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Brave Talk: Building Resilient Relationships in the Face of Conflict Paperback – Illustrated, September 22, 2020
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When we disagree about fundamental issues, especially issues such as politics or religion, it can be incredibly difficult to maintain close interpersonal relationships. These differences have ended friendships and caused rifts in families. We need a tool to help us build more resilient relationships despite real and present differences. In Brave Talk, communications expert Melody Stanford Martin offers just such a tool: impasse. By learning to treat every conflict as if it's an impasse and temporarily suspend our desire to resolve differences, we make space for deeper understanding and stronger ties.
Brave Talk offers hands-on skill-building in critical thinking, power sharing, and rhetoric. Combining real-life storytelling, engaging illustrations, and rigorous academic sources, this book blends humor, creativity, and interactive learning to help everyday people develop better skills for navigating conflict in order to build stronger relationships and healthier communities.
- Print length300 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherBroadleaf Books
- Publication dateSeptember 22, 2020
- Dimensions5.75 x 0.75 x 8.75 inches
- ISBN-101506462448
- ISBN-13978-1506462448
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Melody Standford Martin's Brave Talk explores a paradoxical set of questions:
- How do we care for each other while we navigate impasse?
- How do we honor the complexities of difference while keeping a firm grasp on the dreams and values we do share?
- How do we transform the animosity of impasse into resilient relationships that are the bedrock of community?
An Inside Look at Brave Talk: Building Resilient Relationships in the Face of Conflict
Excerpt from the Introduction
The answer is changing our relationship with conflict itself. It means learning skills of healthy disagreement. It means that we can hold fast to our convictions while allowing others to sharpen us and our ideas. And it means engaging impasse in ways that help us truly see each other and let ourselves be seen. This is how we reclaim our society: we build resilient relationships that can handle the weight of conflict.
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"Its work is hopeful and empowering. Re-envisioning conflict with care Brave Talk is a self-help book that flips the script to improve challenging situations." --Foreword Reviews
"Insightful debut" --Publishers Weekly
"In Brave Talk Melody Stanford Martin has done what no one has done before: challenged some of the most basic, widely held assumptions about conflict and how to address it. Anyone who experiences a deep divide will benefit enormously from this book." --Dr. Donna Hicks, associate at the Weatherhead Center for International Affairs, Harvard University; author of Dignity: Its Essential Role in Resolving Conflict and Leading with Dignity
"Brave Talk is one of the most honest, imaginative, insightful, relationally focused, and comprehensive books in the field of engaging difficult conversations and conflict transformation. This is a book everyone should read, ideally in community." --Tom Porter, mediator, lawyer, minister, and teacher of conflict transformation at Boston University School of Theology
"Brave Talk is a book for our time. With her personal experience and expertise, Melody Stanford Martin writes with both rigorous analysis and deep compassion and shows how it is possible to reach a point of empathy and understanding, even in deep-rooted conflicts." --Diana Francis, peace activist and former president of the International Fellowship of Reconciliation
"In a time when divisions threaten not only our country but our very families, we need a new approach to dealing with conflict. Brave Talk is that new approach. Martin tackles the topic of interpersonal conflict with humor, practical suggestions, and profound insight. A must-read!" --Lindsay James, Iowa State Representative
"Brave Talk by Melody Stanford Martin is an amazing achievement--a book on conflict that is actually fun to read while also grounded in solid research." --Steven J. Sandage, PhD, LP, Albert and Jessie Danielsen Professor of Psychology of Religion and Theology, Boston University School of Theology, Research Director and Senior Staff Psychologist, Albert & Jessie Danielsen Institute
About the Author
Melody Stanford Martin is a social ethicist and communications expert helping people of all ages develop skills of courageous dialogue and conflict transformation. She is the Founder and CEO of Cambridge Creative Group, an organization specializing in nonprofit messaging and outreach, and a founding co-host of Irenicast, a podcast on faith and culture. She is a graduate of the Religion and Conflict Transformation program at Boston University School of Theology. Stanford Martin lives in Portland, Maine, with her husband, Corey, and their dog, Benedict Cumberbatch.
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- Publisher : Broadleaf Books; Illustrated edition (September 22, 2020)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 300 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1506462448
- ISBN-13 : 978-1506462448
- Item Weight : 14.4 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.75 x 0.75 x 8.75 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #910,007 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #300 in Business Conflict Resolution & Mediation (Books)
- #1,195 in Violence in Society (Books)
- #3,090 in Communication & Social Skills (Books)
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About the author

Melody Stanford Martin is a social ethicist and communications expert helping people of all ages develop skills of courageous dialogue and conflict transformation. She is the Founder and CEO of Cambridge Creative Group, an organization specializing in nonprofit messaging and outreach, and a founding co-host of Irenicast, a podcast on faith and culture. She is a graduate of the Religion and Conflict Transformation program at Boston University School of Theology. Martin lives in Cambridge, Massachusetts, with her husband, Corey, and their dog, Benedict Cumberbatch. Find out more at bravetalkproject.com.
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Ms. Stanford Martin argues powerfully that by embracing conflict, we build stronger, more resilient relationships, and in turn stronger societies. In this broken time, she wants to put us back together. This work is for individuals as well as groups, and requires an investment of time. But it’s an investment that could well pay off by saving us from ourselves.
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Ms. Stanford Martin argues powerfully that by embracing conflict, we build stronger, more resilient relationships, and in turn stronger societies. In this broken time, she wants to put us back together. This work is for individuals as well as groups, and requires an investment of time. But it’s an investment that could well pay off by saving us from ourselves.
Packed with a multitude of tips and skills, along with entertaining illustrations, Stanford Martin equips with principles and terms that can become a rich part of your life and help navigate tough communication roadblocks. This is a treasure trove of extraordinary wisdom and understanding, and those who dig into Brave Talk will have no reason to be intimidated by impasse in the future. This book should be required for every college and high school student! Highly recommend!!
It really is a unique topic that we all experience and only talk about using humor so to look at it actively and with others was beneficial and eye opening. It certainly made my own outlook more empathetic and long term focused. We had some very insightful conversations on subjects that honestly I don’t think would have ever come up in a book club discussion.







