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The Alabaster Girl Paperback – December 14, 2013

by Zan Perrion (Author)
4.7 4.7 out of 5 stars 1,114 ratings
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"Sit back and relax... I will sing you the song of women.
What women? you ask.
All women, I answer.
Even me? you ask.
Especially you, I answer.
And what will you sing to me? you ask.
Ah, my love, I will sing to you of hidden truths
Yes, hidden truths and secret secrets..."

On a nameless train somewhere between here and nowhere, a woman and a man sit facing each other. She is a journalist there to interview him. He is the world's greatest seducer. Thus begins "The Alabaster Girl," the sensational new novel by Zan Perrion. We get to join the two on this train ride, a fly on the wall, as the seducer recounts his life, philosophy and startling insights, interspersed with excerpts from his new book: "The Alabaster Girl." The book within the book.
  1. The Way of Beauty
  2. The Way of Seduction
  3. The Way of Discovery
  4. The Way of the Natural
  5. The Way of Men
  6. The Way of Women
  7. The Way of Love
  8. The Way of Salvation
  9. The Way of Beauty
"... a richly compelling, beautifully poetic journey into the heart of relationships... an astonishingly insightful guide to the paradoxes of love. This opus is best relished in small sips, allowing time for its many a-ha moments to weave themselves into your own tapestry of self-discovery. Highly recommended!" - Steve Pavlina
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    414 pages
  2. Language
    English
  3. Publication date
    December 14, 2013
  4. Dimensions
    5.5 x 1.04 x 8.5 inches
  5. ISBN-10
    0992016606
  6. ISBN-13
    978-0992016609
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4.7 out of 5 stars
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Customers find the book inspiring, enriching, and helpful for reevaluate their mindsets. They describe the writing style as beautifully written, poetic, and easy to read. Readers appreciate the powerful insights on love and women. They also describe the content as entertaining, fun, and playful.

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61 customers mention "Inspiration"61 positive0 negative

Customers find the book inspiring, providing a great philosophy for going through life. They say it offers deep insight into how modern men of the 21st century think. Readers also mention the book has a huge impact on their lives. They appreciate the compelling examples and soulful writing.

"...He truly gets it, and in a way that is beautifully positive for the world, men and women at large...." Read more

"...Personal stories, combined with allegory, combined with practical info, all in one book on dating, women, men, and relationships in general...." Read more

"...that it loses none of its divination, Wit, brilliance, eloquence and insight when you decide to pick up the book and read it again...." Read more

"...The Alabaster girl can be understood in many way as a, as very honest and insightful confession of a free spirit, as a modern version of “Story of..." Read more

40 customers mention "Writing style"34 positive6 negative

Customers find the writing style beautiful, eloquent, and light. They also say the book is easy to read, clear, concise, and full of imagery. Readers mention the book has hidden lessons and represents the author's life work.

"...notices his presence, seduction is evaporating from his pores, his words are light and yet at the same time he is the strongest man you have seen...." Read more

"...the book is that it loses none of its divination, Wit, brilliance, eloquence and insight when you decide to pick up the book and read it again...." Read more

"...The book is so beautifully written like a well versed poetry or a masterpiece painting by an artist...." Read more

"...A poetic book with hidden lessons that will wake you up from the daily slumber or herd mentality...." Read more

21 customers mention "Insight"21 positive0 negative

Customers find the book's insights powerful, beautiful, and unique. They say it offers a unique view into attraction and dating. Readers mention the book makes them feel incredibly valued as women. They also say it's an honest and authentic account of romance and seduction.

"...During reading this book I started to sense the beauty of the female essence and started to tune into that as you tune into a radio station...." Read more

"...But this book is just about a deep understanding of women and how to really love women...." Read more

"...He is not alone. This book made me feel incredibly valued as a woman and showed me my power so beautifully...." Read more

"...As far as the content, it's a beautiful story about women for women. Its not like any book I've ever read before nor ever will...." Read more

7 customers mention "Entertainment value"7 positive0 negative

Customers find the book entertaining, fun to read in the short term, and playful. They also appreciate the author's masterful grasp of literary wit.

"...fascinates me about the book is that it loses none of its divination, Wit, brilliance, eloquence and insight when you decide to pick up the book and..." Read more

"...Fun to do short term. Not entirely satisfying long term." Read more

"...Fun read and generous in the lessons it wants to communicate...." Read more

"...Accurate, entertaining and when you finish it, you’ll read woman." Read more

5 customers mention "Depth"5 positive0 negative

Customers find the book very deep. They say it represents the author's life work and has many points.

