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All Boys Aren't Blue: A Memoir-Manifesto Hardcover – Illustrated, April 28, 2020

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In a series of personal essays, prominent journalist and LGBTQIA+ activist George M. Johnson's All Boys Aren't Blue explores their childhood, adolescence, and college years in New Jersey and Virginia.

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From the memories of getting his teeth kicked out by bullies at age five, to flea marketing with his loving grandmother, to his first sexual relationships, this young-adult memoir weaves together the trials and triumphs faced by Black queer boys.

Both a primer for teens eager to be allies as well as a reassuring testimony for young queer men of color,
All Boys Aren't Blue covers topics such as gender identity, toxic masculinity, brotherhood, family, structural marginalization, consent, and Black joy. Johnson's emotionally frank style of writing will appeal directly to young adults. (Johnson used he/him pronouns at the time of publication.)

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All Boys Aren't Blue is an intensely personal story. What inspired you to start writing this book?

Toni Morrison said "if there is a book you want to read and it hasn't been written yet, you must write it." I've always wished I had a book like this. One where I felt seen on the cover and in every word on the page. I knew there was a story like mine lacking in the world. For years I had been telling my story in bits and pieces throughout magazines in op-ed articles. I knew it was important that I started to put together a body of work that could affect the lives of young LGBTQ people, specifically Black kids who needed guidance and resources. In the telling of my story, I wanted to change the narrative of how people viewed Black families raising LGBTQ Black children. I felt I had a duty to push through my own traumas of my past in order to prevent future generations of LGBTQ kids from having that same experience. The young boy inside me was the inspiration for this book. He can now be free.

Was there any part of the writing process for All Boys Aren’t Blue that surprised you?

The most surprising part of the writing process was how many stories I remembered. Things that I had buried many years ago popped back up and I was like “oh this has to be in the book.” It was tough because I didn’t know how emotionally taxing it would be, but also very liberating at the same time. I had to constantly remind myself who this story was for, but I am better for getting through it.

If you could give one piece of advice to young LGBTQ people today, what would it be?

Be yourself unapologetically. Understand that the world has not been set up for people as strong in their truth and identity as LGBTQ people are. Trust what you feel to be right and not what others are telling you that you should be. Always make sure you are making decisions that keep you safe, because you BEING HERE is what is most important. But never let anyone break your spirit.

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Discover more from New York Times bestseller and activist George M. Johnson! A New York Times bestselling collection of personal essays exploring George M. Johnson's childhood, adolescence, and college years in New Jersey and Virginia. An empowering set of essays about Black and Queer icons from the Harlem Renaissance, featuing art from Charly Palmer.

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A New York Times Bestseller!
Optioned for television by Gabrielle Union

Featured on Good Morning America, NBC Nightly News, Today Show, MSNBC and Fox Soul
Velshi Banned Book Club
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"An exuberant, unapologetic memoir infused with a deep but cleareyed love for its subjects." ―
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"This title opens new doors, as the author insists that we don't have to anchor stories such as his to tragic ends: 'Many of us are still here. Still living and waiting for our stories to be told―to tell them ourselves.' A critical, captivating, merciful mirror for growing up Black and queer today." ―
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"An absolute necessity . . . the personal stories and the healing and reconciliation of self in this title are all undeniably honest and relatable―a reminder of our shared imperfection and humanity." ―
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"The conversational tone will leave readers feeling like they are sitting with an insightful friend . . . This young adult memoir is a contemporary hallmark of the blossoming genre. Johnson anchors the text with encouragement and realistic guidance for queer Black youth." ―
School Library Journal

"Johnson’s debut is a collection of heartfelt personal essays revolving around themes of identity and family . . . In a publishing landscape in need of queer black voices, readers who are sorting through similar concepts will be grateful to join him on the journey." ―
Publishers Weekly

