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1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 212 Paperback – October 1, 2010
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I was first introduced to this book by my child’s pediatrician. They recommended this book b/c there were some serious attitude that had me concerned about my child at 18 months old. He would throw some serious fits to the point that he would develop a petechia rash on his face; he’d hit, bite, and pinch. I have no idea where he learned these awful behaviors from and I’m not gonna lie ~ it terrified me. I didn’t want to raise that kind of child, nor did I want to have that ‘kid’ in daycare. I wasn’t into the idea of spanking him. I felt that would just escalate the violence that he was already lashing out with.
So, after reading the book and careful consideration, we tried this form of discipline.
I’m not going to say that this book is the end all to bad behavior, nor is it some magical solution with raising a willful, stubborn child. My kid is almost 2 ½ yrs old, he is still constantly pushing his limits, and testing everything, and everyone. I’ve probably read this book once but I have refreshed/skimmed thru it several times in the past year. With saying that, idk if I’m in love with this book or if I just like it. My son still lashes out occasionally, but on less of an occasion that he did before. I’m giving it some more time, b/c it seems to be working… via the long route. But, who ever said that raising kids would be easy and full of short cuts?
While I do believe that every parent will have a different child with a different personality, this method might not be for everyone. But for us, right now, this is the method that we have chosen to go with and it seems to be working.
I also have downloaded and keep a summary pdf that I’ve found online of this book on hand for reference for baby sitters as well as family that I leave my child with.
I’m not sure if I’m allowed to leave this link here but if you google csgreeley.org 1 2 3 magic summary a pdf will come up – it’s 8 pages long and I feel like it’s the best way to make sure everyone that watches my child is on the same page as me. If they have questions, I encourage them to ask and even read the book.
After purchasing this book, and following the principles outlined without deviation, I only had to spank my daughter one time in the 16 years that followed. She's now 19 years old, such a well balanced young woman, in her third year in college.
I can tell you, if you have challenges with your kids and you follow consistently the directions in this book, you will have such a better relationship with your children. I have read people that say a lot of negatives about this book, but the book is NOT designed to replace being a parent. It opens up a world of opportunity for you to actually learn to communcate with your children, give them all the affection they need, teach them how to communicate with you, early and often. The process in this book establishes boundaries which then allow you, as the parent, to explore your relationships and more effectively communicate and love one another as a family.
If you don't talk to your children and love on your children, this book may "help" solve some acting out issues, but it will not help solve the root problem which may be your child crying out for your attention. Combine the process in the book with communication and love. Do this, and your relationship with your children will be so much better and your children will one day thank you, just like mine.....