"...It is very deep and it represents the author's life work in a way...." Read more

"...always appreciated Zan's philosophy...His interviews are interesting, deep and intelligent... But there is something with Zan's style of writing..." Read more

"...It took him 10 years to write and there are so many points and so much poetic language, it pales other books completely. Great literature." Read more

"...The videos changed my life but the book is more in depth in a way. More of what Zan is thinking I guess. I love it." Read more

Highly recommended to all men. Life changing book
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Highly recommended to all men. Life changing book
HIGHLY RECOMMENDED TO ALL MAN-regardless of your level of success with women.This is one of a kind, eye opening book you can get on understanding women's nature. It shares the core principles of men vs. women interaction and presents them in a neat, simple and the most genuine and honest language you can find in any book on the topic. I believe no other book explains male vs. female interaction and dynamics better than this book here.It gives you an opportunity to refine your senses as a man even more.Regardless of your level of success with women it will only add value to and will refine your current experience and mindset on your interaction with women.It will open your heart and integrate the warrior and the lover within you on entirely another level.Zan. You are one of a kind. God bless you!
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5.0 out of 5 stars A true masterpiece on loving and relating to women as a man.
Reviewed in the United States on July 24, 2024
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After sifting for years through the jungle manipulative teachings of the pick up and game community that attempt to bring knowledge and awareness to men all over the world to get women, this book shines bright as a portal of grounded truth and reconciliation with a pure way forward paved by wisdom unlike any I’ve ever come across. The respect, affection and love Zan poetically weaves throughout this book is a kin to none and impacted my heart and soul more than any other teachings I’ve ever come across. He truly gets it, and in a way that is beautifully positive for the world, men and women at large.

I cannot recommend this book more to men out there searching for an inner evolution in how they connect to the feminine and their inner most reality of how they relate to the world as a man

Thanks Zan for this masterpiece of a book
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5.0 out of 5 stars This book needs to be read, used and discussed by everybody and not just put on your shelf!
Reviewed in the United States on March 4, 2015
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Zan, the author of the book, is the man secretly admired and envied by most pickup gurus, seduction teachers, and relationship coaches. You can learn endless theories and techniques about how to get phone numbers, desired responses from women and have them in your life. However, with that knowledge, you will never be comparable to a natural, a guy whom women desire and fantasize about. A man who enters the room and without saying anything everybody notices his presence, seduction is evaporating from his pores, his words are light and yet at the same time he is the strongest man you have seen. He seduces women with his metacommunication that most men do not even recognize. He is universally loved by all women and he is unknown and quietly worshipped by men like a pagan deity. Zan teaches man about the energy of that kind of man.

This book does not contain techniques, tips or quick fixes. Rather, this book opens doors and offers you to enter. If you accept the invitation you will see horizons and got included in stories that can easily be a life-changing experience for you.

I have never really admitted that I love women more than anything, I have not embraced that particular force in my life. During reading this book I started to sense the beauty of the female essence and started to tune into that as you tune into a radio station. It made me wonder why I have never sensed it before?! Why are people not seeing that? Why men never see outside of their frustrations? That was the point when I started to understand that maybe I also have a part of me of the seducer pagan deity type man and might be… might be, I could get familiar with that part of me and show it to women and finally to the whole world! Might be I just need to, metaphorically speaking, dust the old dress of that long forgotten man in me who was waiting for so many years, trim his hobo beard, make friends with him and allow him to go on a life-long quest of discovering the world, seeking mystery and put his signature into it.

This book taught me that and much more. This book taught me way more than I imagined, more than I could imagine. It catapulted me to unimaginable lands. It gave me the belief that maybe life can offer me more than I imagined before. Ultimately this book is not about only seducing women, it is also about letting yourself be seduced by life and women, it is about a certain spirit that the world is so desperately waiting for. A spirit needs to be embraced and celebrated especially in our current morally dying cataclysmic western culture.

I need to tell you that you will only understand this book if you have a genuine interest in the change, you are open to discovering new horizons, your heart is sincere and you are not easily offended. It is not meant to understand this book to those who can't find the beauty of the message. With arrogant, bitchy, „wanna manipulate chicks” mindset this book will be no more than just a useless grandiloquent poetic rant.
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5.0 out of 5 stars To the NUCLEUS of a Woman's Heart
Reviewed in the United States on June 10, 2024
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I’ve felt the powerful force of attraction ever since I was in elementary school. I vividly remember this adorably beautiful little girl who sat on the chair directly to my right. Her golden blond hair, her creamy-fair complexion, her melodic voice, and even the fragrance she radiated. Her mother seemed to adore her enough to ensure that her skin was always covered in a thin layer of strawberry-scented lotion before leaving home, every morning. Of course, I was too young to know anything about the opposite sex. But what didn’t require my conceptual understanding was what that little girl made me feel within. Nothing sexual. We were much too young to even know what that was. It was Pure and Unadulterated MAGIC!