"Powerful . . . Johnson’s book is geared toward young adults―a market that needs this level of realness about everything from finding and harboring joy to bullying to navigating queerness.
All Boys Aren’t Blue is a game changer." ―Bitch Magazine

"A personal examination of what it's like to grow up as a black and queer young man . . .
a can't-miss collection." ―POPSUGAR

About the Author

George M. Johnson (they/them) is an Emmy nominated, award-winning, and bestselling Black nonbinary author and activist. They have written on race, gender, sex, and culture for Essence, the Advocate, BuzzFeed News, Teen Vogue, and more than forty other national publications. George has appeared on BuzzFeed’s AM2DM as well as on MSNBC. They are also a proud HBCU alum twice over and a member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Incorporated. Their debut memoir, All Boys Aren’t Blue, was a New York Times bestseller and garnered many accolades. It was the second-most banned book of 2022 in the United States, according to the American Library Association. For their work fighting book bans and challenges, the National Coalition Against Censorship (NCAC) honored George with its Free Speech Defender Award, and TIME Magazine named them one of the “100 Next Most Influential People in the World.” While writing their memoir, George used he/him pronouns. Originally from Plainfield, New Jersey, they now live in Los Angeles, California.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Farrar, Straus and Giroux (BYR); Illustrated edition (April 28, 2020)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 320 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0374312710
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0374312718
  • Reading age ‏ : ‎ 16+ years, from customers
  • Lexile measure ‏ : ‎ 890L
  • Grade level ‏ : ‎ 10 - 12
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 13.6 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.8 x 1.05 x 8.7 inches
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George M Johnson is an Award Winning Black Non-Binary Writer, Author, and Activist located in the NYC area. From the scores of places that George has written for to the outlets who have written about George, their connections in the media world run deep with his knowledge and expertise being called upon from publishing to the big screen.

They are the author of the Bestselling Young Adult memoir All Boys Aren’t Blue discussing their adolescence growing up as a young Black Queer boy in New Jersey through a series of powerful essays. Their book has been optioned for Television by Gabrielle Union and Sony TV.

George has written for major and niche media outlets like, Teen Vogue, Entertainment Tonight, NBC, The Root, Buzzfeed, Essence, Ebony, THEM, and The Grio. They have also served as Guest Editor for BET.com’s Pride month.

They write on topics ranging from Race, Gender, Sex, HIV, Intersectionality, Politics, Culture, Health and Pop-Culture, and is never afraid to "go there" and ask the tough questions.

George has also been seen on Politics Nation with Al Sharpton on MSNBC, Buzzfeed’s AM2DM, The Grapevine, PBS Nightly News, and various shows on Sirius XM Radio. George also moderates and speaks on many panels throughout the year including clients like Gilead Pharmaceuticals, Twitter & Proctor and Gamble and Human Rights Campaign.

On social media, George has an impressive presence, with nearly 80,000 engaged followers on Twitter who are always eager to see what George writing next.

George is an HIV and LGBTQ activist, serving as Chair of the Black Leadership AIDS Crisis Coalition for Black Gay Men for AIDS Healthcare Foundation, and being called upon to discuss various issues facing the LGBTQ community from civil rights leaders to politicians.

George is also proud HBCU alum twice over, and a member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Incorporated.

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Customers find the characters brave, honest, and blunt. They also describe the writing quality as good, authentic, powerful, and straightforward. Readers appreciate the authenticity, courage, and honesty of the author. They find the content insightful, perfect for any age, and emotional glimpses.

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Customers find the writing quality excellent, moving, and accurate. They also describe the book as a not too heavy educational read on what it's like to be Black. Readers also say the storytelling is gorgeous, powerful, and beautiful.

"...Anyways, George’s story is so dynamic, but it’s also his own so it doesn’t feel necessary to extensively review the entire book...." Read more

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Customers find the memoir insightful, calling for understanding, and enjoyable. They also say it touches on many social issues and helps teach, open the mind, and be supportive. Readers also mention that the symbolism gives them hope.

