I really don't mean to be as caustic as I sound. I apologize for what appears to be rude, my guess is that you DON'T deserve it, personally, and if you did, I wouldn't be one to judge. I'm only responding to ideas and undercurrents. Which, I admit, irritate me enormously.
"I have read whole pages full of these types of reviews and have yet to find someone actually using a scientific theory or scenario to prove even ONE of Mr. Behe's assertions wrong! "
You have searched very, very carefully indeed. So carefully, in fact, that you did not find anything you did not want to find.
Google any of these: "behe refute" "behe refuted" "behe refutation" "behe wrong protiens" "behe flagellum evolution." You'll find LOTS of what you aren't looking for, if you're willing to notice it, AND wade through some ideas and explanations that aren't "simple." That's just a start.
"Just simple, sound processes anyone can understand." This is the best part. If it's real, anyone should get it. If you have to sweat, and think, and risk, and persevere to "understand," then what you "understand" can't be the truth. Right? THAT'S the kind of "irreducible complexity" this whole thing comes down to, really. Laziness. Oh, and fear of real argument, and, very, very often (though not necessarily here) massive self-righteousness and protection of an intellectually comfortable "faith." (Which is sometimes and thankfully not always indicative of a MORALLY comfortable faith.)