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by Katherine Taylor (Author) "I knew how to listen in on the telephone extension without anyone hearing a click..." (more)
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Katherine Taylor's debut features a narrator named Katherine Taylor, whose rebellious mother sends her from Fresno to Manhattan's fictional Claver prep at age 13. The madcap, fast-forward shenanigans that follow read like Auntie Mame à la A.M. Homes. Rich Claver friend Page gets pregnant and develops a coke habit. Katherine gets a Columbia M.F.A. but lacks drive, tending bar at an exclusive hotspot while trying not to deal with her abrasive mom. Katherine's brother, Ethan, a gay actor, rooms with her in her cheap uptown digs until he becomes "the face of Diet Coke." There's ambivalent romance that involves a move to London. Claver friend Clarissa gets cancer as she turns 30. When a nutty neighbor threatens to kill Katherine, police advise vacating, but "giving up a rent-controlled apartment to save your life is as ridiculous as living in Queens." While a lot of what Katherine does is familiar, Taylor is a superb satirist, eviscerating everyone in her Katherine's path. In the middle of the novel she drops a list of "rules for saying goodbye"; it's extraneous, even precious, and it's the best thing in the book: e.g., "Once you are gone, be gone for good." Taylor manages to make worn New York yarns feel fresh again. (June)
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"Katherine Taylor's debut novel is sensational. It's wry, funny, heartfelt, and written with grace. I thought boys had the patent on cruelty, but wow, girls can be rough on each other! And yet it's a testament to Taylor's talent that this novel never loses sight of the complexity, the humanity, at the heart of these characters. The story isn't always pretty, but it's so damn good." -- Victor LaValle, author of The Ecstatic and Slapboxing with Jesus
 "Reading Katherine Taylor is like meeting at a party full of strangers the person you instantly recognize will be a friend for life. Confiding, gossipy, and heartfelt, Rules for Saying Goodbye charts the inexplicable failings and the surprising durabilities of love. It is a sparkling and witty debut."
 -- Elisabeth Robinson, author of the New York Times bestseller The True and Amazing Adventures of the Hunt Sisters

"This story tumbles through years of a life, careening through cities, through decadent days and nights, through ranks of soulful and magnetic characters. Taylor can wink like Dorothy Parker, and move through worlds like Christopher Isherwood. After you read the last page, your shirt-cuffs will be stained with wine and perfumed with cigarette smoke, and you will be giddy and exhausted from this long, tender, bittersweet, intimate, lovely party." -- Jardine Libaire, author of Here Kitty Kitty
 "For a fleeting and innocent period in a certain kind of girl's life, cocktails and cigarettes are just an excuse to talk to each other. Rules for Saying Goodbye elegantly describes how this equation reverses--the talking becomes the excuse for the cocktails and cigarettes. In her smart and funny novel, Katherine Taylor renders with unusual precision both the wistfulness and the wit in female friendships." — Dana Spiotta, National Book Award-nominated author of Eat the Document
 
“Achieves a directness and intimacy few novels can match. A beautifully observed and poignant book.” —T.C. Boyle


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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 320 pages
  • Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux (May 29, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0374252718
  • ISBN-13: 978-0374252717
  • Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.6 x 1.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #609,104 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)


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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars This is some funny a** sh**!, January 18, 2008
Though I'm more prone to picking up a mystery novel than I am to reading satire about the globetrotting tales of a woman who is a 20-something Manhattan MFA grad, this book had me laughing out loud. The pace is quick, as is the wit.

I can't wait to see how Taylor follows up this great book!

Thanks for the great read.
Brent (B. Billy) Curtis
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15 of 19 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Very Interesting Book, Highly Recommended , June 8, 2007
To be honest, this book is out of my usual genre, I only read it because I was trying to cozy up to a Woman who I noticed was reading it. My tactic failed, the book did not.

This author has the ability to lull you into what you think will be a stylistic and breezy read, and then without changing style or demeanor, she somehow drops an anvil on your head. I'd say she has a real talent for communicating life's follies, both the one's you laugh about with friends, and the one's you keep buried in shame.

Its the type of book that stays with you for a while.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Fine Memoir, June 1, 2008
Although the title and its brief elaboration in the body of the book suggest chick-lit, and probably this was grafted on for marketing purposes, the story actually is a thoughtful Bildungsroman of a young woman intoxicated with the sophistication, glamor and savoir faire exuded by a Groton classmate and her Upper East Side grandmother, and, later, by an enigmatic girlfriend in NYC, where both sow wild oats, as the writer stumbles toward a clearer understanding of her own destiny.

Taylor's writing is economical and effective in conveying nuance. If Robert Louis Stevenson is correct in saying that it is hard writing that makes for easy reading, Taylor must have put in a lot of effort on this work. There was a minor kerfuffle in the press over her asking Ben Kunkel for a blurb and his declining to do so, but this is by far the better book compared to his weak, overpraised debut "Indecision". I liked this book so much I actually felt compelled to reread it a few months later. Move over Auchincloss and Sittenfeld, you've got company.

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3.0 out of 5 stars Depressing!
Kate Taylor's entire life is a mess. Her family is textbook dysfunctional, with a budding criminal for a brother, a neurotic mother and a mostly absent father. Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars A comedy of manners for our own time
This funny, lively, sharply observed book satisfies on all levels. Taylor takes the picaresque approach in updating the comedy-of-manners genre for our own time as we follow one... Read more
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Katherine Taylor's debut novel is a derivative mess, a tome so hollow that the characters never become more than tired caricatures. Read more
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Katherine Taylor, the protagonist of Katherine Taylor's novel, is a latterday Jake Barnes--with more than an ounce of Holden Caulfield and Camus' Meursault. Read more
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I want to keep reading! If you have ever been 21 years old, this is the book for you. It has reminded me how books can sometimes be better than even sex.
Published on June 11, 2007 by Brian Duck

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I zipped right through. I adore this writer. I could imagine spending all night talking with her, drinking a saketini. Read more
Published on May 30, 2007 by M. Arigo

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