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As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as A Girl Hardcover – Deckle Edge, February 2, 2000
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“We should aspire to Colapinto's stellar journalist example: listening carefully to the circumstances of those who are different rather than demanding that they conform to our own.” —Washington Post
The true story about the "twins case" and a riveting exploration of medical arrogance, misguided science, societal confusion, gender differences, and one man's ultimate triumph
In 1967, after a twin baby boy suffered a botched circumcision, his family agreed to a radical treatment that would alter his gender. The case would become one of the most famous in modern medicine—and a total failure. The boy's uninjured brother, raised as a boy, provided to the experiment the perfect matched control. As Nature Made Him tells the extraordinary story of David Reimer, who, when finally informed of his medical history, made the decision to live as a male.
Writing with uncommon intelligence, insight, and compassion, John Colapinto sets the historical and medical context for the case, exposing the thirty-year-long scientific feud between Dr. John Money and his fellow sex researcher, Dr. Milton Diamond—a rivalry over the nature/nurture debate whose very bitterness finally brought the truth to light.
A macabre tale of medical arrogance, it is first and foremost a human drama of one man's—and one family's—amazing survival in the face of terrible odds.
- Print length279 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherHarper
- Publication dateFebruary 2, 2000
- Dimensions6.12 x 1.01 x 9.25 inches
- ISBN-100060192119
- ISBN-13978-0060192112
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Reading over interviews and reports of decisions made by this doctor, it's difficult to contain anger at the widespread results of his insistence that natural-born gender can be altered with little more than willpower and hormone treatments. The attempts of his parents, twin brother, and extended family to assist Brenda to be happily female are touching--the sense is overwhelmingly of a family wanting to do "right" while being terribly mislead as to what "right" is for her. As Brenda makes the decision to live life as a male (at age 14), she takes the name David and begins the process of reversing the effects of estrogen treatments. David's ultimately successful life--a solid marriage, honest and close family relationships, and his bravery in making his childhood public--bring an uplifting end to his story. Equally fascinating is the latest segment of the longtime nature/nurture controversy, and the interviews of various psychological researchers and practitioners form a larger framework around David's struggle to live as the gender he was meant to be. --Jill Lightner
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From The New England Journal of Medicine
Such knowledge was virtually nonexistent in 1967, after a male twin had lost his penis in a circumcision accident at the age of eight months. At Johns Hopkins Hospital, John Money, an authority in the field of sexology, advised the parents to reassign the sex of the child. At the time, Money was one of the very few scientists who questioned the existing policy of assignment according to the sex of the gonads. His view was based on his studies of intersexual patients. In the great majority of such cases, sexual identity appeared to be shaped by rearing instead of by chromosomes, gonads, or sex hormones. In Money's view, even a healthy boy could, after genital traumatization, develop a female identity, provided that the reassignment was timely and the child was raised unambiguously as a girl.
For many years, this case was considered to be the ultimate evidence of psychosexual neutrality at birth. It had a considerable effect on decisions concerning sex assignment of intersexual children throughout the world. Early reports showed that, in contrast to the twin brother, the reassigned child seemed to develop as a "real girl," although she had many tomboyish traits. However, it later became apparent that the child had serious problems with sexual identity. When, at the age of 14, she was informed of her sex at birth, she immediately decided to live as a boy again. Asked for his reaction to this outcome by the press and professionals, Money was reluctant to respond. Diamond and Sigmundson published a follow-up of the case three years ago, when the patient was in his early 30s. Unlike Money, they considered the development of male identity to be determined to a considerable extent prenatally, through the brain's exposure to androgens. In their opinion, the case invalidated the theory of psychosexual neutrality at birth.
