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Body Talk: How to Embrace Your Body and Start Living Your Best Life Hardcover – Illustrated, May 25, 2021
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“Brilliant, hilarious, adorably illustrated.”—Goop
Can you imagine how much free time you’d have if you didn’t spend so much of it body shaming yourself? Katie Sturino knows all too well what it’s like to shit talk yourself. She spent thirty years of her life feeling ashamed of her body and its self-determined wrongness. Now she doesn’t care what anyone thinks of her; she only cares that she’s happy and comfortable with herself. Body positivity and size inclusivity is still a relatively new phenomenon, but Sturino has dedicated her life to unlearning all that beauty standard BS and uses her blog, Instagram, podcast, and non-toxic, solution-oriented beauty products to share the message that changed her life: YOUR BODY IS NOT THE PROBLEM.
With Body Talk, an illustrated guide-meets-workbook, Sturino is here to help you stop obsessing about your body issues, focus on self-love, and free up space in your brain for creative and productive energy. Complete with empowering affirmations, relatable anecdotes, and actionable takeaways, as well as space to answer prompts and jot down feelings and inspirations, Body Talk encourages you to spend less time thinking about how you look and what you eat and more time discovering your inner fierceness.
- Print length208 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherClarkson Potter
- Publication dateMay 25, 2021
- Dimensions6.73 x 0.85 x 8.76 inches
- ISBN-100593232127
- ISBN-13978-0593232125
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This book is for everyone who’s tired of thinking about their so-called body issues, whatever those may be. It’s for anyone who’d much rather move on with her day and have a good life! |
We’ll talk about how much time and brain space we waste thinking negative thoughts about ourselves, brainstorm all sorts of more fun ways to spend that time and energy, and learn to tune in to internal monologues so we can start being kinder to ourselves. |
We’ll learn to take action against the external and internal forces that make us feel ashamed about our body. We’ll talk about shame a lot throughout this book and get really good at giving it the finger. |
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No matter your relationship with your physical being, you are powerful, unstoppable, fun, and worthy of love. This book is here to help reinforce the message that all those things are already inside you. |
By the end of this book, I am confident that you will be able to recognize the power that’s always resided within you. We will figure out what to DO with it, which is super fun because I’ll basically act like the Cool Grandparent and say “WHATEVER YOU WANT!” |
Just remember: You don’t have to wait until you reach a goal weight. This book is for YOU and it is ABOUT you. And when you finish, pass the message on and move forward with your life. |
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“. . . as impactful as Body Talk can be for young girls and those first learning about their bodies, Sturino wrote the book for all women, regardless of shape, size, age, or experience.”—Forbes
“Sturino strives to change societal body acceptance with introspective exercises and actionable takeaways.”—Coveteur
“. . . a journey of self-acceptance and deprogramming . . .”—Glossy
“. . . shame-free, fun, cheerful, and no-nonsense . . .”—Bustle
“Body Talk should be required reading for men [and] women.”—Cup of Jo
“. . . within its colorful pages and the vibrant illustrations and positive affirmations . . . you’ll find an earnest message to women: your body is not the problem, and you are inherently worthy of love.”—Motherly
“. . . a self-help guide about getting over negativity from outside cultural forces . . .”—WWD
“[Body Talk] is a bar of body acceptance that . . . feels accessible.”—Vogue
“Katie Sturino’s body acceptance manifesto is the must-read book of the summer.”—NewBeauty
About the Author
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Until I went to kindergarten, I was encouraged to “eat up” and grow big and strong. I was barely aware of my body beyond its most basic elements (head, shoulders, knees, and toes, knees and toes). So long as I could run around barefoot in my fish-printed swimsuit and cartwheel for hours on the front lawn, I was happy. My body was just along for whatever ride I wanted to go on.
I started to become aware of my body, its bigness, and the so-called problem with its bigness only when others began pointing it out to me. At five years old, I was voted “Heaviest Kid” in class after my peers and I were weighed (literally weighed, like on a scale in front of everyone) in part of some sort of deranged school-superlative activity. That same year, my gymnastics coach told my mom I was too big for the sport. When I was seven, my doctor put me on a diet.
