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Big Brother: A Novel Hardcover – June 4, 2013
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Big Brother is a striking novel about siblings, marriage, and obesity from Lionel Shriver, the acclaimed author the international bestseller We Need to Talk About Kevin.
For Pandora, cooking is a form of love. Alas, her husband, Fletcher, a self-employed high-end cabinetmaker, now spurns the “toxic” dishes that he’d savored through their courtship, and spends hours each day to manic cycling. Then, when Pandora picks up her older brother Edison at the airport, she doesn’t recognize him. In the years since they’ve seen one another, the once slim, hip New York jazz pianist has gained hundreds of pounds. What happened? After Edison has more than overstayed his welcome, Fletcher delivers his wife an ultimatum: It’s him or me.
Rich with Shriver’s distinctive wit and ferocious energy, Big Brother is about fat: an issue both social and excruciatingly personal. It asks just how much sacrifice we'll make to save single members of our families, and whether it's ever possible to save loved ones from themselves.
- Print length384 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherHarper
- Publication dateJune 4, 2013
- Dimensions6 x 1.21 x 9 inches
- ISBN-109780061458576
- ISBN-13978-0061458576
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“As a writer, Shriver’s talents are many: She’s especially skilled at playing with readers’s reflexes for sympathy and revulsion, never letting us get too comfortable with whatever firm understanding we think we have of a character.” — Washington Post
“The moving (and shocking) finale will have you thinking about the ‘byzantine emotional mathematics’ we all put ourselves through when overwhelmed with family responsibilities.” — Oprah.com
“(A) delicious, highly readable novel . . . (which) raises challenging questions about how much a loving person can give to another without sacrificing his or her own well-being.” — People, People Pick (4 Stars)
“Big Brother is vintage Shriver - observant, unsettling, funny, but also, as Pandora admits, ‘Very, very sad.’” — Miami Herald
“Lionel Shriver’s Big Brother has the muscle to overpower its readers. It is a conversation piece of impressive heft.” — New York Times
“The ever-caustic Shriver has great fun at the expense of crash diets and a host of other sacred pop-culture, er, cows. Politically correct it’s not, but Big Brother finds the funny - and the pathos - in fat.” — USA Today
“Her [Shriver’s] best work--Big Brother is her twelfth novel--presents characters so fully formed that they inhabit her ideas rather than trumpet them.” — New Republic
“Pandora is a masterly creation.” — New York Times Book Review
“The diet - the story of a heroically undertaken significant change - is pretty nearly irresistible. But what really powers this story, an outsize look at the most basic of human activities, eating, is a search for the definition, and appreciation, of ‘ordinary life.’” — Minneapolis Star Tribune
“The latest compelling, humane and bleakly comic novel from the author of We Need to Talk about Kevin.” — Evening Standard (London)
“A great plot setup that presents an array of targets for Shriver to obliterate with her knife-sharp prose.” — The Rumpus
“A surprising sledgehammer of a novel” — The Times (London)
“A gutsy, heartfelt novel” — Sunday Times (London)
“What would you do for love of a brother? For love of a husband? For love of food? In Big Brother, Shriver’s new and wonderfully timely novel, her heroine wrestles with these vexing questions. Only the scales don’t lie.” — Margot Livesey, author of The Flight of Gemma Hardy
“The fellowship of Lionel Shriver fanatics is about to grow larger, so to speak. Big Brother, a tragicomic meditation on family and food, may be her best book yet.” — Gary Shteyngart, author of Super Sad True Love Story
“A searing, addictive novel about the power and limitations of food, family, success, and desire. Shriver examines America’s weight obsession with both razor-sharp insight and compassion.” — J. Courtney Sullivan, author of Maine and Commencement
“Brilliantly imagined, beautifully written, and superbly entertaining, Shriver’s novel confronts readers with the decisive question: can we save our loved ones from themselves? A must-read for Shriver fans, this novel will win over new readers as well.” — Library Journal
“An intelligent meditation on food, guilt, and the real (and imagined) debts we owe the ones we love.” — Publishers Weekly
“Shriver brilliantly explores the strength of sibling bonds versus the often more fragile ties of marriage.” — Booklist
“[Shriver] has a knack for conveying subtle shifts in family dynamics. . . . Ms Shriver offers some sage observations. . . . Yet her main gift as a novelist is a talent for coolly nailing down uncomfortable realities.” — The Economist
“Shriver is brilliant on the novel shock that is hunger. . . . Most of all, though, there’s her glorious, fearless, almost fanatically hard-working prose.” — Guardian
“Shriver is wonderful at the things she is always wonderful at. Pace and plot. . . . Psychology.” — Independent
“Would I recommend Big Brother? Absolutely. It confronts the touchy subject of American lard exuberantly and intelligently; it makes you think about what you put in your mouth and why.” — Bloomberg
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From the acclaimed author of the National Book Award finalist So Much for That and the international bestseller We Need to Talk About Kevin comes a striking new novel about siblings, marriage, and obesity.
