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Find Your Strongest Life and Live Life on Purpose,
This review is from: Find Your Strongest Life: What the Happiest and Most Successful Women Do Differently (Hardcover)
This time around, Marcus Buckingham offers many more tools instead of gadgets comparing Find Your Strongest Life to the Truth About You. I could relate to the check points of knowing you are living a strong life: feeling what you do fulfills you, feeling inspired to start each day, wanting to learn something new, and, your most important needs are being met by your circle of support. If prior to reading this book, I was asked to put into words "why" I felt my life was strong and happy, I would have only been able to say, "because I feel like I am in control of what I do." I am a partner in a small business so while I may feel like I often carry the weight of the world on my shoulders as I also wear my mom and volunteer hats, I thrive on knowing I can make things happen instead of having to wait for permission to take a stab at a new idea. Ownership also keeps me inspired to keep learning about what other small businesses are doing. Thanks to Marcus, I can now intelligently put into words why my life is so rewarding.
However, it was not always like this, by far might I add. This is where I had to stop short of a perfect five stars. If I had read this when my four children were still very young, I would have been completely frustrated because I was in no way married to a man who would ever entertain staying home to raise the kids while I went after what made me feel strong. I also did not have the earning power needed to hire a nanny, or housekeeper, or yard service and an evening job was not possible due to his travel schedule. This was not addressed in Find Your Strongest Life. Maybe this needs to be the next book Marcus--How to Find Happiness with Your Strongest Life on Hold while You Do the Right Thing for Your Family.
Last but not least, while I "get" why you caution being optimistic about everything, this can be a dangerous concept to advocate to the woman whose full time job, not by choice, is raising young kids even though this is not her strong point. What purpose will it serve her to identify the negative aspects of her life when she may not be able to do anything about them at this moment?
I would recommend this book to other women, but only to those women who are in my position, whose kids are older so they are free to create their strongest life.
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Initial post: Sep 13, 2010 7:55:02 AM PDT
S. Rembert says:
I am so glad that you were this specific! The last paragraph re. "feeling strong while you wait" had an intense impact on me. That is exactly my situation and although I am highly skilled and motivated in many ways, I constantly feel like a failure in this aspect and time in my life. Do you know if there is ANY wrtiter who addresses the subject in an applicable way? I'm concerned that my disappointment, self-doubt and frustration are distracting me from fully nurturing my boys and I need to nip it in the bud.
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