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Product Details

  • Paperback: 110 pages
  • Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (July 12, 2013)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1490976388
  • ISBN-13: 978-1490976389
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.2 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (45 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #133,105 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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I don't usually write a review on the books I read and trust me, I read a lot of books. Both factual BDSM books and fictional books and I am in the lifestyle. I would NOT recommend this book to anyone. This may be his protocol with his submissive, but it is NOT every Master/Mistress's protocol with their submissive. I know several high protocol couples in my region, and non of them has this protocol. If you are going to write a BDSM Rules book, then write how to act in public, for example how to address a Dom/Domme and a submissive, what to do in a dungeon environment or at a play party.
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All in all, this amounts to more of a male fantasy than a practical BDSM guide.

Some of the "rules" are almost universal. Others might be applicable only if both the Dominant and submissive are in full agreement. BDSM is, after all, a very individual and personal experience. There is no "one size fits all" and no "true way" for everyone.

The admonishment to end a relationship, especially regarding a previously un-negotiated point, is overly severe and ignores the author's own discussion of how a Dom and submissive should feel about each other upon entering the contract.

This booklet has its share of fun activities to try. Just don't take it as gospel or the only way to approach a D/s or M/s relationship.
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This was a short, easy read that nonetheless provided an excellent starting point for anyone wanting to enter a M/s or D/s relationship. Unlike most "rules" I have encountered, BDSM Rules provides a flexible template that encourages personalization and adaptation.

The only short coming, in my opinion, was the absence of rules specifically relevant to long-distance relationships. However, this is only a small oversight and can be overcome by those with good creativity. In fact, I hope to use much of this book in servicing the man I hope to be my Master.
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Recently finished 'BDSM Rules' by Phil G. It takes the form of a contract between a Dom and a Sub, and while it touches briefly (very briefly in some instances) on a variety of kinks and does a decent job at what it is (you're reading a contract, not an expository text) the "book" came across as a bit shallow and most desperately could have used a good editing.

For less than five bucks, you get what you pay for.
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First, let me say there is a reason real authors have editors. Second, I would definitely be interested in chatting with any sub who was "trained" by the author to have an orgasm, just from performing fellatio on him. Or to climax within 30 seconds of a half-assed "breast massage". I don't mean that one who faked it to avoid being punished. This alone is enough to make me doubt that this guy has any actual experience and didn't rip all his info off from blogs and porn, and the entire book is filled with crap like that. At least it was cheap, a quick read, and gave us a few chuckles.
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This was an easy to read guide for a novice sub, I also ordered a copy for my "Sir" I recommend it to veterans also to brush up on their bdsm craft and teach new subs. We are enjoying our journey
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The Author provides a great way for couples to start discussing BDSM and explore ways that can fit it into their own relationship.
The text is easy to read and simple enough for a novice to understand. It is also an excellent reminder for those already living the lifestyle.
A nice refresher for anyone who may have forgotten the rules. The reviews below mention some possible shortfalls and we are all allowed an opinion. Do not let these sway you into not purchasing this book. If you are curious and want to move further with your partner into a world that can seem daunting, this is an EXCELLENT place to start. You will have a strong foundation on which to build your unique relationship. You will not be disappointed. Happy Exploring All!
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Simply stated...this is a "sample" contract for a BDSM relationship. It is a quick & easy read & offers many good ideas to use if you are interested in creating a contract for a relationship. I found this rather in depth, interesting & fascinating to see what another person may include in their contractual agreement in such a relationship. I don't believe I would have paid for this to read outside of my Kindle Unlimited subscription.
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