When Pandora picks up her older brother Edison at her local Iowa airport, she literally doesn't recognize him. In the four years since the siblings last saw each other, the once slim, hip New York jazz pianist has gained hundreds of pounds. What happened?
And it's not just the weight. Imposing himself on Pandora's world, Edison breaks her husband Fletcher's handcrafted furniture, makes overkill breakfasts for the family, and entices her stepson not only to forgo college but to drop out of high school.
After the brother-in-law has more than overstayed his welcome, Fletcher delivers his wife an ultimatum: It's him or me. Putting her marriage and adopted family on the line, Pandora chooses her brother—who, without her support in losing weight, will surely eat himself into an early grave.
Rich with Shriver's distinctive wit and ferocious energy, Big Brother is about fat—an issue both social and excruciatingly personal. It asks just how much we'll sacrifice to rescue single members of our families, and whether it's ever possible to save loved ones from themselves.
About the Author
Lionel Shriver's fiction includes The Mandibles; Property; the National Book Award finalist So Much for That; the New York Times bestseller The Post-Birthday World; and the international bestseller We Need to Talk About Kevin, adapted for a 2010 film starring Tilda Swinton. Her journalism has appeared in the Guardian, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, and many other publications. She’s a regular columnist for the Spectator in Britain and Harper’s Magazine in the US. She lives in London and Brooklyn, New York.
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Big Brother
By Lionel ShriverHarperCollins Publishers
Copyright © 2013 Lionel ShriverAll rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-0-06-145857-6
chapter one
I have to wonder whether any of the true highlights of my
fortysome years have had to do with food. I don't mean cel-
ebratory dinners, good fellowship; I mean salivation, mastica-
tion, and peristalsis. Oddly, for something I do every day, I can't
remember many meals in detail, while it is far easier for me to call
up favorite movies, faithful friendships, graduations. It follows,
then, that film, affinity, and education are more important to me
than stuffing my face. Well done, me, you say. But were I hon-
estly to total the time I have lavished on menu planning, grocery
shopping, prep and cooking, table setting, and kitchen cleanup
for meal upon meal, food, one way or another, has dwarfed my
fondness for Places in the Heart to an incidental footnote; ditto
my fondness for any human being, even those whom I profess
to love. I have spent less time thinking about my husband than
thinking about lunch. Throw in the time I have also spent ru-
ing indulgence in lemon meringue pies, vowing to skip breakfast
tomorrow, and opening the refrigerator/stopping myself from
4 · lionel shriver
dispatching the leftover pumpkin custard/then shutting it firmly
again, and I seem to have concerned myself with little else but
food.
So why, if, by inference, eating has been so embarrassingly
central for me, can I not remember an eidetic sequence of stellar
meals?
Like most people, I recall childhood favorites most vividly,
and like most kids I liked plain things: toast, baking-powder bis-
cuits, saltines. My palate broadened in adulthood, but my char-
acter did not. I am white rice. I have always existed to set off
more exciting fare. I was a foil as a girl. I am a foil now.
I doubt this mitigates my discomfiture much, but I have some
small excuse for having overemphasized the mechanical matter of
sustenance. For eleven years, I ran a catering business. You would
think, then, that I could at least recall individual victories at
Breadbasket, Inc. Well, not exactly. Aside from academics at the
university, who are more adventurous, Iowans are conservative
eaters, and I can certainly summon a monotonous assembly line
of carrot cake, lasagna, and sour-cream cornbread. But the only
dishes that I recollect in high relief are the disasters—the Indian
rosewater pudding thickened with rice flour that turned into a
stringy, viscous vat suitable for affixing wallpaper. The rest—the
salmon steaks rolled around somethingorother, the stir-fries of
thisandthat with an accent of whathaveyou—it's all a blur.