At age nine, I had to wear my soccer coach’s jersey during games because the uniform company didn’t make my size—which, in terms of humiliation level, is the wearable athletic equipment equivalent of accidentally calling a teacher “Mommy” in front of the whole class. My elderly female neighbor commented on my “developing figure” when I was ten. A year later, the boys in my class began commenting on it, too.
It was disorienting to learn that I didn’t just have a body—in the eyes of others, I WAS my body.
It defined me. It was even more disorienting to learn that my body (and therefore I) wasn’t considered the “right” size or shape. Shame began eating away at my confidence as I began to realize my body wasn’t considered normal, and in one way or another, it was being judged.
I’ve always felt like the biggest person in the room. I felt ashamed of that fact until I was thirty-three. Growing up (in Wisconsin—go Badgers!), I had plenty of wonderful, supportive people in my life. I am lucky to have parents who raised me with the kindness, enthusiasm, love, and care one might typically bestow upon a baby rescue animal before releasing it into the wild. But a lot of people in my life—phenomenal humans that they were and are—unintentionally reinforced the very insecurities I was developing. For all the love and wisdom I received, no one ever said to me, “Your size does not determine your worth” or “When you grow up, you do not have to look like the women you see on TV to be successful.” No one said, “You’re just a kid” or even “What matters is who you are, not what size you are.”
It’s no one’s fault they didn’t say these things to me. I blame long-standing Societal Beauty Standards, but that’s another story for another page (page 137, to be exact). And while I can’t help but think about how different my relationship with my own body growing up would have been if someone had just said, “There is nothing wrong with you,” in 2015, I learned to say it to myself. And then everything changed.
My life used to revolve around three different worlds: my clients, my ex-husband, and my dogs. I ran my own public relations company, where my daily goal was to uplift and champion my clients. In my off-hours, however, I rarely uplifted or championed myself. Because my self-esteem was so low, and I was used to it being so low, I found it a lot safer to raise everyone else’s star instead of mine. Though I ran my own business, promoting my then-husband’s burgeoning career took priority and the majority of my focus. And my beloved dog, Toast, who is no longer with us but will forever bark at the doorbell of my heart—well, she was a canine celebrity, which made me her manager, or her dogager, as I called myself ( . . . as a joke, but also I was dead serious).
A big part of Toast’s career was dedicated to animal rescue. Through her Instagram account, media presence, and event appearances, Toast helped to raise awareness about the horrors of puppy mills and encouraged animal lovers to “adopt, don’t shop.” Whenever people would say to me “What you do for animals is so amazing,” I’d correct them: “Well, it’s all Toast.” It was all Toast! After all, people didn’t show up to charity events to see me. I wasn’t the cute rescue Cavalier King Charles Spaniel with a silky chestnut coat, no teeth, the disposition of a calm angel, and a lovely, permanently lolling tongue! And why would anyone ever want to hear from me, anyway? Even to myself, I was no one.
My self-perception began to shift shortly after I accompanied Toast to a video shoot for a fashion blog called Man Repeller. As usual, Toast was there to be an adorable, front-and-center star.
I was there to manage (dogage) her affairs behind the scenes. While watching Toast do her thing, I got to talking with a woman named Amelia Diamond, a writer for Man Repeller at the time (who has since become a lifelong friend—aw!). We bonded right away because of our shared sense of humor and mutual recognition that we have identical foreheads. There was such an immediate comfort between us that I allowed myself to push out a small, secret wish (did you think I was about to say “fart”?): I told her that I wanted to be photographed for the site. Me! A woman who had never fit into her chosen industry, literally and metaphorically—who never felt she could “pull off” certain styles she always secretly wanted to try.
When you’re used to pushing for the success of others but never for yourself, you almost can’t believe it when you do take a flier, promote yourself, and receive back a giant “Yes!” like the one Amelia gave me. After it registered that she had in fact said yes, my internal reaction was “What have I done?” I had to actually be photographed? In clothes? With my rolls and chub and jiggle and flub threatening to ruin the shoot?