The problem was that fate assigned me to a painfully shy father. A man plagued with a collection of paralyzing fears, and an acute identification with the sense of not being good enough. Unconsciously, these psychological splinters would become my inheritance.

And to add insult to injury, the growth-spurt-bus, during my teens, seemed to have missed my stop! My body threw in the towel at 5 feet 6 inches! I had so much inner tension and chaos that my face would break out into a landmine of beet-red pimples! The skin of my face always felt oily, and nothing that I tried worked to vanish my acne problem! My cousins experienced great joy in calling me “pizza face.” And as if things couldn’t get any worse, I couldn’t gain any weight! I remember weighing about 114 pounds in high school! That’ girl weight!

It was as if I lived my teens in a hot desert surrounded by tall glasses of ice cold lemonade. An abundance of beads streaking down the sides of each beautiful hourglass-shaped glass. And I couldn’t have one sip! Can you think of a greater torture? One day, out of sheer desperation, I asked one of my cousins for help. I could tell that he was good with women, because he often sported a different one under his arm. He let me borrow a book entitled: Love Tactics. It was the first book on seduction that I'd ever read. In no time, the list grew:

The Mystery Method, by Mystery.
The Game, by Neil Strauss.
The Natural, by Richard La Ruina.
Practical Female Psychology, by Joseph S, et al.
Mode One, by Allan Currie.

And so many others that have since abandoned my shelves, never to return.

None of these rulers worked. In fact, in a certain way of looking at things, they made matters even worse. I found that I gained confidence in approaching women, some that I would never have approached otherwise, but the interactions ALWAYS resulted in self-sabotage! The fighter-jet that thought it had earned top-gun status, always spiraled and crashed!

What was the problem?

I know that you, reading these words, are an intelligent person. I am not as smart as you, so, I need to put things very simply. Imagine that a man’s favorite tool is a RULER. We love to measure things. Simply, the ruler symbolizes our penchant for LOGIC. We are wired to lean more towards that direction. Things have to MAKE SENSE to us. Robert Pirsig explained it perfectly in his best-seller, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance. There is a reason why more men are attracted to things like construction and mechanics, than women are. Anyway, I don’t want to stray from my point.

Staying with our imagination, now imagine that a woman’s favorite tool is a THERMOMETER. Like a Ruler symbolizes Logic for us, a Thermometer symbolizes EMOTION for them (women). Things have to FEEL RIGHT.

Now, imagine diving deep into the ocean with your ruler in hand, trying to measure the temperature at the nucleus of this vast Ocean (Female Heart). Could you do it? NO! You will never be able to measure temperature with a ruler!

The list of books mentioned above are grounded on this type of confusion. They are basically telling you how to measure temperature with a ruler! “The more phone numbers you get, the more successful you are,” they tell ya! "See this big horizontal line, it is called a neg.” “Wear a pink five gallon hat on your head and pencil in black eye-liner and see if they don’t pay attention to you, ma man!” The ruler gurus say.

One last analogy, which revealed itself after so many painful and embarrassing failures.

Imagine sitting on a huge boulder near a rocky coast. When the ocean current approaches and slaps upon the rocks, it creates a mighty splash of seawater. You take out your phone and point its camera towards the splash. Every time that the ocean current sends its arm splashing onto the coastal rocks, you snap a picture of the outcome. A mighty splash-paytern rising towards the sky. When you’ve taken about five pictures, you take a look at each, swiping to the next, then the next, until the last. Would the splash patterns be identical in each picture?

NO! No two pictures of the resulting splash-patterns will ever be the same! And that, mi amigo, is why the list of books above, and so, so many like them, can NEVER work! The human psyche (be it male or female) is much too complex!

Every woman beautifying our earth has experienced a very unique and individual life pattern, resulting in both highs and lows. Triumphs and traumas, reactions and surrenders. All of the utter nonsense of: push-pull. Cat-string theory, negging, IOIs, and whatever other nerdy nonsense is now in vogue, are like trying to measure the splash-pattern protrusions!…Nonsense, I tell ya!

Zan’s book differentiates itself from the ones written by nerds who can’t even imagine what temperature is, in that he dives directly into the very nucleus of the female heart, and takes us along. And what a landscape! The deeper you go into the book, the more you forget that you left your ruler stuck between two rocks back at shore.

