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Becoming Enlightened Paperback – December 22, 2009
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Complete with personal anecdotes and intimate accounts of the Dalai Lama’s experiences as a life-long student, meditator, political leader, Nobel Laureate, bestselling author, and revered international figure, Becoming Enlightened gives readers all the wisdom, support, guidance, and inspiration they need to become successful in their spiritual lives. This remarkable and empowering guide can be read and enjoyed by spiritual seekers of all faiths, as readers are captivated by His Holiness the Dalai Lama’s loving and direct teaching style.
About the Author
His Holiness frequently states that his life is guided by three major commitments: the promotion of basic human values or secular ethics in the interest of human happiness, the fostering of interreligious harmony, and securing the welfare of the Tibetan people, focusing on the survival of their identity, culture, and religion. As a superior scholar trained in the classical texts of the Nalanda tradition of Indian Buddhism, he is able to distill the central tenets of Buddhist philosophy in clear and inspiring language, his gift for pedagogy imbued with his infectious joy. Connecting scientists with Buddhist scholars, he helps unite contemplative and modern modes of investigation, bringing ancient tools and insights to bear on the acute problems facing the contemporary world. His efforts to foster dialogue among leaders of the world's faiths envision a future where people of different beliefs can share the planet in harmony. Wisdom Publications is proud to be the premier publisher of the Dalai Lama's more serious and in-depth works.
Jeffrey Hopkins, Ph.D., served for a decade as the interpreter for the Dalai Lama. A Buddhist scholar and the author of more than thirty-five books and translations, he is emeritus professor of Tibetan and Buddhist studies at the University of Virginia, where he founded the largest academic program of Tibetan Buddhist studies in the West.
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Becoming Enlightened
By His Holiness the Dalai LamaAtria
Copyright © 2009 His Holiness the Dalai LamaAll right reserved.
ISBN: 9781416565840
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A Book About Enlightenment
We have arrived in the twenty-first century, a time of considerable material progress largely based on technological advances spurred on by a flurry of scientific discoveries. Nevertheless, the twentieth century was beset by a huge amount of violence, more than ever before, and at the start of the twenty-first century, murderous violence seems to be taking new forms, of ever-increasing power. This mess has been caused not by insufficient technical knowledge, nor by insufficient materials, but by an unruly mind.
While many in this world are enjoying increasing prosperity, many also remain in extreme poverty. In most countries there is a great disparity between social classes. Lacking wealth, the poor are terribly vulnerable. Consider, too, how many animals are being grown for slaughter, a number so great that the environment is being damaged.
These sad facts are due to insufficient loving care. If humanity's sense of caring for others increased, not only would people in the world be happier but the countless animals whose lives we directly affect would also have a better life. To increase our altruism we must motivate ourselves to take into consideration the effects of our actions on both the present and the future.
If unwanted suffering can be removed and happiness achieved merely through material advancement and wealth, then rich people should be free from suffering, but obviously this is not the case. In fact, once people obtain a good bit of money, comfort, and power, they tend to become excessively proud and jealous, particularly covetous, more focused on harm, and increasingly apprehensive. Those living in a moderate way are by no means impervious to the three poisons of lust, hatred, and ignorance, but for the most part they are bothered considerably less by additional problems.
What makes us unhappy? Our minds have fallen so far under the influence of self-destructive emotions that these attitudes, far from being viewed as harmful, are welcomed and promoted. That is what makes us squirm in discomfort.
If people could enjoy both external prosperity and inner qualities of goodness, outer and inner wealth, that indeed would provide a comfortable human life. Happiness does not come just from external circumstances; it mainly derives from inner attitudes. Nowadays those countries that have achieved great material progress are beginning to see that physical health and sickness, as well as the condition of society, are closely related to our mental processes.
Analytical investigation of the ways we think and feel are very important. Over the last three thousand years the most penetrating analysis of internal mental processes has occurred in India, so it is those insights that I draw on in this book to present in an easily accessible way the full range of practices leading to the enlightenment of Buddhahood.
Identifying Buddhism
Some 2,550 years ago, Buddha set forth a new religion in India. Some aspects of his ideas had already appeared there earlier, but no one had delineated these perspectives and techniques as conclusively as he would. What is at their core? Selflessness. Long before him, many had sought to analyze the status of the self, but not only did they teach that the self exists, they held that it exists independent of the mind and the body. However, Buddha concluded that when we assert that the self exists independently, our innate sense of self-centeredness increases and solidifies. As a result, the lust, anger, pride, jealousy, and doubt that stem from being selfcentered grow stronger and more ingrained.
Seeing that defective states of mind such as lust and hatred are rooted in egotism, Buddha taught something that had not been explained before him, the view of selflessness. This was exceptional, and indeed for the more than 2,500 years that have passed since his time, no one outside of his tradition has taught this view.
As the Tibetan scholar Jamyang Shepa wrote near the end of the seventeenth century, "Non-Buddhist and Buddhist views derive from proving or refuting what is conceived by a view of self." In setting forth the view of selflessness, Buddha taught that a permanent unchangeable self, separate from mind and body, does not exist. Non-Buddhist schools not only accept such a self but seek to prove its independent existence through various approaches, whereas Buddhist systems seek to refute it.
It is not that the self is totally nonexistent; it is obvious that a self that desires happiness and does not want suffering does indeed exist. But Buddha taught that the self is set up in dependence upon the mind and body. In this way Buddha established the view known as dependent-arising, which emphasizes the interrelatedness of all things. Despite appearances to the contrary, nothing exists autonomously, or truly in isolation. All things have interconnections. The view of dependent-arising is Buddha's focal teaching.