Patience; I am rounding on something. I propose: food is by
nature elusive. More concept than substance, food is the idea of
satisfaction, far more powerful than satisfaction itself, which is
why diet can exert the sway of religion or political zealotry. Not
irresistible tastiness but the very failure of food to reward is what
drives us to eat more of it. The most sumptuous experience of
big brother · 5
ingestion is in-between: remembering the last bite and looking
forward to the next one. The actual eating part almost doesn't
happen. This near-total inability to deliver is what makes the
pleasures of the table so tantalizing, and also so dangerous.
Petty? I'm not so sure. We are animals; far more than the
ancillary matter of sex, the drive to eat motivates nearly all of
human endeavor. Having conspicuously triumphed in the com-
petition for resources, the fleshiest among us are therefore tower-
ing biological success stories. But ask any herd of overpopulating
deer: nature punishes success. Our instinctive saving for a rainy
day, our burying of acorns in the safest and most private of hid-
ing places for the long winter, however prudent in its way, how-
ever expressive of Darwinian guile, is killing my country. That
is why I cast doubt on whether the pantry, as a subject, is paltry.
True, I sometimes wonder just how much I care about my coun-
try. But I care about my brother.
Any story about a sibling goes far back indeed, but for our
purposes the chapter of my brother's life that most deserves
scrutiny began, aptly, at lunch. It must have been a weekend,
since I hadn't already left for my manufacturing headquarters.
As usual in that era, my husband Fletcher had come upstairs
on the early side. He'd been getting up at five a.m., so by noon he
was famished. A self-employed cabinetmaker who crafted lovely
but unaffordable one-of-a-kind furniture, he commuted all the
way to our basement, and could arise whenever he liked. The
crack-of-dawn nonsense was for show. Fletcher liked the implied
rigor, the façade of yet more hardness, fierceness, discipline, and
self-denial.
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I found the up-and-at-'em maddening. Back then, I hadn't the
wisdom to welcome discord on such a minor scale, since Fletcher's
alarm-clock setting would soon be the least of our problems. But
that's true of all before pictures, which appear serene only in ret-
rospect. At the time, my irritation at the self- righteousness with
which he swept from bed was real enough. The man went to sleep
at nine p.m. He got eight hours of shut-eye like a normal person.
Where was the self-denial?
As with so many of my husband's bullying eccentricities, I
refused to get with the program and had begun to sleep in. I was
my own boss, too, and I detested early mornings. Queasy first
light recalled weak filtered coffee scalded on a hot plate. Turning
in at nine would have made me feel like a child, shuttled to my
room while the grown-ups had fun. Only the folks having fun,
all too much of it, would have been Tanner and Cody, teenagers
not about to adopt their father's faux farming hours.
Thus, having just cleared off my own toast and coffee dishes,
I wasn't hungry for lunch—although, following the phone call of
an hour earlier, my appetite had gone off for other reasons. I can't
remember what we were eating, but it
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- Publisher : Harper; First Edition (June 4, 2013)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 384 pages
- ISBN-10 : 9780061458576
- ISBN-13 : 978-0061458576
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- Dimensions : 6 x 1.21 x 9 inches
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Lionel Shriver is a novelist whose previous books include Orange Prize–winner We Need to Talk About Kevin, The Post-Birthday World, A Perfectly Good Family, Game Control, Double Fault, The Female of the Species, Checker and the Derailleurs, and Ordinary Decent Criminals.
She is widely published as a journalist, writing features, columns, op-eds, and book reviews for the Guardian, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Financial Times, the Economist, Marie Claire, and many other publications.
She is frequently interviewed on television, radio, and in print media. She lives in London and Brooklyn, NY.
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Shriver looks at the obesity issue that has become part of all of our lives and she asks some hefty questions and makes some pretty hard hitting points.
Is a food addict the same as a drug or alcohol addict? Do they face the same struggles or is it harder because their addiction is something that they have to face every day? To really fight the addiction do you have to absolve yourself of food totally and survive on liquid only? Will the eventual show down with food unravel you and take you back to where you started?
Edison and Pandoras journey highlights some interesting discoveries about eating/food/dieting like - even when we know we are over weight, when we are the smallest person in a group of overweight people we feel like we are okay. How we revolve friendships, partnerships and most of our living around food - the preparation of, the presentation of, the discussion of, the daydreaming about and then the consuming. Food is wrapped up in so many moments and memories that is it so far fetched that we are all a little obsessed about it? Dieters will agree that socialising becomes very hard when you are abstaining and yet for those who have eating disorders it is the most lonely place to be. Shriver asks us if the way we live in this day and age, not wanting for much and having everything at our disposal - whether food has lost its core function. It is no longer about survival and for most people it no longer holds real satisfaction. Once we finish one meal we are already planning the next without really stopping to savor this one. Meals are eaten hastily in front of televisions, over conversations, at computers and while driving, we pay little homage to something that should be a sustenance. Has food changed from keeping our bellies full, to trying to make us feel full and content in general? Are we seeking comfort and chasing that ever elusive feeling of fullness that used to come from working hard for something and reaping the reward? Food is a quick and easy feel good tool that the general population are using to get their 'fix'.