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"...a moving portrait of one man's life..."
"American history is truly the greatest fable ever written."Representation matters. Hearing the voice of a person like you, seeing them live their life and truth, can truly inspire and encourage. For LGBTQ+ youth, this representation is paramount. When I was a young man coming to terms with my own sexuality, seeing other gay men represented in the media provided a beacon of hope that everything would be okay. Fortunately for me, I was growing up at a time where being a gay man was beginning to lose some of the stigmas that had plagued it before. But imagine for a moment that I'd never had this representation. For countless queer black men like author George M. Johnson, representation has been non-existent. In his book All Boys Aren't Blue, Johnson sets out to rectify that.For as long as he could remember, George felt different. He grew up surrounded by his large extended family. There was no shortage of cousins to play with and learn from. Still, George didn't quite see himself in any of his family members. It began at recess when each of the kids separated out into their prescribed groups. The boys all would play ball, but George had little interest. Instead, he would climb to the hill with a group of girls to jump rope. These were his friends, and this is what he liked to do. This was also the first time George began to question himself. The other boys couldn't understand why he wouldn't want to play with them. George was beginning to wonder too.All Boys Aren't Blue is a manifesto of sorts. George M. Johnson sets out to provide a history of his own story and guide others into accepting themselves. From his early days of recognizing himself as "other" to growing into a man much more confident in his sexuality, Johnson writes each anecdote with an honesty that serves to inspire and educate. His perspective from the intersection of both the queer and black communities helps to give a different insight into each of them. The book is geared toward a teenage audience, and I think it is really successful in answering some of the common questions about relationships, sex, and being a queer/black person. I could also see this being a helpful tool for parents who are trying to navigate their children's identities. All Boys Aren't Blue serves as a moving portrait of one man's life and a brilliant example of more diverse representation in books.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 25, 2024
I loved that this young-adult memoir conscientiously walked the line between being real, harsh, lived experience and a sensitive, emotional drama.

It reminded me of I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings. It describes worlds I've been curious about, but will never know. It would be a hugely important book for teens on the brink of sexual experiences, especially those who feel awkward or excluded from expected or imposed social behavior.
Reviewed in the United States on July 29, 2024
Really gave me a new perspective on the journey many of us have been on. All different but many similarities.
Reviewed in the United States on July 31, 2024
Wow! I can see why it's controversial. The author doesn't mince words but states exactly how things happened to him, a "queer" boy, sometimes with graphic detail. This will bring deeper understanding of this group of people, those who identify as anything outside of the sexual "norm", to any who read it.
Reviewed in the United States on May 26, 2024
As a white heterosexual woman I found this book informative and enlightening. If you have a desire to understand the struggles young people, those of color, and those struggling to understand their blooming sexuality this is excellent.
For those who would have this book kept out of reach of young people shame on you. I had Judy Bloom to help me navigate all those awkward feelings. All kids deserve a road map in their own culture & identity.
Thank you George M Johnson for sharing your journey!
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Reviewed in the United States on July 13, 2020
This book is necessary for so many reasons. Diverse representation is so important and this book reaffirms that. We need different types of stories from all different types of people like George M. Johnson and Saeed Jones and Jacqueline Woodson. We need different stories so that people, especially children and teenagers, know that they are not alone and that there are people out there who have similar experiences as them. This story is so important for the people who feel invalidated by their queerness, their race, and their gender expression. George makes it clear that this book is for the young LGBTQIA+ people of color who feel unseen and unaccepted. They have support in George and his story. This book is also for the family of children who different. I think it’s so important that we as relatives and friends do our best to support children who don’t fit the norm and this book is really informative on what we as allies could do to uplift them. I would buy this book for my family. I have a nephew, and while he has not expressed non-normative gendered behavior, a book like this is could be instrumental in the way my sister raises him.