I was so uncomfortable in front of the camera on the day of—“Do I have a double chin? Do I look like I don’t belong? Do I look enormous? What about now? Now do I have a double chin???”— that the team had to distract me with tactics usually reserved for crying toddlers on Santa’s lap. I felt like a clumsy bear in a tutu. But when the article was published, the comments told a different story. Readers were thrilled to see a body that looked like mine. A body that looked like theirs! In cool clothes!! On a fashion blog that I had long read for my own style inspiration!!! It was my big aha moment, my “Eureka!” A switch flipped and the light turned on: My body was not, and is not, the problem.
My body was NOT, and is NOT, the PROBLEM?! Holy. Shit.
That realization, paired with the commenters’ enthusiasm, gave me the courage I needed to launch an Instagram account that would pass the message on to other women. I called it The 12ish Style because I wore a size 12-ish at the time, but I had no idea that as my weight began to rise, I’d learn to accept my body as I never had before and would eventually speak about body acceptance
of all kinds to an audience of women who came in all shapes and sizes. Shortly after the Instagram account began taking off, I created a blog to give myself more room to dive deeper into the topics I cared about. Writing about how hard it was to find cool jeans that fit me led me to larger conversations about the lack of size representation in fashion, retail, the media, and pop culture. The deeper I dove, the louder my new internal mantra became: MY BODY IS NOT THE PROBLEM.
Product details
- Publisher : Clarkson Potter; Illustrated edition (May 25, 2021)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 208 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0593232127
- ISBN-13 : 978-0593232125
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions : 6.73 x 0.85 x 8.76 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #59,545 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #473 in Self-Esteem (Books)
- #1,464 in Motivational Self-Help (Books)
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Katie Sturino is an entrepreneur, body acceptance advocate and digital influencer. She uses her voice and personal style to raise awareness for size inclusivity and to empower women of all sizes. Katie is also the founder of Megababe, an innovative beauty brand offering problem-solving products to help women feel more comfortable and confident in their own skin.
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Here there is such an empathetic view on the bully talk we have about our bodies, how to transform it, one baby step at a time. I love the exercises and her approach to them. There are so many self help books out there that are imperative about doing the exercise right now, I adored how relaxed she was about them, always reassuring you to do it all in your time.
The whole book is like an older sister talk on how to be and do what is comfortable for yourself. I believe all women who know they have negative self talk or have felt they've given their power away should have this book close.
Bottom line, quit reading this review and buy the book immediately!
Katie Sturino, the author, is very open about her experiences as a tall child, who stood out from her peers at an early age for reasons unrelated to weight, as well as her experiences as a heavy teen and adult. She relates her family’s comments, her emotional response at the time, and the journey she took to reach her current state of acceptance of herself as she is - and then makes suggestions for readers to help them to that same level of acceptance.
She covers the mental health issues that occur with body shaming, as well as the general focus on appearance that pervades our society, but in discussing her weight, she never once addresses any physical health issues that may come from either excessive weight control or being overweight. Those who are looking for those discussions will need to look elsewhere. Those who are looking for someone who understands how it feels to be body shamed and not accepted based on appearance from an early age will recognize themselves in Sturino’s writing, and many will benefit from the acceptance exercises she includes. Those who are looking for tips for how to be physically healthy at any weight will not find them here; this book is purely about accepting oneself as one is, and nothing else.
Her message and delivery really helped flip the switch for me for a variety of things. Her book is well written - like talking to your best friend - it’s colorful and fun!! She is direct and you can expect to have some A-Ha moments. The optional worksheet pages are meaningful and thought provoking !! I’ve texted all my friends to get this book !!
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Katie’s natural humour, her strong voice and no nonsense writing style shone a light into my heart the way dusting off a dirty window suddenly brightens the whole room.
This is the book equivalent to everything I wish I had been told as a child, a teen and basically this morning. “My body was not and is not the problem.” “You are inherently worthy of love”.
In an easy to read, entertaining and stimulating format.
I stopped listening to my “mascot” when I was 6. I look forward to embracing her again and using all of the time I wasted hating myself to accomplish what I know I’m capable of.
It's a short read, but I like that because it doesn't feel repetitive (I find books in this space sometimes can be). It gives you some tangible and incredibly helpful exercises to work through, some of which I now use on the daily! Highly recommend for anyone experiencing body image struggles... (who doesn't mind profanity!)
I personally love The author and this book has just blown my expectations!!!



