Dependent-arising means that all phenomena -- whether physical, mental, or otherwise -- come into being based on certain causes and conditions. The happiness that the self seeks out and the suffering that the self seeks to remove do not arise independently but are produced by their own specific, temporary, appropriate causes. According to Buddhism they do not arise from permanent causes such as a permanent self-arisen Creator, or a permanent Nature, as was a popular belief in India. Buddha taught that phenomena arise only in dependence upon their respective causes and conditions. Everything is always in flux.
I am frequently asked what the Buddhist outlook is, and I respond by saying its view is dependent-arising, and its prescribed behavior is nonviolence. Nonviolence means to be motivated by compassion, which calls for helping others and, if that is not possible, then at least doing no harm. Dependent-arising and compassion are the essence of the Buddhist religion and the keys to its highest state: enlightenment.
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His Holiness the Fourteenth Dalai Lama, Tenzin Gyatso, was born in 1935 to a peasant family in northeastern Tibet and was recognized at the age of two as the reincarnation of his predecessor, the Thirteenth Dalai Lama. The world's foremost Buddhist leader, he travels extensively, speaking eloquently in favor of ecumenical understanding, kindness and compassion, respect for the environment, and, above all, world peace.
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The First Noble Truth the Buddha taught is that life is full of suffering. The Dalai Lama teaches that altruism and compassion are the foundations for a life that helps to reduce suffering. The consequences of even the smallest thought, word, and deed to relieve suffering are incalculable. Like a stone thrown into the middle of a pool, a good deed radiates out to the farthest shore. Both the giver and receiver receive benefits.
Becoming Enlightened is our guide to follow as we walk along our unique path paying attention to the needs of others and the help we can give to relieve suffering and distress. The Dalai Lama's universal message of love and forgiveness should find warm welcome no matter what faith tradition, or lack of one, a person possesses. The Dalai Lama welcomes everyone and attempts to convert no one to Buddhism. A life lived for others can be found in most religious traditions and also in those people with no religion. Suffering is the common denominator that connects us all and those whose true purpose it is to relieve it are the enlightened ones of this age and all ages.
In the first reading of Becoming Enlightened we become familiar with the vast scope of the subject. In subsequent readings we are called to put the teaching into practice one page and one day at a time. To be awake, aware, and mindful in each moment and free from the illusions that cause so much suffering is the path the Dalai Lama is on himself and he invites us to join him.
With our second reading we begin to understand our good fortune in living a life that allows us to practice the teaching of the Dalai Lama each day. One important insight we must understand from the beginning is the illusion of the independent "I." Understanding our interconnectedness with the world is a first step to reducing the narrow focus on self which is the cause of so much suffering. Our study and application of Becoming Enlightened is a work in progress. We are pleased to accompany the Dalai Lama on his path.
The second noble truth the Buddha taught is: "Suffering is caused by attachment, greed, and desire." The Buddha says, "The varieties of lives in the world are impermanent like autumn clouds. The birth and death of beings are like watching a dance. The passage of life is like lightning in the sky. It moves quickly, like a waterfall." The Dalai Lama recommends that we do not put off for a moment our practice of the way, the truth, and a life, all too short, that leads to enlightenment. The way depends on dying to self-centered thoughts and desires that arise from our ignorance of the truth of our relatedness and interdependence on one another. Empty of selfishness, life takes on new meaning and purpose.
The third noble truth is concerned with impermanence and the end of suffering. The Buddha says: "Do not accept any of my words on faith, believing them just because I said them. Be like an analyst buying gold who cuts, burns, and critically examines his product for authenticity. Only accept what passes the test by proving useful and beneficial in your life." The Dalai Lama helps us to cut, burn, and critically examine the thoughts, words, and behaviors of our life and put into practice the teaching of the Buddha to reduce and finally eliminate the suffering that is so much a part of our world.
The fourth noble truth tells us that following The Eightfold Path described by the Buddha leads to peace and contentment. Becoming Enlightened will help the reader find the courage, understanding, and conviction to take the journey on the path to enlightenment.
One final quote will give the patient reader of this long review a good idea of what is meant by a heroic life lived only by a few saints and sages (St. Francis of Assisi comes to mind). Toyon writes: "May the virtuous roots that I have achieved through putting together this book have the result that instead of my ever achieving Buddhahood I remain in cyclic existence, experiencing the suffering of other beings in place of them." Enough said!
I only wish I had read this book when I was younger because I know now that Buddhism is the perfect philosophy for myself, and for anyone who struggles with suffering (depression, anger, anxiety) on a constant basis but wants to be free. It’s almost been a year since I picked up this book up for the first time and I can honestly say I’m not the same person I was then. I’m so grateful I found this book and thankful the Dalai Lama took the time to write it for people like me!
I was not a Buddhist before reading this book (or I should say, listening to this audio book). I am surprised at how well the Dalai Lama understands the Western mind in order to convey these ideas so clearly. He is able to convincingly associate Buddhist analysis with modern quantum mechanics and relativity. It is remarkable to me that ancient Buddhism perceived a reality in tune with the often strange world of quantum mechanics. It is a realisation of the true nature of things. Stepping through the "looking glass" of Buddhist thought in pursuit of enlightenment is the first step toward nirvana (cessation).
I lead a meditation & study group, and this is one of my favorite books for the group, to start people off.
Even if one is not completely in agreement with the end of this process a great deal of good can be found in ways of dealing with anger, self understanding and insight into the interconnectedness of all things. Also the blending of science, theology and philosophy [Eastern and Western].
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