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Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex
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The best-selling author of Stiff turns her outrageous curiosity and infectious wit on the most alluring scientific subject of all: sex.
The study of sexual physiology―what happens, and why, and how to make it happen better―has been a paying career or a diverting sideline for scientists as far-ranging as Leonardo da Vinci and James Watson. The research has taken place behind the closed doors of laboratories, brothels, MRI centers, pig farms, sex-toy R&D labs, and Alfred Kinsey’s attic. Mary Roach, “the funniest science writer in the country” (Burkhard Bilger of The New Yorker), devoted the past two years to stepping behind those doors. Can a person think herself to orgasm? Can a dead man get an erection? Is vaginal orgasm a myth? Why doesn’t Viagra help women―or, for that matter, pandas? In Bonk, Roach shows us how and why sexual arousal and orgasm, two of the most complex, delightful, and amazing scientific phenomena on earth, can be so hard to achieve and what science is doing to slowly make the bedroom a more satisfying place.- ISBN-100393064646
- ISBN-13978-0310278399
- PublisherW. W. Norton & Co.
- Publication dateMarch 17, 2008
- LanguageEnglish
- Dimensions5.9 x 1.1 x 8.6 inches
- Print length320 pages
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- Publisher : W. W. Norton & Co. (March 17, 2008)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 320 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0393064646
- ISBN-13 : 978-0310278399
- Item Weight : 1.04 pounds
- Dimensions : 5.9 x 1.1 x 8.6 inches
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Mary Roach is the author of Grunt: The Curious Science of Humans at War, Packing for Mars: The Curious Science of Life in the Void, Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex, Spook: Science Tackles the Afterlife, and Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers. Her writing has appeared in Outside, Wired, National Geographic, and the New York Times Magazine, among others. She lives in Oakland, California.
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Roach presents a wide variety of studies from famous early scholars like Kinsey and Masters & Johnson to obscure present-day scientists like the Egyptian researcher who has to find prostitutes to have intercourse with inflated condoms in order to study nerve reflexes in the female nether regions. Sometimes, the research involves animals, as in the case of researchers trying to determine whether the female orgasm draws semen up further toward the fallopian tubes by studying pigs, or studies of mating rituals of monkeys and how they compare and contrast to those of humans. Though most often the studies are human-centric and ask questions such as: why do a few women orgasm with excessive (and, unfortunately, embarrassing) ease, while too many others have difficulty achieving that result at all? And, why aren’t sex toys better designed to achieve their objective?
I give Roach bonus points on a couple grounds. First, there is the plentiful combination of humor and fun facts that make the book extremely readable. Second, Roach takes some personal risk when, for example, taking part in an imaging study with her husband that involved intimacy in an MRI. That is not even to mention the many things she must have seen that she can never unsee on her global tour that took her to places like Taiwan and Egypt as well as to conventions and research parks across the US.
It should be pointed out that there are important and serious topics being addressed by the science in the book, issues like: erectile dysfunction, sexual dissatisfaction (and its adverse effects upon relationships), and fertility difficulties. So, it’s not all jokes and quirky facts. Solutions to problems (surgical, pharmaceutical, and even psychological) are discussed, though there is a lot of basic science to consider as well. (For the less scientifically-oriented, basic science is that which doesn’t have a specific objective, but is rather to enhance understanding so that further down the road economically and practically viable solutions can be achieved. The lack of specific objective means this type of science can be particularly tricky to get funded. It also makes for some of the more amusing anecdotes because – unlike painful issues of persistent genital arousal disorder or erectile dysfunction – its easier to form jokes about penis cameras and romancing a sow.)
The book consists of fifteen chapters. As is common in Roach’s book, there’s not an obvious organizational schema – except the first chapter which is a bit more general and the last which answers the old question, “who has more fun, and why?” [except the answer isn’t “blondes or redheads” but rather heterosexual or homosexual couples.] That said, there is a grouping of male genitalia (ch. 6-8) versus female genitalia (ch. 9-12) studies. There are some photos (not particularly graphic) as well as endnotes and references.
