. workers.

Andrew works in a hospital in Haiti that is not off-limits to men with guns who come in to finish off a patient. Later, he is put in charge of unearthing mass graves in Bosnia and Rwanda. Ken ties to get humanitarian aid for Hutu prisoners in Rwanda. Heidi works the radio at a base in Somalia when Ken is in a life-and-death situation. Their adventures are mixed with horror all the time. And there is also a feeling of impotence.

In addition to the human stories that unfolded in front of me, I also got an up-close-and-personal look at the U.N. impotence, especially since many of the so-called peacekeeping troops are thugs themselves. Also, serious questions were raised about some U.S. policies which seemed to promise so much in Somalia and Haiti, but instead left the people even worse off than before. I guess I always understood these things but this book opened my eyes in a whole new way.

I hadn't expected photographs but there is a whole section of pictures in the middle of the book. I loved each one of them because it made the authors even more real.

The final chapter which puts them all back in New York was rather anti-climatic but I guess it was necessary to bring the reader up to date. However, I loved this book and highly recommend it. It's engaging, it's real, there's much food for thought and a lot to learn.

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