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"My dad was addicted to porn and I suffered at his hands because of it. He sexually molested me for years."

That's horrible what happened to you, but your dad didn't molest you because he was "addicted to porn", he molested you because he's an evil predatory narcissist.

A couple of things: First of all, I don't believe in "sex addiction". I think that is utter nonsense and it's simply a matter of varying libido levels, and incompatibility between people with various levels and types of interest in sex. If someone has a higher sex drive than you, it just means you're incompatible, it doesn't mean there's something wrong with them. Just because you have a lower, or closer to the median range if you will, sex drive, doesn't mean that you're morally superior. And some people simply aren't ready for or aren't meant for a long-term monogamous relationship. Now I do believe that sex can serve as a vehicle for people with addiction disorders to play...