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"Sit back and relax... I will sing you the song of women.
What women? you ask.
All women, I answer.
Even me? you ask.
Especially you, I answer.
And what will you sing to me? you ask.
Ah, my love, I will sing to you of hidden truths
Yes, hidden truths and secret secrets..."

On a nameless train somewhere between here and nowhere, a woman and a man sit facing each other. She is a journalist there to interview him. He is the world's greatest seducer. Thus begins "The Alabaster Girl," the sensational new novel by Zan Perrion. We get to join the two on this train ride, a fly on the wall, as the seducer recounts his life, philosophy and startling insights, interspersed with excerpts from his new book: "The Alabaster Girl." The book within the book.

The Way of Beauty
The Way of Seduction
The Way of Discovery
The Way of the Natural
The Way of Men
The Way of Women
The Way of Love
The Way of Salvation
The Way of Beauty

"... a richly compelling, beautifully poetic journey into the heart of relationships... an astonishingly insightful guide to the paradoxes of love. This opus is best relished in small sips, allowing time for its many a-ha moments to weave themselves into your own tapestry of self-discovery. Highly recommended!" - Steve Pavlina

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"The Alabaster Girl is highly poetic, sharp, and engaging. It's easy to fall into the rabbit hole of the narrator's musings, part poem and part half-remembered dreams. The book is an ode to a deep appreciation of women and to the dance of the masculine and feminine as old as time." - San Francisco Book Review

"... a richly compelling, beautifully poetic journey into the heart of relationships... an astonishingly insightful guide to the paradoxes of love. This opus is best relished in small sips, allowing time for its many a-ha moments to weave themselves into your own tapestry of self-discovery. Highly recommended!" - Steve Pavlina

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Zan Perrion is internationally recognized as one of the most original and insightful voices on relationships and seduction in the world today. A regular media commentator, he has been widely featured in the international press. Zan is the founder of the Ars Amorata philosophy--a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure. He is also a co-founder of the Amorati network of men. Zan divides his time between Canada and Romania and can be found at zanperrion.com and arsamorata.com

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Publisher ‏ : ‎ Ars Amorata Press (December 14, 2013)
Language ‏ : ‎ English
Paperback ‏ : ‎ 414 pages
ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0992016606
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0992016609
Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.2 pounds
Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 1.04 x 8.5 inches

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Zan Perrion is internationally recognized as one of the most original and insightful voices on relationships and seduction in the world today. A regular media commentator, he has been widely featured in the international press. Zan is the founder of the Ars Amorata philosophy—a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure. He is also a co-founder of the Amorati network of men. Zan divides his time between Canada and Romania and can be found at www.zanperrion.com and www.arsamorata.com

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Curtis Hauge

How to be the playboy of your dreams until you wake up when it's over.

Reviewed in the United States on June 24, 2018

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The Alabaster Girl is a book on Zan Perrion's perspective on women and dating them. It's a LONG perspective, going around 400 pages so settle in. It took me about a week to finish it but it is worth the look. As some other reviewers have noted, there are chapter titles, but that is about the end of the sense of structure you are going to get. It more or less flows like a lengthy conversation between Zan and a reporter discussing his journeys with women and life. It sets up as sort as a faux publicity interview for his romance novel that exists only as a mechanism to illustrate passages in italics where most of them are stories and conversations he has had with the women he dated. He has this theory that all women should be treated like they are your girlfriend even before they are, have a beauty-centric mindset, and enthrall them with a loving experience while still being a strong, confident man. It sort of is like putting them up on this pedestal and then staying with them up there. Kind of a lot to unpack, which is why the book is so long. It seems like he wraps these women around his finger until he needs a new challenge and moves on. It's sort of like he is a master safe cracker that stopped being interested about what is inside after the mystery of the combination is solved. Then when the safe is open he looks for a more challenging lock to crack. The problem with that is women are not like safes. A more complicated safe usually contains bigger treasure. A more complicated woman to crack usually just leads to more complications. A lot of his methods are bold and work great if you have his wandering vagabond lifestyle, but may have to be treated with more jurisprudence if you work a 9 to 5 job and plan on staying in the same city or town for most of your life. Don't get me wrong, there's a lot of great advice about being curious, showing interest in all women and life in general, being bold and confident, using correct body language, etc. It's all there, but it seems that Zan's way gets a woman to have a drug addiction-like response to a relationship with him, hanging on and enjoying the ride but knowing that eventually there's no stable future and it's time for her to get back to the real world (Peter Pan syndrome, anyone?) He's got this aging playboy mentality where he loves women and wants to be with them, but on his terms. He talks about how he's friends with all his exes and they never have a bad word to say about him or about the breakup, and that's the way to do it. But I think you were never in love if after it's gone you don't feel the sting of hurt and loss and regret. So like a lot of these books, take what works for you but don't think of all of it as the definitive relationship book, because it's not. It's more like how to get a girl, keep a girl around for awhile, and learn how to move on to the next one without guilt or remorse. Fun to do short term. Not entirely satisfying long term.