Colapinto's book contains two stories. One is the sad account of a family with a child who had to live with an unwanted sex role. The other provides the medical and psychological contexts of this tragedy. The personal story vividly describes how horrible life can be for a child with an incongruence between sexual identity and sex of rearing. For such children, stigmatization, bullying, and alienation from peers and family are daily problems. When confronted with so much suffering, it is hard not to look for someone to blame. Whereas in many cases of childhood problems of sexual identity there is no clear culprit, in this particular case the obvious candidate is John Money.
It is proper that medical mistakes or wrongful approaches to patients be exposed, but it is regrettable that this book devotes so much attention to the psychological makeup of just one clinician. Colapinto uses much of his well-researched material to reveal each and every one of Money's flaws. Unfortunately, in doing so, Colapinto himself makes mistakes (e.g., he incorrectly describes the work of a scientist who defended Money's theoretical position by presenting another case of ablatio penis in which there were no identity problems) and depicts the medical and psychological treatment of transsexuals as one of Money's idiosyncratic hobbies. Transsexualism is a young field of study, full of prejudice and taboos. Colapinto doubtless wrote his book intending to protect the interests of intersexual patients, but ironically, he will probably make life harder for a group of equally vulnerable patients -- transsexuals. Colapinto overshoots the mark. Instead of launching a personal crusade, he could have focused on the challenges faced by clinicians in the field of sexual identity or tried to understand what the life of the reassigned twin would have been like if he had been raised as a boy without a penis. Such discussions would have given the book a broader and more balanced view of the complex issues at hand.
Despite these criticisms, the book is interesting and will be accessible to a large audience. It shows how much more we need to know to prevent personal tragedies such as that suffered by the boy who was raised as a girl.
Peggy T. Cohen-Kettenis, Ph.D.
Copyright © 2000 Massachusetts Medical Society. All rights reserved. The New England Journal of Medicine is a registered trademark of the MMS.
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"A page-turning story of heroes and villains that stirs both compassion and anger." — Philadelphia Inquirer
"A riveting account of medical arrogance and misguided science." — Playboy
"Colapinto's account . . . raises fascinating scientific, philosophical, and ethical questions—and also packs an irresistible narrative force from start to finish. — Providence Phoenix
"Colapinto's book is a stinging and overdue indictment of the 'sexual reassignment' of infants like baby Bruce and those born with both male and female sex organs....The book also serves as an intimate, heartbreaking diary of Bruce Brenda Reimer, the casualty of a ghoulish science project gone terribly wrong." — Cleveland Plain Dealer
"Colapinto, a writer of striking lucidity and compassion, inspired the very private man who now proudly calls himself David to reveal the entire story of his horrendous ordeal in hopes of preventing others from suffering his fate. The result is an arresting and invaluable narrative of personal tragedy, scientific arrogance, and societal confusion over the source and significance of gender differences." — Booklist
"Colapinto, the reporter who won a National Magazine Award for a piece on David's story, engrossingly recounts this tale of grotesque medical hubris and a life dragged slowly from the ashes....Colapinto's storytelling, taut and emotive, never plays the grim tale for its sideshow qualities, nor claims the last word on nature versus nurture." — Kirkus, starred review
"For the most part, As Nature Made Him is a story of innocence stolen, and of ill fate bravely born....But the book is also a testament to the immutability of self. Because David in the end is a triumph." — Dallas Morning News
"In the end, what makes As Nature Made Him impossible to put down is not the machinations of a misguided scientist but the suffering, courage and ultimate triumph of a truly unfortunate child." — Psychology Today
"John Colapinto debunks Money's version of Brenda's childhood in his fascinating, exhaustively researched As Nature Made Him. The result is a detailed and riveting account." — Seattle Post Intelligencer
"Raises fascinating scientific, philosophical questions--and also packs an irresistible narrative force from start to finish" — Boston Phoenix
"The hottest hypothesis in the academic world today is that nature always trumps nurture. John Colapinto's absorbing As Nature Made Him stands as exhibit A." — Tom Wolfe
"This is a mesmerizing tale that manages to balance an engrossing look at what happened to Brenda with a persuasive argument that biology, not environment, determines sexuality." — San Antonio Express