I’m not going to go super in depth about the book because this is simply George M. Johnson’s story and you just have to read it and go on the journey. I will insert a trigger warning for incest and sexual abuse. Anyways, George’s story is so dynamic, but it’s also his own so it doesn’t feel necessary to extensively review the entire book. I’m giving this book 4.5 stars because it’s a really important read, but for me personally it’s just not quite 5 stars. (Honestly, I think I just have too high expectations for what a 5 star book feels like.) Anyways, it was heartwarming a journey. My favorite chapter was George’s discussion of his cousin Hope. He wrote about her with such care and admiration, and I just found the way he humanized her to be so touching. I also liked his discussion of how we have agency over own bodies and no one is allowed to force anything upon it. This goes in hand with his discussion of sex and sexuality. We have the agency to define how we want to engage in and relate to sex. Sex should be pleasurable for you and if it’s not then you have the right to say stop and make demands for what you desire.

Overall, reading a story about the intersection of blackness and queerness is so necessary and it was refreshing. We need stories like this to show that black people are not monolithic, we are multi-faceted and multi-dimensional. We can exist in an infinite spaces. We need stories like this to show that blackness and queerness are not always a constant struggle. In some stories black queer kids are met with support and affirmation, their lives always one of adversity. I really enjoyed this book and I would even buy a copy for my family to read. It’s just a necessary story that needs to be told and I highly recommend it.
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Reviewed in the United States on June 9, 2024
I got this book when I saw the local Mom's for Liberty chapter was planning a mass encounter at the school board meeting. When I got mostly through book I felt it was a memoir about life.
Reviewed in the United States on September 24, 2022
All Boys Aren’t Blue

I chose to read this book—described by the author as part memoir, part manifesto—as part of my annual Banned Books Week commemoration. I’d heard George M. Johnson interviewed and read some of his other writing, so I gravitated toward All Boys Aren’t Blue when I saw it on the 2021 “Most Banned and Challenged Books” list.

The book’s description really tells it all: “Both a primer for teens eager to be allies as well as a reassuring testimony for young queer men of color, All Boys Aren't Blue covers topics such as gender identity, toxic masculinity, brotherhood, family, structural marginalization, consent, and Black joy. Johnson's emotionally frank style of writing will appeal directly to young adults.”

I found the book indeed honest and accessible, and prefaced with a “warning” that there would be difficult subjects discussed that could make some readers uncomfortable. Johnson talks about his childhood and young adulthood, and his struggles with finding his identity as a Black queer man in a society and culture that he’s been taught to believe didn’t want to hear about it. He talks about always knowing he was “different,” as the cliché goes, in world that so frequently (and even before we are born, with the gender assumptions and reveal parties and such) wants to put us in one of two boxes. He talks about his steps and missteps, his relationships with his family, the trauma he experienced, navigating simply being a Black queer man out loud, and how he learned to live his authentic self.

Most importantly, and this is my strongest belief about why we need to stand up to book banning in schools and libraries, the story speaks to young people who might be struggling with their own identities, who have little or no support around them, who feel there’s something “wrong” with them because they don’t fit into those tidy boxes. He often addresses his reading audience directly, and expresses his plaintive hope that maybe his story will help them know that they are not alone.

I can imagine why some parents might not want their children to read this book. But maybe that’s part of the problem. Maybe that’s part of the reason so many LGBTQIA+ children harm themselves or end up harmed. Maybe if kids outside the boxes read about people who have been in their shoes, and not only survived but thrived, they’d feel less alone, less broken, less unloved and unwanted and afraid.
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Reviewed in Canada on October 21, 2023
This book will save lives. If you know anyone along the beautiful 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum, read this, share this. It’s beautiful, powerful and life affirming.
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Thank you for a lovely story about family and love, community and querness so relatable to many people regardless of race or nationality.
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An eye opening look into the struggles of a black LGBTQ person. Very well written and an easy read despite the heavy topics!
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