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5.0 out of 5 stars
Time Is Not On Your Side, March 5, 2009
Before I Forget by Leonard Pitts, Jr. is a story of three generations of black men who are related by blood, but each struggles with their role of being a father and do not understand the heritage that bonds them and makes them who they are. The main character, Mo Johnson, a former soul star of the 70s, has just found out at age 49, he suffers from early-onset Alzheimer's, which will have him forget who he is before the disease kills him. This news, as expected, spins his world out-of-control. Trey, his son, at 19 also has a son, spends his time dreaming to be a rap star and has no means of supporting himself beyond what his mother and father provide to him, and he has just been arrested for robbery and murder. Jack, Mo's father, is dying of cancer and would like to see the son who has not spoken to him in 30 years, once more before he dies. While Mo's initial reaction to this request is no, the circumstances on why Mo refuses to speak to his father forces him to change his mind, as there are some things Mo needs to say before his memory is gone. So, Mo decides to embark on a trip back home to L.A. from Maryland, taking Trey with him as while Mo has supported his son financially he has not given him time and attention and wants to now spend time with his son.
Leonard Pitts weaves a wonderful story which is both painful and truthful, yet with compassion so the reader is able to view the lives of each of these characters and understand who they are. As Mo and Trey drive across country, the story unfolds in a series of flashbacks, alternating with action in the current time. The characters' voices for each of the generations were true to their times and I found myself smiling as I also heard the voices of the older and younger generations in my family. The most poignant of the storylines to me was the unfolding of the effect of Mo's early-onset Alzheimer's on him and his son, Trey.
Fathers are a major theme that affect both the major and secondary characters. The underlying question for the characters is what is a father and how do you effectively fill this role and more importantly, this book shows how black men wrestle with this issue and the different ways they come to terms with it. The author has the courage to address an issue that is on the minds of many in the black community and whether you agree with the characters' decisions or not - you will appreciate the honest portrayal.
I recommend this book to all readers who are interested in a well-written story on current topics. This is a wonderful debut novel and I look forward to reading Mr. Pitts' next book.
Reviewed by Beverly
APOOO BookClub
March 3, 2009
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This is a story every father should read, May 10, 2009
There isn't a blurb from Bill Cosby on the back of Leonard Pitts's first novel, "Before I Forget." But this is a cautionary tale Cosby would recommend.
In May 2004, the comedian spoke at an NAACP Legal Defense Fund banquet to commemorate the 50th anniversary of the landmark Supreme Court Brown v. Board of Education decision. Cosby drew ire and hostility because he blamed the black community itself for school dropouts, crime and teen pregnancy rates.
"I'm talking about these people who cry when their son is standing there in an orange suit. Where were you when he was 2? Where were you when he was 12? Where were you when he was 18, and how come you don't know he had a pistol? And where is the father ...?"
It's a question any race could ask these days. One of every 10 teenaged Florida girl got pregnant in 2007: 43 percent were white, 33 percent black, 33 percent Hispanic. In 2008, 48 percent of inmates were black, 18 percent Hispanic, 7 percent white. But the point is not ethnicity or gender, the point is that there is an epidemic of missing fathers. Mothers are doing the best they can, but in many cases, they're working and doing the parenting, all alone.
Where is the father? Indeed. One in three children live in a one-parent household.
Pitts, who won the Pulitzer Prize in the same year, took up the drumbeat with his novel about three fictional fathers. The first, Jack Johnson, was angry because he was raped and beaten while in prison. He became a drunk, and beat his wife and son.
Jack's son, Mo Johnson, turned out to be a soul singer with the stature of Marvin Gaye, but he was always on the road while his son was growing up. An indifferent father, he saw the boy once a year.
Where was the father? Indeed. Absentee fathers beget absentee fathers. Mo's boy, Trey, grew up angry. He had a great mother, but no paternal influence. At 19, he and two friends robbed a convenience store. The owner was murdered. At first, Mo blamed the boy, but then he realized the most important fact of his life - he didn't know his son.
At the same time, Mo, who has early onset Alzheimer's, got a call from his own father in California, who was dying. Mo and Trey's 6,000 mile road trip - a common literary device that worked well in Pitts's missive about Everydad and Everyson - gave them the chance to finally understand each other.
"In our own neighborhood, we have men in prison," Cosby told the crowd at Howard University. "No longer is a person embarrassed because they're pregnant without a husband. No longer is a boy considered an embarrassment if he tries to run away from being the father of the unmarried child."
Where is the outrage, Bob Dole would have asked. Indeed. It's a question we all ask occasionally, and we struggle for answers.
"In the neighborhood that most of us grew up in, parenting is not going on. In the old days, you couldn't hooky school," Cosby said. Communities raised children. Moms and dads called other moms and dads, and parents knew where truant children had gone. "Parents don't know that today."
"People with their hat on backwards, pants down around the crack. Isn't that a sign of something or are you waiting for Jesus to pull his pants up? Isn't it a sign of something when she's got her dress all the way up to the crack - and got all kinds of needles and things going through her body. Brown versus the Board of Education is no longer the white person's problem. We've got to take the neighborhood back."
Where is the father? That is, indeed, the lesson Trey finally learns from his father. Trey is a teen father. His son is already 4, and his mother was murdered by her mother. This is the world in which we're living, Pitts and Cosby are saying. And instead of correcting our children when they do wrong, we're defending them.
The question both Cosby and Pitts ask is, where is our decency? Indeed. How much coarser will society become, when fewer and fewer people don't go to school, can't read, can't write, can't add or subtract, and don't care?
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Bigger, Smarter, Better, November 6, 2009
Just finished "Before I Forget" - The writing is so good , the first few chapters were like reading Baldwin - But I kept thinking this isn't anything I know or relate to - When I got to the end of the story I realized I was bigger, smarter, better -This is a shared journey -
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