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4.0 out of 5 stars Excellent guide for the savvy women executive, May 31, 2009
This review is from: Womenomics: Write Your Own Rules for Success (Hardcover)
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Womenomics is based on the premise that women are demanding new rules of engagement with the corporate world. Women achievers are not willing to sacrifice family and freedom. But many don't know how to go about negotiating for what they want, say the authors. They have to overcome their own guilt and fear, so they can ask for what they want.

The book's advice seems entirely sound and appropriate for senior women executives in many fields. The authors refer to women in politics, media, finance and other industries. They suggest very specific strategies to negotiate for a desirable work schedule. The best part of the book demonstrates what happens when companies stop worrying about face time and focus exclusively on results. Just about everyone who works for an organization has tales of useless meetings and absurd ideas about what constitutes work.

However, I will be interested to see if female executives find the book helpful. As a sometime career consultant, I believe that implementing these strategies calls for strong corporate political skills. You have to know just how and when to make your pitch. The women we meet here have demonstrated their ability to contribute uniquely to their organizations. Many hold competing offers so they're in very strong positions.

I'd also like to see more discussions of the trade-offs involved Turning down a lifetime opportunity to enjoy your child's first day at school may seem like a no-brainer. Later those opportunities may be gone and the world looks different when you're ten years older. Regrets go both ways.

Ultimately, I'm concerned that Womenomics suggests that only married women with children face challenges of juggling work and personal life. Increasingly both men and women are resisting corporate demands and more of us are living in one-person households. Companies that claim to be family-friendly often expect single people to take up the overflow. Many corporate executives (both male and female) will understand when you say, "I want to see my son's soccer game." Meanwhile the components of a single person's life can seem frivolous and unnecessary, yet single people need time to develop and maintain networks of personal and social support.

The authors do not mention the trade-offs that take place in family-friendly workplaces. To take just one example, a female college professor negotiated for a teaching schedule that would allow her to be home by early afternoon, when her kids got home from school. Since there are only so many classrooms and time slots, someone else had to accept a less desirable schedule to accommodate her needs.

So bottom line: The book's advice seems sound, although I wonder if a strong, successful corporate women will need to read this book to figure out how to get what she wants. And I'm all in favor of family-friendly workplace policies, as long as we remember that some families consist of just one person and maybe a dog.
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Initial post: Jun 5, 2009 7:32:55 PM PDT
Although I agree that the work-life balance of all employees (both those with and without children) should be respected by corporations, I don't fully agree with the review above. I've worked at corporations in demanding positions both as a single individual (with no dog but two cats), and as a mother trying to juggle a career and a family. As a single person with no family commitments I definitely didn't like having to work long hours, but the constant guilt of not meeting my family's needs if I stayed late in the office wasn't an issue. It definitely became an issue once I had children though. So although I think that a flexible workplace is something that would benefit everyone alike, this book tries to address the issues of women with families, which in my opinion are not the same as those of single people. I'll give you an example. When I was single and I worked late several days, I had no problems feeling like I righteously deserved to go home early on a given day. However, once I became a mother, I starting losing the confidence to go home early on a given day even though I had been working just as hard as when I was single. The reason being that I would start thinking about how my child had been sick earlier in the week and I had been a couple of hours late one day, so how would it look then if I left early a couple of days later, etc etc.
Yes, I had made up for those two hours by working from home, but the question in my mind wasn't whether I was working less than everyone else (I knew I wasn't), but how it would look to the boss. And I think that issues like these are the ones meant to be addressed in this book. It doesn't make the challenges of single people any less valid, but I do not agree that these challenges are necessarily the same as those of working mothers, and so I don't see a problem with them not being included in the book.

In reply to an earlier post on Jul 2, 2009 2:00:32 PM PDT
I don't think I argued that the challenges are the same or that the author needs to cover challenges of married *and* single people. But it *is* true that respecting the needs of women with children often places additional burdens on single people. You could argue that society owes these women preferential treatment and that we single people should cheerfully accept those burdens! The authors don't have to change anything but I feel it's appropriate to criticize a point of view that defines "family friendly" as "preferential treatment to mothers."

Posted on Jun 5, 2010 7:54:33 AM PDT
let alone the issue of single/childless people not having enough time to go out and socialize (i am one so i understand), what about single PARENTS? like, unmarried women with children? yeah theyre the ones with no personal life.
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