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Brandon Joe Williams

Mindblowing

Reviewed in the United States on November 22, 2017

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I have read literally hundreds of books on self-improvement, self enlightenment, etc.

I have spent over a decade of my life studying philosophy and spirituality.

I have struggled with women my whole life.

Not only is this one of the most life-changing books i have ever read, but i now have dramatically less problems with women and my own sexuality.

A little more than half the population of Earth is women but, more often than not, more than half of our problems stem from the opposite sex.

To learn of women is to learn the essence of life (or at least half of it).

My understanding of women has not just brought me sex. Sex is cheap.

The untold riches of care and love from the female essence is something i would gladly exchange for sex.

Even just the fun dancing of smiles and gazes from across a room has such VALUE.

We have been trained as men to only value sex. And as such we have been pauperized and robbed.

If this book does not change your life dramatically, your personal issues are too deep to be shifted merely by a book.

That is a fact.

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jay chandler

Must read!

Reviewed in the United States on June 6, 2022

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I have only ready half the book so far, but wow… so many anecdotes and little things to take away. I can only read a little at a time because I find myself underlining and highlighting so much. It’s really helping me in a lot of ways in how I approach and view my dating life.

Definitely only read this book if you are willing to keep an open mind. Not every thought is something you are going to agree with. Eat the fish, spit out the bones. But overall I absolutely love this book.

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Brandon Moreno

This book is recommended by men who have slept with 100+ women

Reviewed in the United States on February 8, 2022

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If you are someone who is unsure of what to do with their desire for women... or maybe someone who has gotten their heart broken before... or maybe you are frustrated at not being as successful with women as you want to be...

This book is for you.

Because the remedy to all those issues... all that confusion you may feel towards women in your life... is to EMBRACE your desire for women and become obsessed with improving yourself in a way that will bring an abundance of women in your life.

But WAIT. There are some men who refuse to believe this is even possible. Let me address those men first.

Firstly... I ask you to remember the feelings and attraction you have felt towards women. We all have had these feelings. It may be nervousness when talking to a crush. It may be excitement at seeing a girl who you find incredibly attractive. It may even be feelings of love you had on a romantic encounter with a special girl.

Well... believe it or not... women feel all of this too! They obsess over their crushes. They catch feelings for people they think are amazing. They experience intense attraction towards certain people.

They do all this in a way that is a bit different from men, I admit. They are focused on different things... they have different problems that you may not relate to.

But if you can believe that women feel the same desire towards men as you do towards women, you can believe that it is possible for YOU to become a man who is in complete control of women's desire towards you.

You just take that seed of desire inherent in all women... and start to improve on it, bit by bit. For instance, a girl may feel attraction towards you even if you dress poorly. But if you improve how you dress... that attraction... those feelings... get amplified. She becomes a bit more attracted.

When you perfect all those little details of yourself... including your attitudes, your vibes, the way you present your personality, you magnify the desire that women have towards you. And that is POWERFUL (and with great power comes great responsibility :).

With your new improvements, you can take all the desire YOU have for women and MAKE something of it. Now you can go on the romantic adventure with your crush. You can create the lustful experiences with the girl who is jaw-droppingly attracted to you... and maybe even make her fall in love with you (maybe).

If you dig all this, then a book like The Alabaster Girl is for you. The advice and wisdom in this book is world class-- it is recommended by men who have slept with hundreds (thousands?) of women. Trust me when I say you will have a hard time finding another guru who is as wise and good a teacher as Zan Perrion (the author of The Alabaster Girl) anywhere else online.

