[ BLOOD, BONES & BUTTER: THE INADVERTENT EDUCATION OF A RELUCTANT CHEF - GREENLIGHT ] By Hamilton, Gabrielle ( Author) 2011 [ Compact Disc ] CD-ROM – March 1, 2011
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Step by step through her unlikely life, she carries us along on her journey to top chef of Prune restaurant in NYC. Along the way we learn what it takes to be a chef and way they make such lousy spouses. Driven by their desire to excel, and the demands of their profession, they are married to the restaurant with little time or energy left over for people.
This lively account of her life shows the price she pays and whether she thinks it is worth it. Lively, honest and fascinating, it give a glimpse into the life of a top chef.
1) Her childhood in New Hope and Lambertville. I grew up in Princeton but went to High School up 518 from there, so I knew the area aggressively well and she just has it nailed down in her descriptions.
2) Her time as an MFA. I "hate" MFAs though I aspire to be one. I just find that the writing that happens in these microcosms is so removed from reality....and it appears so did Hamilton
3) Her discussion of service, how to treat people, how to get through things in different service scenarios. It is nice to read someone actually put into words, what so many people have a hard time putting into action.
The book does talk a lot about cooking and her career, and how Prune came to be, but it was really nice to just read about her take on life with food, not food with life. Her marriage, and the latter third of the book, I never understood. Maybe when she was writing this she was still going through the emotions of her divorce thus everything related to Michele took on very heavy coloring (whether in a positive tone or negative one). I wouldn't try to replicate most of it, just the kids and Alda, but since Prune just closed last year during the pandemic, I'd love a new memoir for the last ten years...
This story is so emotional that she lost me several times because she seems to jump around from scenario to scenario and mixes memories together to the point where they arent very coherent. The moments in this book are more emotionally connected than chronologically connected – if that makes sense. Thats probably my only knock on the book. This book has plenty of indirect recipes, where the chef gives the name if the dish and briefly describes how to prepare it. I love "recipes" like that because I get to research it and interpret it on my own. There are a lot of memorable moments in the book and what Hamilton has been able to accomplish is pretty impressive considering.
If you love chef memoirs this is definitely one of the better ones and I would encourage you to check it out.
From, at first, a superficially happy childhood, to a rudderless, loveless and seemingly parent-less teenage, with drugs, cigarettes and often no money, this woman by pure bloody-mindedness and tenacity fights her way up through menial jobs to be the chef of "Prune", and she still is one of New York's best chefs. Take note that she really is a very hard worker, who doesn't mind cleaning up the most yucky stuff -- she cannot stand disorganization and mess. Hats off to her for that.
Yet the memoir is in many ways too self-centred. She carries within her issues and old angers which the reader picks up on as the story goes on. Her husband Michele seemed to me to be a very nice man, actually, to put up for so long with this impatient woman who (she never admits this) finds it hard to love unconditionally. The (seeming) total lack of communication between her and Michele made me want to shake her and say, "For God's sake, so he's not a talker: YOU talk then!" It seems her way of expressing fury towards him -- often not well understood by the reader -- is to sulk for weeks. And yet somewhere she confesses that although she screams, swears like a sailor, and throws things when angry at Michele, he has never uttered a harsh word towards her. An easy-going woman she is not!
Her one true love, apart from her children (who could well have been created by immaculate conception), is cooking. She's brilliant at that, and to keep a N Y restaurant going on her own takes true grit -- there is no other word for it.
Like another reviewer I also did not understand her dislike, almost hatred, of her mother. She says they're too similar, but that does not ring true, really. And in the end we still do not know much this mother who abandoned most of her children when she left her husband.
I'd recommend this book to any intelligent foodie -- just know it's not always a light or easy read, but it should keep you spellbound.
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It's about food, about cooking, about starting out in life in a family that has everything, then collapses, with repercussions that ring through the decades. But, then in the end (as one other reviewer has noted, somewhat negatively), it also becomes a platform for self-analysis around the author's own marriage, and how her life is secure professionally but fragile personally.
It's a bit scattered in places - a chapter devoted to a conference about women in restaurants is worthy, but out of place. What holds it all together, however, is the writing style, which has a wonderful cadence, and which reveals the passion of the author for her profession.
I really enjoyed it. I would be interested if she turned her hand to another book, one slightly more focused.
Her restaurant is great as well. Do go there if you get the chance.