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The Art of War for Dating: Master Sun Tzu's Tactics to Win Over Women Paperback – January 14, 2011

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About the Author

Eric Rogell is the guy behind TheBachelorGuy.com, the go-to resource foreveryday men who want to distinguish themselves from the herd and elevatethemselves above Neanderthal status, without going so far as to apply spraytanner before bed. He's a much decorated veteran of the dating war and hasbeen captured by the enemy--twice. (Fortunately he escaped both times.)
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Adams Media (January 14, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 144050668X
  • ISBN-13: 978-1440506680
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.6 x 8.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.3 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,459,095 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Having read many PUA book ,I say this:The Art of War for Dating is the best. Rogell integrates many ideas from other books(with due credit), such as the "neg", the opening question(not the opening line), and the importance of demonstrating value(women do not date men who they perceive of lower value). He then riffs on the idea of value by explaining that women want strength in a man:mental strength(women need mental stimulation);social strength(men and women admire and value you); and strength of character(if you are loyal to your friends, you likely will be loyal to her). Bottom line: do not pursue, but instead attract. Great chapters on how to deal with the "I have a boyfriend" line and the importance of story telling.An added bonus is tying these ideas to Sun Tzu's classic. I wish I knew this 20 years ago, but sometimes wisdom never comes so it should not be rejected merely because it comes late.
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This book is such an insult to Sun Tzu. This guy teaches you how to steal other peoples' girlfriends and the whole book is filled with BS that science has long ago DEBUNKED.

For Example, on page 148, he writes :"Giving her something else to blame the behavior on is key. We all know that women love sex just as much, if not more, than we do. It's just not proper for them to brag about it. Have you ever noticed when you're talking to a female friend and she's telling a story about something really naughty or slutty or “bad girl” that she did, there's always an excuse tied to it?"

If girls love sex as much or more than man, then why are most prostitutes female? Why do women get dinner, gifts, and money as compensation to have sex with men?

And how about the scientific literature that establishes testosterone as the main driving force of sex drive (men have 10-20 times as much as women!). How about parental investment theory?

Women just want to bang every good looking guy she sees, despite the enormous costs of pregnancy and child birth?

I emphasize this sentence because this point is essential in the world of dating : men date to have sex, while women date to have commitment. The author of this book doesn't even understand that, and therefore shows that he doesn't the fundamentals of the dating market, has abolsutely no knowledge of modern psychology or evolution (the driving forces of sexual behavior), and doesn't understand anything about anything about the female brain. Yet, he's writing a book about dating that teaches guys how to hack the female brain. HA! What a joke
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Before reading this book, I was also under the impression that only the elite of men get the best of the bunch; Boy was I wrong. In his book, Rogell explains in a step by step process of what it takes to get women. The first two chapters get you mentally prepared, while the rest of the chapters build on themselves. After reading this book, I was surprised by how easy it really was to go up and break the ice with a female. Besides instructing you on how to talk to a women, this book even answers the most trivial of questions dealing with women psychology, such as why women always choose the bad boys. It also includes real life scenarios where the most ugliest of men approached the most gorgeous of women and what they did to pull off getting their phone numbers, or even getting invited back to their rooms!

This books was an interesting read and just reading it built up my self confidence. By the time your done, talking to women will be no sweat.
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I once had a professor in grad school say, "it is far more difficult for a man to discover and explore the darkest precincts of himself than for a soldier to take the battlefield in war." Why? Because as men, or at least for this man, its much easier to gloss over and ignore the vices and insecurities that impoverish our character than to confront them and change. Admitting flaw, I thought, was fatal. And its that type of thinking that has kept me from getting that lump under my arm checked out, stopping into the mechanic about that weird noise under my hood, and picking up books like this to make me a better man. Because I'm suppose to be healthy, able to lift a car off a baby and change the oil simultaneously, and be an irresistible ladies man. Being exposed as "not" is difficult. But today I owe a lot to my totally kickass doctor who told me the lump was nothing and I have nothing to worry about, and the mechanic who lives next door who taught me how to change the timing belt on my Toyota, and now to Eric Rogell for making the man I want to be in reaching distance. Eric comes across in this book as that cool big brother who went off to college and now wants to teach you all the things he's learned so you can do it better than him. And just like the boot camp methodology he refers to a few times in his book, another purpose of that training is to tear you down so you can be built up. And its what Eric does flawlessly and humanely in this immensely readable work. I not only enjoyed this work but it was enriching. And the author is owed a great deal of kudos for making his brilliance approachable and accepting.
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I enjoyed reading this book, mostly because it breaks down the inner game of how to create a real strategy with women so you can approach them successfully. Really good tips on body language, some really great openers, and also what not to do and say around different women. Getting into the "cocky and funny" kind of attitude is what I was looking for, and this book goes over some real life scenarios for pulling that off too. Also, how to deal with the "tests" that women throw at us sometimes, all very well explained.

Overall one of the better PUA books I've read, I definitely recommend it. No book has everything, but this one goes a long way in explaining the game we play with women, and how to gain a strategic advantage!
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