The Alabaster Girl is 400 pages of attitudes and mindsets that will bring you abundance with women (and will help you find joy in the journey). For instance, It beautifully explains how a man can find a mission in life and become more alluring towards women as a result. It explains what a "nice guy" really is... and the real reason women like "bad boys". Some of these lessons can be applied immediately to your life.

Few men will read this book and gain that wisdom. Even fewer men will re-read it. Even fewer will study it more intensely and take notes.

And a very, very small minority will apply it to their lives in a big way. Let that be you and buy this book NOW, before you get distracted by other small things in your life and miss the opportunity to buy a book that could be life-changing.

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I oftern think back to this book - Reading this will open your heart and dream of what's possible.

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 23, 2020

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After watching Zan Youtube series and bought the book. Reading this will open your heart and dream of what's possible, then over time yoiu will live it too. I writing this review for second tome as I bought the book and gave it to a friend and buying for a second time. Happy to recive a signed copy from Zan offical website

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Dmitry Y.

Disappointing

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 2, 2022

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Bought this after watching a talk by the author, hoping to learn more about author’s worldview. This turned out to be some narcissistic drivel demeaning both to women and men, written in a very peculiar style on top of that. Having a bad habit of pressing through, I couldn’t get past the first dozen of pages in this particular case.

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Xavier

The best book I have ever read in my life

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 15, 2017

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The best book I have ever read in my life. THANK YOU SO MUCH ZAN, YOU CHANGED MY LIFE.
This is the best book written on women, it is THE SONG OF WOMEN, a song of the beauty, a song of our place in this world as men.

Zan proves is love for women by writting this book as a gift to women. We can now see what he sees, we can now look at women with appreciation, a sense of wonder. we can be TRUE lovers of women.
There's no time for games, manipulation, falsehood. It is time for you to show up as a man in this world. Start asking the big questions. No more mediocrity. We are at war with mediocrity. Choose excellence, choose love, choose life, choose abundance of women. Reject mediocrity.

This book must be read and digested several times. I have made a pdf summary of 11 pages and I listen to it every day as an audiobook. I apply this knowledge everyday and I cannot tell you how much joy this has brought into my life. This literally changed my life. The energy I'm getting from women is crazy, it makes me feel alive and they feel alive too. I compliment women spontaneously without asking anything in return and they blossom like a flower. I am now direct, I am now open and vulnerable with my intentions. Women respond so positively it's crazy.

Reading the book will not be enough, you'll have to make a decision. No excuses. Are you willing to pay the price for greatness?
If so, buy this book, because IT CHANGED MY LIFE and if you apply it in your life IT WILL CHANGE YOURS.
Good luck.

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DAVID

THE BEST BOOK I HAVE EVER READ.

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 6, 2015

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The best book I have ever read. For many years I have struggled with my perception of women and my lack of masculine energy, this book has redefined my relationship not only to females, but to myself. This book should be required reading for every man in the world. So many men live with pseudo masculinity, building large muscle and egos to attract women. This book explains that we all have the ability to love and be loved just as we are. We live in fear of stepping outside our comfort zones, socially conditioned to live the lives that others want us to lead and not necessarily living a true and purposeful life. We settle in many aspects of our lives, this book is an ode to the lost art of romance. It is a book that women should also read as I am sure they would agree with the content. Thank you Zan. I respect you so much for writing this book and opening your heart and thoughts to so many people. One day I hope to meet you and thank you personally. Big Love David xx

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Kate

Wonderful!

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 21, 2014

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When I purchased this book a few days ago I have to admit I expected it to be a little bit like a 'ladies man' regailing people with tales of his conquests while making grandiose statements about what women want and need and how easy they are to manipulate. I should have read previous reviews because boy was I wrong! This book is beautifully written, intelligent and humorous. Whilst I read it cover to cover in seven hours, it caused me to do something that many books fail to - it stimulated me to think. This book is powerfully enlightening and empowering and whilst the subject matter at first seems a bit 'out there', it really pulls you in and I personally feel like I know myself a bit better for reading and engaging with it and for a writer to be able to do that in some 400 or so pages, is a true gift. I adore it!

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