From School Library Journal
Grade 9 Up-This title's cartoons and casual, conversational tone might seem at odds with the seriousness of the topics, such as adoptees' feelings about abandonment and loss and having to endure insensitive, as well as racist, comments. However, the breezy tone and ample colorful graphics make the book appealing and accessible to its target audience. Lanchon offers reassurance, rightly asserting that most anxieties about looks and fitting in are shared by biological as well as adopted teens. For adoptees, and for parents seeking a way to initiate a discussion about difficult topics, such as the desire to search for birth parents, this is a welcome resource. Among its powerful messages is that being adopted is not the cause of life's every disappointment. The short text has translated very well from French, with the liveliness of the illustrations and humor of the cartoons intact. Many quality guides exist for parents and for those researching adoption, but this one is unique as it's modeled on popular teen guidebooks about sex, friendships, etc., making it an excellent choice for YA collections. The three Web sites and eight books recommended for further reading are high quality, but several are aimed primarily at adults involved in or contemplating adoption.-Deborah Vose, Highlands Elementary School, Braintree, MA
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Gr. 6-9. Adopted teens may have a unique situation, but Lanchon assures them, "When all is said and done, you're no weirder than anyone else. You're adopted, your friends aren't, so what?" Written in an informal, conversational style, this guide covers an adopted child's traditional worries and concerns, such as establishing identity and living with overprotective parents. It also addresses such squirm-worthy issues as the fear of abandonment, racist comments, and discussing birth parents with adoptive parents. Adopted teens do have "an extra layer to deal with," Lanchon asserts, but many of their family situations and problems are "normal" for most young people. Stylish, colorful cartoon drawings add levity to the emotional topics. Originally published in France, this handsomely designed self-help title in the Sunscreen series provides practical advice and reassurance for adopted teens and their families. A list of titles and Web sites for further research closes. Linda Perkins
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Tucker Shaw is a former writer for Alloy.com and author of the "Ask Tucker" column. In addition he has written other helpful books for young adults.
