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At Her Feet: Powering Your Femdom Relationship Paperback – October 1, 2010

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"S/M is easy to teach, but the delicate balance of D/S is difficult -- especially when complicated by the unusual power dynamics of female dominance. A common-sense and inspiring look at how femdom works for real people in the real world." - Lady Green, author, The Sexually Dominant Woman

About the Author

TammyJo Eckhart, Ph.D., is an ancient historian by training, a teacher by personality, a dominant by nature, and a published fiction author by fate. She has over 20 years of committed experience in BDSM. She and Fox have been together since 1999.

Fox graduated with a BS degree in physics with minors in both mathematics and psychology. He began investigating BDSM as a young adult in an effort to understand certain personal drives and fantasies that seemed to differ from those of his peers. His exploration led him through enough useful information and baseless crap to tell the difference fairly readily.
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 172 pages
  • Publisher: Greenery Press (October 1, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1890159794
  • ISBN-13: 978-1890159795
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 1 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (29 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,157,599 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Based on the content I would have given this book a 5 star rating. But the editing/formatting of the kindle edition is simply so bad that reading the book is an exercise in agony. In most cases where a sentence starts with Th the "Th" is dropped. We have sentences where letters are dropped at random. The list goes on and on. Here are some examples:

is " The - position 566
can t well - position 661
findingthe best - position 665
in theirminds or - position 893
when shewas introduced - position 939
get o on - position 1007
basis. at - position 1106
life. is proved - position 1144

There are MANY, MANY more examples in the book, practically not a page goes by that doesn't contain some kind of error. It's clear that whoever was responsible for publishing this for the Kindle didn't even bother to check their work and their sloppiness now reflects against what really is a very good book.
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If you would like an insight into a female dominant lifestyle then look no further than this book. It is all you will be hoping for and more, written by two long-term practitioners of an M/s relationship this book is both humorous and informative, filled with practical advice, observation, experience, theory and research, "At Her Feet" will hold your interest from the first page until the last.

There are many topics expertly covered both wittily and concisely that should lead the reader to feel both reassured and hopeful of either finding or maintaining a well-balanced and healthy relationship in a less than usual context of a 24/7 femdom lifestyle. Issues covered include roles beyond the bedroom, rituals, contracts and protocols in day-to-day femdom life, acknowledging the necessity for training and growth to meet individual needs and integrate fetish desires into a relationship, plus coping with friends, family, work colleagues and illness in a 24/7 relationship.

Whilst obviously written with the expectation that readers will either be living a similar lifestyle or planning to engage in one, this book also serves a dual role of providing information and reassurance to those who do not have much knowledge or experience of the scene, but would like to learn more, either to support a loved one, or simply to understand about relationships that are lived outside usual expectations and conformity or cultural norms.

"At Her Feet" is well written and entertaining, and contains refreshing perspectives from both dominant and sub.
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As someone who has been in a FemDom relationship for over 15 years I was hoping for something unique from the author. I've seen her postings on various websites and wondered what she had to say.
The book focuses purely on her relationship with her slave. She's poly and I had hoped she would give more insight into how the dynamic worked but she didn't.
Add to that the typeface is extremely small, even with glasses I found it difficult to read. It's okay but to be honest I expected more.
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"At Her Feet - Powering Your Femdom Relationship" by TammyJo Eckhart and Fox asks more questions than it answers. In their deep sometimes geeky analysis of femdom relationships the authors inform us that every relationship is unique. One size does not fit all. They caution against comparing what we have with what others have or what we find posted on Internet blogs and bulletin boards. Both authors have extensive experience in the lifestyle scene and TammyJo is a widely published author. They advise those seeking partners to find D/s organizations in their respective areas, attend munches, parties, and workshops. When dealing with our expectations they tell us we should stick to the "Realistic and Probable".

The authors take potshots at some accepted scene wisdom, including the notion that D/s relationships involve a "power exchange". Mistress and slave both have power and neither should give it up they inform us. The dominant partner is responsible for directing her slave's power in the manner she finds most useful but that does not render him powerless. The authors reject the conventional romantic notion of finding "the one"; a single partner who fulfills all of our needs for life. Instead they suggest we see every player as a potential partner, be realistic about our own needs, strengths and weaknesses then narrow down the field to a manageable number of possibilities. They discuss the difference between monogamous and poly-amorous relationships. Central to this discussion is the idea that our relationship to ourselves is at least as important as our relationship to others. Relationships involving more than one partner, they inform us, become exponentially complex.

"At Her Feet" includes in depth discussions of rituals, rules, protocols, contracts and training.
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This is the story of Eckhart's two man/one woman household. Pretty interesting. HOWEVER, there were no "tips" or description of Femdom activities. In fact, she did not describe the kinks that power her dominance, due to privacy concerns.
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