Wonderful subject matter, really makes you stop and think about how far you would go to help a family member and if they really want/need/appreciate it. Looks at how hard it is sometimes to address the elephant in the room and what leads people to lose themselves in an addiction and not be able to come through it. Is the adage once an addict always an addict true? Can you abstain from food when you actually need it to survive? Is this why the diet industry is so massive and the solution to the problem not as easy as everyone thinks?
Shriver weaves magic with her writing but even I felt annoyed when I had to keep looking up words and re-reading sentences because the language was over the top and verbose to say the least. I dont think the novel needed it and if anything detracted from it for me personally.
The ending was not what I was expecting and I can see how it has upset many fellow readers. But for me it just concreted everything that the book was trying to get us to think about.
Pandora hasn't seen her brother for four years and last remembers him as svelte, somewhere around 170 pounds. Pandora is married to a "nutrition nazi" (Fletcher) with his two children from a previous marriage; the relationships seem harmonious but there is low-grade buzz of tension under the surface and none of these characters is particularly likable, with the exception of the step-daughter, Cody.
The tension is of course exacerbated by Edison's announcement that is he is coming for an extended stay before departing off to a tour in Europe as a jazz musician. The reality of his status is quite otherwise, and this is revealed at the end of his stay, coming as little surprise to the reader. When she meets her brother at the airport, she is shocked to put it mildly. He has ballooned to nearly 400 pounds.
While staying with his sister and their family, he turns the place upside down, wreaking havoc in the kitchen preparing outrageous meals which horrify Fletcher and quadruple the grocery budget. Edison's behavior is that of vengeful self-destruction, misplaced anger turned inward.
While Pandora has a very successful business, Fletcher makes high-end custom furniture. The conflict reaches a boiling point when Edison sits in a favorite hand-made chair and wrecks it.
When it becomes apparent that Edison's "European gig" is a phony, Pandora decides to sacrifice her marriage and stepchildren for one year, move into an apartment with her brother, and supervise and participate in an extreme diet. Fletcher is appalled and stunned. At this point, readers question the credibility of this. Fletcher bets Edison he can't do it, but if he does, the nutrition freak will eat an entire chocolate cake in one sitting.
Lack of credibility of certain events and behaviors continue. This is explained at the end. They agree, or rather Pandora decides she and Edison will subsist on a liquid protein diet for the first four months, some protei concoction four times a day. The goal is for Edison to lose 223 pounds. While that strains credibility, the liquid diet sounds quite dangerous.
Edison is an agony at the outset, but adjusts and excels even after they resume solid food. He becomes more active, eventually turning to bike riding and working at Pandora's factory and making friends, i.e., resuming a normal life. The problem here is that Pandora begins to lose too much weight and feel ill. This is corrected. At one point months in, Fletcher quietly asks for a divorce and the question is left hanging.
The year passes and Edison makes it. A big "Coming of Size" party is held, and Fletcher honors his promise and shows up to eat crow--chocolate cake in this case. It looks like Pandora and Fletcher will get back together. At this point the narrative takes a hard, even bizarre turn. But I think Shriver pulls it off. Any more would be spoiler.
Perhaps the best line is Shriver quoting from eatingdisorderfoundation.org -- "The dieting industry is the only profitable business in the world with a 98 percent failure rate."
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After about one quarter of the book, the story became so intense that I put it down deliberately for a later reading, or it would have affected me so much that it would have affected my work performance. I kid you not. As for the ending: I can relate to the fact that many readers would yell in outrage because of the "twist" as several reviewers called it. However, if upon reading Shriver's autobiographical remarks at the end, her choice of such an ending not only made sense to me but broke my heart twice.
I definitely came out of this experience, and I am deliberately calling it this way - a lot more conscious of my own and our society's eating habits as well as our cruel beauty standards. I know I will read this novel again and again, but with long intervals in between.
Shriver shines a light to a pertinent subject that's been concealed in today's society.
Caught myself cheering till the end!








