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Beyond Bullying: Breaking the Cycle of Shame, Bullying, and Violence 1st Edition
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· Why are some kids magnets for bullying?
· Why do gay teens commit suicide four times as frequently as "straight" teens?
· Why do we have more men and women in prison than any other country in the world?
· Why are school shootings and acts of domestic terrorism on the rise?
What could possibly be the theme that ties all of these questions together, which provides a window into so many aspects of the darker aspects of human behavior? In a word, shame.
Shame is a powerful and complex emotion, capable of producing dramatic reactions from even the most mild-mannered people. While shame can be employed in positive ways, such as teaching children good manners, other types of shame can be devastating, or even lethal. However, few people truly understand the role of shame in acts of bullying, violence, and discrimination.
In Beyond Bullying: Breaking the Cycle of Shame, Bullying, and Violence, veteran professor of social work Jonathan Fast deftly weaves together research from the fields of psychology, sociology, economics, and history to create a single overarching theory of shame. The book introduces the concept of "weaponized shame," a toxic and intentional attack on another person, noting that weaponized shame is often at the heart of bullying situations. With clear, straightforward language, Dr. Fast traces the nuances of shame through several common types of bullying, highlighting bullying based on sexuality, gender, and race. Noting the pervasive presence of weaponized shame in American culture, Beyond Bullying extends shame theory to acts of domestic violence, racism, school shootings, and domestic terrorism. The issues that cause bullying are not limited to the schoolyard, but rather are responsible for horrific acts of violence across the nation.
Beyond mere theory, the book provides concrete suggestions for healthy ways of dealing with shame, including techniques for diffusing potentially harmful situations. An invaluable resource for parents of bullied children, Beyond Bullying will also appeal to teachers, counselors, and social workers.
- ISBN-100199383642
- ISBN-13978-0199383641
- Edition1st
- PublisherOxford University Press
- Publication dateNovember 2, 2015
- LanguageEnglish
- Dimensions0.9 x 6.2 x 9.1 inches
- Print length264 pages
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- Publisher : Oxford University Press; 1st edition (November 2, 2015)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 264 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0199383642
- ISBN-13 : 978-0199383641
- Item Weight : 1.1 pounds
- Dimensions : 0.9 x 6.2 x 9.1 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #674,456 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #1,224 in Abusive Family Relationships
- #1,439 in Social Work (Books)
- #1,521 in Psychology (Books)
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Jonathan Fast's novels have been critically praised by the New York Times Sunday Review, the Los Angeles Times, and Publisher's Weekly. He has been interviewed by Terry Gross on Fresh Air, and People Magazine. His work is distinguished by its wit, romance, adventure, and spirituality. His historical novels help us understand the past, the ages of emperors and kings, of pageantry and bloody battles, remarkable leaps of science, and the subjugation of newly discovered worlds.
Fast attended the High School of Music and Art, and Princeton University. For a decade he wrote novels, and screenplays, and was a contract writer at Disney Feature Animation.
In midlife, financial issues forced Fast to turn his talents in a new direction. He earned a Doctorate in Psychology, and worked for several years as Director of St. Rafael's Adolescent Day Hospital in New Haven, CT. Offered and tenure track position at Yeshiva University, he eventually became a Professor and Fulbright Scholar. During this period he wrote many articles for academic journals and two nonfiction books about the relationship between shame, violence and school shootings. He was a frequent guest on the BBC World Service, helping listeners deal with tragic acts of violence.
During his time as a therapist, Fast grew increasingly interested in using hypnotic techniques to help his patients. He earned a certification in clinical hypnosis from the New York Milton Erickson Institute (NYSEPH) and also trained with Jeffrey Zeig at the Erickson Foundation in Phoenix.
It was no surprise that when Fast returned to writing fiction, his first effort was a biography of Franz Anton Mesmer, the 18th century doctor who was the first to use hypnosis to cure patients. The word "Mesmerized" is derived from his name, and he coined the phrase "Animal Magnetism" to describe the curious power he had discovered.
Mesmer, part genius, part showman, part charlatan, fascinated Fast. Having thoroughly researched the man and his writings, Fast set about imagining the undocumented moments of his life. Because the novel was set in 18th century Vienna, it provided an opportunity for Fast to reflect on modern issues of patriarchy and women's liberation. By telling the story through the voice of Mesmer's gay valet, Fast could examine the feelings of being "closeted" in the days when homosexuality was punishable by hanging. It also provided a chance to write about opera, Mozart, and The Enlightenment, three of Fast's passions.
Jonathan Fast currently lives in the California Desert with his wife, the Rev Barbara Fast. He has three grown children, Molly Jong-Fast, a writer and political analyst; Benjamin Fast, a writer and producer of theatrical films, and Daniel Fast, a computer scientist and artist.
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It was good to see the restorative justices mentioned at the close of this text. There is hope. We can and should do more to stop the senseless violence.






