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Action: A Book about Sex Paperback – May 17, 2016

3.7 3.7 out of 5 stars 44 ratings

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With whip-smart prose, reminiscent of Roxane Gay and Meghan Daum, Action interweaves Spiegel's own sexual autobiography with loving advice on one-night stands, relationships, and everything in between.

With whip-smart prose, reminiscent of Roxane Gay and Meghan Daum, Action interweaves Spiegel's own sexual autobiography with loving advice on one-night stands, relationships, and everything in between. Action is a book about sex that people won't feel embarrassed about owning. There are absolutely zero provocatively shaped fruit on the cover, for one. In Action, Amy Rose Spiegel exhorts you to trust yourself and be respectful of others--and to have the best possible time doing the things you search for on the Internet, except in reality. The book covers consent, safety, group sex, gender, and the best breakfast to make for a one-night stand. Spiegel also includes dissections of threesomes, how to pick people up without being a skeezer, celibacy as a display of autonomy, and, of course, how to clean your room in 10 minutes if a devastatingly lovely side-piece is about to stop by. All told, Action totally doesn't think it's weird that you want to try that thing together. In fact, Action is very into it.

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"A candid guide to 21st-century sexual politics...[where] Spiegel's gift is being able to write with total inclusivity - for queer, trans, straight, asexual and celibate bodies and desires - without scrimping on specificity."―The Guardian

ACTION is a sex advice book for a new, progressive generation, one whose views on sex are informed by a basic ethos of fluid sexuality, body positivity, and feminist responses to rape culture...ensuring that all that sex is not only safe and consensual, but good."―
Slate

"ACTION takes a humorous, kind, and informative bent on humanity's most popular and most confusing activity....[and] is wildly thorough, covering everything."―
Milk

"A perfect compendium...Equal parts banging field guide...and revealing post-romantic memoir."―
The Rumpus

"Action is a perfect mix of informational guide and personal accounts."―
Bitch

"This book should be taught in sex ed classes around the nation and is a treasure."―
The Frisky

"Fast-paced and fun and should be required reading in high schools."―
Fusion

"Thoughtful, informative and sensitive, writing in a way that invites any reader, regardless of gender identity or sexuality, to take part."―
The Huffington Post

"This outrageously funny book interweaves Spiegel's own sexual history with tender advice on one-night stands, relationships, group sex and absolutely everything in between."―
ELLE UK

"I've never actually laughed out loud so frequently in any reading experience, nor received such a thorough education in sexing healthily. Even the most literal, practical, graphic advice in this book is imbued with love, and with Amy Rose Spiegel's singular voice."―
Tavi Gevinson, Editor-in-Chief, Rookie

"Reading Amy Rose Spiegel is tantamount to listening to a new language-surprising to the ear, a shock to the senses, and utterly invigorating. She charters the brave new world of identity politics with trusting vigor-and that rarest of qualities, humor."―
Hilton Als, staff writer for The New Yorker

"Amy Rose Spiegel is the doyenne of doing it, and this book is an open-hearted and open-minded guide for those of us who may not be quite as sexy as its author. Clear, informative, and hilarious, ACTION is made to be read under the covers with a flashlight, and passed surreptitiously among teenage girls in between classes. An instant classic of the sex tome variety."―
Emma Straub, New York Times bestselling author of The Vacationers

"ACTION is a marvelous modern manual on sex, relationships, consent and communication in an era that deeply craves a disappearing intimacy between them all. Ms. Spiegel's writing is both who we are and everything we wish we were brave enough to become: a living, breathing, life-long experiment that lights up everyone and everything that can be touched."―
Amber Tamblyn, actress and author of Dark Sparkler

"Spiegel charms with frank, empowering advice on embracing one's sexuality without apology...This should be required reading for anyone even considering having sex for the first time."―
Publishers Weekly

About the Author

Amy Rose Spiegel is an editor and freelance writ(h)er. Her work has appeared in Rolling Stone, The Guardian, NME, BuzzFeed, Dazed & Confused, The FADER, and many other publications. She came up in New Jersey and currently lives in Brooklyn, New York.

