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ABC, Adoption & Me -- a Multi-cultural Picture Book for Adoptive Families Paperback – July 1, 2013
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- Reading age1 - 12 years
- Print length36 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Dimensions8.5 x 0.09 x 8.5 inches
- PublisherGayle Swift
- Publication dateJuly 1, 2013
- ISBN-100985676280
- ISBN-13978-0985676285
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Reviewed By Katelyn Hensel for Readers' Favorite"... a sweet and fun book that shows that it's okay to have a family that isn't "traditional." It raises important questions that need to be addressed by adopted families and showcases that love and acceptance are huge parts of what brings families together..."
"ABC, Adoption & Me" breaks new ground in the field of adoption experience integration. Useful for children, families, caretakers, and teachers ... uses bright cartoon illustrations to present interracial adoptive families and origin birth families with equal validity and authenticity, as well as many other adoption sensitive issues and topics. "ABC, Adoption & Me" deserves every single one of its many awards and should be a part of every child's library." Midwest Book Review
"ABC, Adoption & Me... written in the simple style of an ABC definition book, but the concepts contain a depth than is not often found in a children's adoption book. All three of my girls - ranging in age from 4 to 11, remained engaged and interested as we read each page... I have seen each of my children pick this book up from the bookshelf and reread it multiple times, no doubt gleaning new information each time."--Portrait of an Adoption is hosted by Carrie Goldman, the award-winning author of Bullied: What Every Parent, Teacher, and Kid Needs to Know About Ending the Cycle of Fear.
From the Author
Adoption brought great joy to my husband and me. As the children grew, we made adoption a normal part of family conversations. Our placement agency operated on the philosophy of finding families for children, instead of finding children for families. They spent a lot of time educating us to have an open heart about the realities of adoption. We savored the blessings adoption brought us and did not allow that pleasure to cloud our awareness that adoption had its roots in significant loss for our kids. Our family library included most of the kid's titles available at the time. Many were wonderful and we all--kids and parents--enjoyed reading them together.
But the difficult aspects of adoption never got a mention in kid's books. None ever talked about the yearning, the unanswered questions, the puzzling challenge of having both birth and adoptive families. Like most adoptees, our kids wondered about their birth parents, where they were and what they were doing. And of course, the biggie: why were they placed for adoption?
We generated our own "teachable moments" to address these complex issues. We utilized Positive Adoption Language, referred respectfully to their birth parents, and celebrated the gifts their biology contributed to our family. Yet we yearned for a book that addressed this aspect. ABC, Adoption & Me is our answer to this gap in kid's adoption literature.
Who will want to read your book?
Parents can read ABC, Adoption & Me to kids when they are young. Kids will relate to the simple concepts on a very simple level. As they mature, they'll notice the nuances of the material. For example: bellybuttons. We've all got one. The littlest of kids can understand that. As they get older, parents can expand their conversation to connect having a belly button to growing inside their birth mother.Professionals can use ABC, Adoption & Me with the client families. It makes an excellent conversation starter that works toward normalizing many issues that adoptive families face.
Why did you choose the ABC format?
We all learn new material most easily when it can piggyback on current knowledge. By using the ABCs--one of the most basic and earliest things kids learn--there is a ready framework on which to layer these new ideas. Everyone has internalized that little ditty. It's common to all kids. And the adoption concepts the book presents, meld into this context of normalcy.
What goal do you have for your book?
When my daughter and I collaborated on ABC, Adoption & Me, we wanted to assist families in dealing with the realities of adoption, to reassure kids and parents that the ambivalent feelings and conflicting ideas are common and normal. By encouraging these open discussions, families can support each other in a very authentic way. No one has to pretend perfection.
Life is diverse. Families are unique. We made an effort to be culturally inclusive so that the book represents all kinds of kids and families. What connects us all is love. We believe that thread of love and acceptance is the heartbeat of the book. We trust that it will help smooth out some of the bumps in the road as families walk their adoption journey.