"This thoroughly researched and skillfully told profile of David Reimer deserves to be an early candidate for the best nonfiction book of the year." — Albany Times Union
"What happened to Bruce and his parents is a true-life medical horror to rival any of Robin Cook's science thrillers...a fascinating book." — Houston Chronicle
“Ultimately, the book stands as a passionate warning against social pressure and prejudice'whether medical, ideological or biological. As a society, we should aspire to Colapinto's stellar journalist example: listening carefully to the circumstances of those who are different rather than demanding that they conform to our own.” — Washington Post
“With remarkable concision, Mr. Colapinto has telescoped this medical scandal, brilliantly weaving the perspectives of David [Reimer], his family, friends, doctors, and wife...The book's structure is that of a mystery.” — New York Observer
"An engaging book. Given access to Reimer's psychiatric files, family and friends, the author reconstructs a horrific tale: a scrappy kid made to wear pink and pearls; a bully of a doctor unwilling to admit failure; a family torn apart by guilt. David's courageous and unlikely victory--today he's a happily married stepfather of three--shows us how psychololgy's theories du jour can be painfully, dreadfully wrong. A gut-wrenching, absorbing account — People magazine
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In 1967, after a baby boy suffered a botched circumcision, his family agreed to a radical treatment. On the advice of a renowned expert in gender identity and sexual reassignment at Johns Hopkins Hospital, the boy was surgically altered to live as a girl. This landmark case, initially reported to be a complete success, seemed all the more remarkable since the child had been born an identical twin: his uninjured brother, raised as a boy, provided to the experiment the perfect matched control.
The so-called twins case would become one of the most famous in modern medicine and the social sciences; cited repeatedly over the past thirty years as living proof that our sense of being male or female is not inborn but primarily the result of how we are raised. A touchstone for the feminist movement, the case also set the precedent for sex reassignment as standard treatment for thousands of newborns with similarly injured, or irregular, genitals.
But the case was a failure from the outset. From the start the famous twin had, in fact, struggled against his imposed girlhood. Since age fourteen, when finally informed of his medical history, he made the decision to live as a male. John Colapinto tells this extraordinary story for the first time in As Nature Made Him. Writing with uncommon intelligence, insight, and compassion, he also sets the historical and medical context for the case, exposing the thirty-year-long scientific feud between Dr. John Money and his fellow sex researcher, Dr. Milton Diamond--a rivalry over the nature/nurture debate whose very bitterness finally brought the truth to light. A macabre tale of medical arrogance, As Nature Made Him is first and foremost a human drama of one man's-and one family's--amazing survival in the face of terrible odds. The human intimacy of the story is all the greater for the subject's courageous decision to step out from behind the pseudonym that has shrouded his identity for the past thirty years.
About the Author
John Colapinto has written for Vanity Fair, The New Yorker, Esquire, Mademoiselle, Us Weekly, and Rolling Stone, where the landmark National Magazine Award-winning article that was the basis for As Nature Made Him first appeared. He is also the author of the novel About the Author. He lives in New York City with his wife and son.
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- Publisher : Harper; First Edition (February 2, 2000)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 279 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0060192119
- ISBN-13 : 978-0060192112
- Item Weight : 1.3 pounds
- Dimensions : 6.12 x 1.01 x 9.25 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #888,529 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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John Colapinto was born and raised in Toronto, and has a Master's in English literature from the University of Toronto. After freelancing for Canadian magazines for four years, he moved to New York in 1989 and wrote for many magazines, including The New Yorker, Vanity Fair, the New York Times magazine and New York. In 1995 he became a contributing editor at Rolling Stone where he won a National Magazine Award for a story about a medical scandal and expanded the story into a book, As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl, which became a New York Times bestseller. In 2001, he published a novel, About the Author. Since 2006 he has been a staff writer at The New Yorker where he has written about subjects as diverse as medicinal leeches, shoplifting prevention, Karl Lagerfeld and Michelin food inspectors.