Product details

  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Grand Central Publishing; Illustrated edition (May 17, 2016)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 240 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1455534498
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1455534494
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 7 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.25 x 0.63 x 8 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
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3.7 out of 5 stars
3.7 out of 5
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Customers find the plot candid, honest, informative, and funny. They also say the author guides them to self-acceptance and provides great advice and reminders.

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"Fun, funny, honest, and warm... The author guides you to self-acceptance and then suggests how to find a partner, or two, or......" Read more

"Sexy. Funny. Captivating. Informative.... I could not put it down, it's almost like it was glued to my hands. I'm going to go read it again now, Bye!" Read more

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Reviewed in the United States on July 21, 2016
I've really enjoyed this book. It's like having a conversation with a good friend. Amy Rose Spiegel is candid, honest, informative and funny when she writes about sex and all the feelings, fun and fluids it influences. I would have really benefited from this book when I was a teenager. I'm 44 and I am still benefiting from it.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 21, 2016
Fun, funny, honest, and warm... The author guides you to self-acceptance and then suggests how to find a partner, or two, or...

The "how-to" section might be for you, if you need a bit of encouragement to try something new. This is not just a book about sex, it's a book about healthy, happy living.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 26, 2016
Sexy. Funny. Captivating. Informative.... I could not put it down, it's almost like it was glued to my hands. I'm going to go read it again now, Bye!
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Reviewed in the United States on January 7, 2018
A fun read that had me laughing in the evenings. Thank you Amy Rose Spiegel! Please publish more books!
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Reviewed in the United States on August 30, 2016
It was okay but the writing style was far too manic for my liking
Reviewed in the United States on September 18, 2016
Im not sure what I was expecting from this book but, it was definitely not this. I can't say how many times I wanted to stop the book....but didn't since I did pay for it....I had to finish it.
Reviewed in the United States on August 19, 2016
Meh. This was more fun for her to write than for me to read. I thought I'd give it to a young friend of mine, but it is neither educational nor enlightening. It reads like a confessional of Spiegel's sex life. Not really interested in that, sorry.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 17, 2016
This book removes the blindfolds many of us have been vexed by with today's society. A must read for people looking for a different perspective to something we think we understand, sex.
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Amazon Kunde
2.0 out of 5 stars I did not enjoy reading this
Reviewed in Germany on August 12, 2017
The book definitly is among the view books out that give a good and positive overview over sex however the writing style used was were trying for me. The texts is long but the auther seems to have difficulties to actually make a point. To me it read like random babbling without structure.
ariana
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Reviewed in Canada on November 10, 2016
Very funny read + very informative!
maggigrigri
5.0 out of 5 stars Un livre intelligent
Reviewed in France on February 3, 2017
La jacquette l'affirme, et c'est une vérité, enfin un livre qui parle de sexe et qu'on n'aura pas honte de glisser dans son sac!
Plus que de sexe, cet ouvrage parle de relations respectueuses entre personnes avec beaucoup de sensibilité, de tolérance et d'intelligence!
Pour vous donner une idée, le premier chapitre traite du consentement. Alors oui on y parle parfois de pratiques sexuelles libres, mais ce n'est pas un ouvrage érotique.
J'ai particulièrement aimé le temps que l'auteur passe à expliquer quels partis pris elle adopte, quels raccourcis de langage elle s'autorise...
Après avoir lu ce livre je me sens bien, et pas seulement grâce à l'humour d'Amy Spiegel, j'ai aussi envie d'être quelqu'un de meilleur pour moi-même et pour les autres, et ça fait un bien fou. Un grand merci!
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MitchGarvis
2.0 out of 5 stars Dumb yourself down before reading this.
Reviewed in Canada on August 13, 2016
It is an interesting read that is written terribly. Her style of writing often resembles that of a teenager.
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