Gayle H. Swift and Casey A. Swift
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About the Author
She collaborated on "ABC, Adoption & Me: A Multicultural Picture Book" with her daughter Casey A. Swift (an adoptee,) and trusts that it will support adoptees and the families who love them. ABC, Adoption & Me was named a Favorite Read of 2013 by Adoptive Families Magazine and a Notable Picture Book by Shelf Unbound, a Finalist by IPNE and an Honorable Mention by Purple Dragonfly Book Award. It also earned Honorable Mention on the Gittle 2013 List. Gayle has won six Royal Palm Literary Awards. She blogs on adoption and multicultural issues.
Product details
- Publisher : Gayle Swift; Illustrated edition (July 1, 2013)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 36 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0985676280
- ISBN-13 : 978-0985676285
- Reading age : 1 - 12 years
- Item Weight : 4 ounces
- Dimensions : 8.5 x 0.09 x 8.5 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #995,147 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #512 in Children's Books on Adoption
- #865 in Adoption (Books)
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About the author

Gayle H. Swift, an adoptive mother of two now-adult children, co-founder of (Growing Intentional Families Together,) a certified coach, and a former foster parent is dedicated to supporting adoptees and the families who love them. A fifty-five-year survivor of ovarian cancer, she treasures the blessing of family relationships. Gayle has paraglided in Peru, hiked the citadel of Machu Picchu, trekked glaciers in Antarctica, and snorkeled the glacial melt between the earth's tectonic plates in Iceland. But parenting proved to be the greatest adventure of her life.
She collaborated on the multi-award-winning "ABC, Adoption & Me" with her daughter Casey (an adoptee.) "ABC, & Me" has been re-illustrated and revised to reflect the latest in the professional understanding of the adoptive family's journey. Check out the new Award-winning version that recently earned acclaim from the prestigious Next Generation Indie Book Awards! "The original version of "ABC, Adoption & Me" was named a Favorite Read of 2013 by Adoptive Families Magazine and several other awards. Gayle has won seven Royal Palm Literary Awards. She blogs on adoption at GIFTfamilyservices.com and reviews children's books @ GaylehSwift.com
Gayle and Casey also wrote "We're Adopted, So What?: Teens Tell It Like It Is" to reach tween and teen adoptees. It launched in 2019. Five fictional teen girls share their thoughts and feelings about being adopted, how adoption shapes their world and relationships, creates challenges, and how they strive to blend together their biological and their adoptive worlds. It also is an award-winning book and has earned acclaim from the prestigious Next Generation Indie Book Awards!"
Testimonials for "We’re Adopted: So What?"
"This is a treasure and will help so many families. I love this book so much. I wish I'd had it when my kids were younger.) —Lori Holden, author of The Open-hearted Way to Open Adoption
"My hope is that prospective adoptive parents will buy and read this book before they become parents. Good adoptive parenting requires you to first seek to understand your child's perspective. Owning this book is a good first step." —Lynn Grubb, adoptee and kinship adoptive parent, editor, and creator of "The Adoptee Survival Guide."
Gayle and her colleague Sally Ankerfelt, M. Div, co-wrote "Reimagining Adoption: What Adoptees Seek from Families and Faith" which was also published in June 2019. It won the prestigious Illuminations Book Award Silver Medal which honors "the year’s best new titles written and published with a Christian worldview." In 2019 it received a gold Royal Palm Literary Award! This ground-breaking book helps explores:
How to become better Christian parents and more supportive faith communities
How to answer tough questions and to anticipate who will pose them and why
How to clarify Christian adoption beliefs and practices
What makes adoptees the true adoption experts
How to process the pain of birth parent loss
How to validate adoptee grief and loss
How to support family preservation
Testimonials: “This book opens people of faith to a different perspective than what you would normally hear in mainstream media, your church and your community about adoption. Share it with your pastor, your congregation, and other people of faith.” – Lynn Grubb, Adoptee, Kinship Adoptive Parent
“Reading a book that uses real voices, real words, and real experiences validated my own experience. This book elevated my faith. It is a rare find." -Lolita, fosteree, child welfare professional
Gayle has presented at the NACAC (North American Council on Adoptable Children) Conference and is available to speak. She believes in the power of books to inform, heal, and create community.
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