I found this book to be fascinating and highly readable, and would recommend it for anyone with an interest in anatomy and physiology, or in sex for that matter.
"Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex" is the witty, and sometimes hilarious scientific look at sex. Mary Roach the accomplished science writer takes us on an interesting ride of sexual physiology. This 320-page book is composed of fifteen chapters.
Positives:
1. It's funny, witty, hilarious, sometimes uncomfortable but always fascinating.
2. Science and sex...it's a match made in heaven.
3. Mary Roach, oh my science gets immersed in this project.
4. It answers some of the most curious questions about sex.
5. The always fascinating look at the history of sex...as only Mary Roach can illustrate.
6. So how do porcupines have sex? Find out...
7. A book about sex must include Alfred Kinsey.
8. Funny quotes that make sense. Consider, "Whatever ails you pretty much stops ailing you during really hot sex." I'm cured.
9. Masters and Johnson's impact on the scientific study of sex. I know even their names are funny.
10. Find out the scientific equal to the term "frigid."
11. Some of the ridiculous yet amusing theories of sex.
12. What books made the religious prohibited list? Find out...
13. The "erotic zone..." ok enough said.
14. Practical artificial insemination...no for real.
15. The release of oxytocin, the "joy hormone".
16. The curious sex lives of animals.
17. The sterility curse...
18. The biological advantage of masturbating. You read that correctly.
19. The "impotence trial". That alone was worth the book, trust me.
20. The things we'll try for a flagging libido. They're grrrreat...read the book you'll get this joke later.
21. Note to self, never tick off a Thai wife.
22. The difference between a woman's arousal and men.
23. Interesting tidbits abound in this book.
24. Male orgasms and their link to life span.
25. The brain as the ultimate sexual weapon.
26. The FDA is not concerned with sexual behavior as a side effect. Hard to understand why?
27. Women's turn on list...now do you believe me it's a must read.
28. Interesting book from cover to cover, and even under the covers.
Negatives:
1. The links did not work for the Kindle. It's a shame considering that a lot of the most amusing comments were in the footnotes.
2. Not a cohesive book. Random topics but interesting nonetheless.
3. Some of the jokes are uncomfortable to say the least.
4. This book merited illustrations or diagrams.
5. It's more entertaining than educational.
6. Mary Roach is front and center involved in this project. If you are looking for a hands off approach or a third person account. This is not it.
In summary, "Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex" is an entertaining and at times very funny look at sex. Mary Roach goes out on this journey for sexual education and in the mean time entertains us all. I enjoyed the book, it's not a scholarly effort but one intended to entertain and along the way teach us a thing or two about sex as only Mary Roach knows.
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Well researched itself, the author delves without embarrassment into the strange, sometimes devious and single minded focus of the famous, the infamous and some of the lesser known researchers into the physical and mental problems of sex and its enjoyment.
Along the way you'll discover a lot of 'facts' you either didn't know or have heard secondhand. You'll learn the truth about some of the real problems sex researchers have faced in their search for the 'truth' about orgasm and why we will do, almost, anything to get to it. You'll discover things about sex enhancement 'tools' that will surprise you as much as they shocked the author. In all your eyes will be opened to details of human sexuality that you would never have imagined.
You'll also find summations of areas of conflicting research which will confound some myths. For example does the fabled G spot really exist, and what have sex researchers done to find it? By putting the salient points of the variety of sex research into one book the author gives you a clearer understanding of what really makes us 'tick' sexually.
This is more than just a book about sex research. You'll learn a lot about the human sex drive (and animal too) and how, why and what turns people on. You'll come out of it better educated about sex and all its ramifications. You might even learn something about yourself and your partner. It may even encourage you to explore areas of sexual behaviour that you might not have considered.
If you're considering the Kindle edition, which I read, you might like to note that the chapter illustrations appear before the footnotes of the previous chapter. Also the footnotes are poorly formatted and run into one another. Capitalisation is also poor throughout the book, as is the text formatting. This didn't stop it being a good read, however!