I”ve read Zan’s book three times so far. Has it given me any results? We do read for a reason, right?

Well, it happens so subtly that you only become conscious of it when you see that there are three or four beauties surrounding you. All basking in the summer-rays of your attention. All happy to be in your presence. It's truly fascinating because as you dive into the ocean that Goethe called, “The Eternal Feminine,” bound towards its nucleus, you become a powerful center-of-gravity, yourself! An embodiment of a mantra in Zan’s book: “a man who loves women, is loved by them.”

I wish that I could see what that little guerita, so long ago, has blossomed into! I wish that I could dive deep into the chambers of her heart and marvel at how the furniture has been arranged, the color coordinations, the paintings hanging on her walls...the WHOLE her.
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André Luiz Salim Novato
5.0 out of 5 stars Excelente produto.
Reviewed in Brazil on November 8, 2023
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5.0 out of 5 stars Got my first girlfriend after 26 years
Reviewed in Mexico on December 25, 2022
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I read many books about dating and relationships but this one has more heart and deep understanding than any other
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5.0 out of 5 stars More balanced view of Men women relationship dynamics
Reviewed in India on May 22, 2021
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Excellent book for Men
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Rockin RJ
5.0 out of 5 stars A bridge into the world of Ars Amorata and Mature Masculine Dialogue!
Reviewed in Canada on December 16, 2016
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Let us start from the beginning. In late 1999 to early 2000 I had come across a community of men which fit within the subculture called the "Seduction Community". We were people lost in our ways looking for direction. Our journey started online and led eventually to a meeting in person within the context of cafes, malls, and coffee shops. There was a noble desire to help one another, and we had banded together as a brotherhood. This community was encompassed of various authors, gurus, information marketers, lady's men, geeks, and everybody in between to say the least. Some were notorious others were mainly looking for clarity in finding that meaning towards love and intimacy. We eventually moved into that frenzy of exploration during the 2002-2004 period within the seduction community where progress was gained, but further disillusionment was a consequence. This time in seduction history (before Neil Strauss release of The Game)became a dangerous game of the ego and body/mind. Some of us had to run away from the rat race culture and took a spiritual retreat. Some of us needed to seek counsel and reflect. Many of us had to take off the rockstar glam and figure out what it is to be a man. Enter Zan Perrion. Zan was always behind the scenes within this online subculture himself in the early days but eventually emerged with a message that hit a cord in the community at the time. The narcissistic reign of the 2002-2004 period covered in The Game hurt a lot of people. Pain created at the price of temporary pleasure. I was able to see a DVD lecture of Zan speak at Cliff's list convention in Montreal. Zan's impact was a missing component in our search for love, relationship, and intimacy. It was a needed maturity. It was wisdom gained through his experience. I look at the work of Zan Perrion and the Alabaster Girl as the bridge to lead men out of the seduction industry, as the community is now lost, and into a dialogue of Mature Masculinity. The Alabaster Girl can be a guide for that man struggling in the confusion of the seduction industry or even a tome from an elder passing onto a young boy for guidance. I have immersed myself in the work of Mr Perrion and the Ars Amorata community for over a decade. Sometimes I stay at the surface level or even outside of the pool, as professional life can require one to remain on the periphery, but if I need a return to my brothers on a quest for truth, passion, and love I sometimes dive right in deeply and provide support in whatever way I can. The Alabaster Girl is a glimpse into the Ars Amorata adventure. From my experience, it can provide a passage away from the earlier foundations within, the broader seduction community/industry and eventually to a Mature Masculine Dialogue. This can lead to further development and work seen in David Deida and other leaders within the realm of Male Personal Development. Also, I feel this can provide benefit to a woman as well who have become hardened and jaded within contemporary society and return to beauty. The dance of romance can continue if you're open in your heart. I will be your witness.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Read it slow, visualise, imagine, and this could take you to places in your real life, places that you would love
Reviewed in Italy on August 20, 2017
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Don't be fooled if you find first 60-70 pages to be very abstract and poetic. The Much more profound magic starts after that. Zan Perrion has offered his most precious gift to the world. Perion has spent his life in the presence of femininity and has tried to understand the hearts, minds, and souls of women. Over the time I realised that my complaints of approach anxiety, not knowing what to talk about to women, and having no idea how to express my sincere desire for women were substituted with looking for beautiful feminine grace in a woman and announcing it, being a lover of women, having genuine curiosity for women, and showing up as a man. Something changed.
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