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This true story involves a young couple who marry and give birth to twin boys. Months after their birth, the baby boys have some trouble passing urine and it is recommended that circumcision will take care of the problem. Baby Bruce, is randomly selected by a nurse to be first to have the surgical procedure. The doctor on duty that day is not the one who normally does the surgery for some reason but still, being a doctor, the procedure is expected to proceed normally. It doesn't. The baby is put under anesthesia and the doctor uses an electrical cauterizing surgical tool. When it doesn't appear to be turned up enough the doctor turns it higher and ends up burning the infant's penis to a crisp. The baby is rushed to the burn unit for care and ultimately the penis dries up and breaks off. Later, a doctor who works at John Hopkins convinces the young parents that the best solution is to keep it a secret, and raise Bruce as a girl. Bruce is then called Brenda and raised as such but she is awkward, doesn't find dolls, dresses and bows to feel right despite her parents and that obsessed and inappropriate doctor's best efforts. Eventually, Brenda learns WHY she has always felt "different" and in adolescence, begins to live life as David.
I won't spoil the book by revealing more but I will say it's heart-wrenching and well worth the time. The author did a phenomenal job interviewing David and his family, his doctors, etc with extreme sensitivity and respect! And David showed tremendous courage in telling his story publicly in order to potentially help others.
This is really an expose of the development of medical theory re gender and identity, and the "nature vs. nurture" battle within academia. The arrogance of the doctor who insisted that he could be raised as a girl based on a mere circumcision is maddening. His obfuscation of the actual dismal failure of his experiment was criminal malpractice.
It is tragic that a child was forced to undergo such successively callous events of medical malpractice, first with the incompetent circumcision doctor, and then at the hands of Dr. Money. One can only hope that he has found peace with his regained identity, and that other children will not be submitted to similar torture.
But, I will go on to say that the author’s habit of providing long backstories is really the only negative I can see in this book. This book provides exactly what I was hoping to get out of this book: (1) A peek into the life of a boy who was raised as a girl, not just in the clinical notes sense, but in the psychological sense. In other words, how did he live his life, and how did he feel as he was doing it? (2) A more expansive overview of the nature versus nurture gender debate, including both the scientific and social advancements that have been made.
This is the kind of book that is hard to put down. As soon as David starts living as a girl, we as the reader can instantly tell that the experiment isn’t working, that he keeps acting like a boy even as he dresses like a girl. So we, or at least I, keep reading almost feverishly, desperate to come to the point in the story where David is told of his true past, and allowed to once again live as a boy. But it takes so long for that to come, and in the meantime, we see his life get even worse and worse. Some of the stuff John Money makes David do in his therapy sessions are absolutely horrifying, and when he begins to pressure David into having a vaginoplasty so he can become completely female, my heart was absolutely aching for the poor boy.
Once David is finally allowed to live as a boy, we are able to see yet another point of view: what it’s like to live as a young man without a functioning penis. It was interesting to see what ways in which he felt held back by his mutilated genitals, and in what ways he didn’t. There was one insightful quote from him, in which he said something to the effect of: the medical community seemed to place my entire identity in my genitals. It was rather eye-opening to put it that way.
The author does go on to explore the plight of intersex people in America, because even though David was not intersex, the experiment done on him was often referenced as a reason to perform sex reassignment surgery on intersex infants. The book explored how intersex conditions are typically seen as this shameful, dark secret, and yet the person did nothing wrong, and there’s no reason that intersex people should feel the kind of shame they do. It also explored (and seemed to support) the argument for not performing any sex reassignment surgery until children are old enough to give informed consent.
If this topic interests you, then I can assure you that the book will not disappoint.
This is a well researched and compassionately written book. It touches on issues central to today’s “gender wars.”






