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Breakthrough: Transforming Fear Into Compassion - A New Perspective on the Israel-Palestine Conflict Paperback – November 9, 2010

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After more than sixty years, the Israel-Palestinian issue is as intractable as ever. Groups and individuals on either side reflexively point to the other as the cause of conflict. Blame and intense emotion permeate virtually any discussion of the subject. In this book, Richard Forer explains that no action occurs in a vacuum, that we all play roles in the suffering of others and that only an honest intention to discover the history for ourselves can alleviate the suffering. Through meticulous research Forer examines and reframes the most common and misunderstood arguments on both sides of the conflict. He shows that the real enemy is the unexamined mind that projects its suffering onto the other. Though not a religious Jew, Forer had been a loyal defender of Israeli policy all his life and zealously supported Israel s 2006 invasion of Lebanon. In response to what he perceived as growing global anti-Semitism, he became a member of AIPAC, the American Israel Public Affairs Committee. Angry that two of his most trusted friends resisted his views, and surprised that a long-time Jewish friend would suggest that his opinions were not as factually based as he assumed, Forer began an intensive study of the history of the Israel-Palestine conflict, determined to discover the facts for himself. With an uncompromising commitment to the truth, he went far beyond his original intention, even challenging his very identity. Reaching into the depths of himself, in a remarkable moment he underwent a spontaneous spiritual transformation in which he awoke to his true identity, beyond the limits of the ego and its enforced loyalties. Feeling how his attachment to Israel had blinded him to the human dimension of the conflict and had led him to reject the other in a heartless way, Forer realized that the true root of conflict is one's presumed identity and the beliefs and images that emanate from and reinforce that identity, and that these presumptions are false and unnecessary. He discovered that in Truth we are all Muslim and Jewish, Palestinian and Israeli. Forer had recognized the heart of Judaism, which embraces the Universal and identifies with all of humanity.

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Definitely Worth the Read! A Book of Startling Depth and Impact. This is without question an important book. It is both a fascinating account of one man s journey from ignorance and fear to knowledge and compassion, as well as a meticulous documentation of the principle facts of the Israel-Palestine conflict. It is very well written and carries the reader along effortlessly (if not frighteningly so as the book proceeds into the darker realms of Israel s policies in the Occupied Territories). I am not sure how this book will affect the reader who is a staunch supporter of Israel. From my experience, such people are usually immune to taking a hard look at what Israel is doing. However, if any book can persuade them, then I think this book has the best chance. Because Forer never writes academically, but always brings the discussion back to himself and what he underwent and the blind spots he had before his transformation, the narrative helps the reader to also begin to look and feel the real dimensions of the conflict both the external historical conflict, and the internal personal conflict. There is one part of this book that deserves further comment because it is totally unique. It appears that when Forer made a commitment to discover the truth of the Israel-Palestine conflict, his actual intention was rather modest. He embarked on a research project into the real documentation of the history of the conflict. He simply got some of the better books on the conflict, sat down and read them and meticulously checked their sources and general veracity. Such research was not a small task, but, nevertheless, not dissimilar to what others have done. Essentially, he was after the truth with a small t. But what happened to him was something quite extraordinary. Because the information he was discovering was so contrary to what he had held true and so challenged his identity, which was locked with Israel, he underwent a crisis in consciousness that undermined completely the limitations of his presumed identity, so that he awoke to what he is in Truth. The transformation that Forer talks about is a spiritual one. He discovered Truth with a capital T. There exist other accounts of somewhat similar crises of identity that ended with a spiritual breakthrough; however, I am not aware of any that have occurred in the context of what began as a political issue, or, more precisely, the search for truth in a political context. Thus, I think this book adds to the history of man s spiritual evolution. Forer treads lightly when he discusses the ultimate implications of what he underwent. Indeed, the chapter where he explores the subject is in an addendum at the end of the book. Perhaps he felt that the average reader would not have much familiarity with or sympathy for the spiritual dimensions of his transformation. That chapter should not be missed, however. It is short but remarkably cogent, and sheds considerable light on the real journey to humanity that awaits every one of us. It is a beautiful vision of life lived in Truth and full of compassion. --Tony Sandford, Legal Consultant and Publisher

Ever wonder what goes on inside the head of a Zionist? Anyone who is concerned about the Palestine-Israel conflict, about the Middle East, who has heard about the influence of the Zionist lobby on US politics, has probably wondered why so many people support Israel unconditionally. And if the way to achieve peace in the Middle East is to convince people who think Israel can do no wrong to take a hard look at the facts, to convince them to learn what happened during the bloody formation of Israel, to make them see what is still happening to the Palestinian people today, you might want to know what makes a Zionist tick. Richard Forer is one of those people who is very reflective, very self analytical. In telling the story of how he himself went from being a die hard supporter of Israel, from someone raised in a Reform Jewish household who saw Israel as that plucky little democracy trying to provide a secure home for the long-beleaguered Jews, to someone who now supports the Palestinians in their struggle for justice, he provides us with an inside look into the mind of a Zionist -- his own -- and how being confronted with the more grim reality changed his mind. Forer may have had in mind as one of his main audiences Jews like himself, or rather, like he was, whose uncritical loyalty to Israel has come to be a liability for Israel, since the rest of the world is slowly but surely learning the truth about Israel. But the book goes beyond that. As someone who has followed the Palestinian struggle myself for several years now, I have come across many stories of the different tragedies that happened to the Palestinians, the massacres, the dispossessions, the theft of water resources, the home demolitions, and the different propaganda techniques Israel and its supporters use to cover up Israel's actions, to divert attention, to delay the peace process while more Israeli settlements are built and more land is confiscated. In Forer's book I have found a concise and inclusive account of all it. In describing the succession of injustices done to the Palestinians, he provides a comprehensive history of the formation of Israel, and a vivid description of the Palestinians plight up to the current moment. It's all here in one place. In laying out this story, in explaining the deep, emotionally rooted motivations behind Zionism, in explaining how Israeli propaganda works, Forer actually points the way toward a resolution. But as part of that resolution, Zionism and its myths must be confronted, and here are the all facts you'd need to counter any Zionist's argument. It's the best argument against Zionism I have ever read. --Frank Conway, Bubba Muntzer Blog

It is difficult to overestimate the emotional attachment of American Jews to the State of Israel, Anna Baltzer writes in her Forward. Zionism, in the words of Baby Boomers like Jewish psychologist and author Mark Braverman, has been mother s milk to Jews in the United States and around the world. Unconditional support for Israel is not so much an intellectual choice as a deeply rooted component of Jewish identity. Indeed, in many Jewish circles today it has become more important to believe in Israel than to believe in God. Criticism of Israel feels like a personal attack, a challenge not of a state but of who we are. In my opinion, Breakthrough is a major contribution to the creation of genuine peace between Israel and the Arab population in the Occupied Territories of the West Bank and Gaza because it directly explores the emotional issues that block peace and prevents people from seeing. Where a man cannot look, Forer writes, he cannot feel; and where a man cannot feel, he has not really looked. Without both he will never understand. Without understanding there will never be peace. Forer does a masterful job of deconstructing denial with example after example of naked and incontrovertible facts. . . . Where people . . . do not want to see, Forer deconstructs their arguments so they must look away not to see. Denial is a powerful mechanism of defense. . . . Hope is something we will never give up, says Ali, a young Palestinian college student the author interviewed. My people want the world community to give us more support. They don t have to be pro-Palestinian; they just need to be pro-human rights. We don t want to replace or be replaced, and we don t want to treat the Israelis the way they treat us. We just want peace and equality. There are many books that detail Israel s . . . treatment of the Palestinians, the author wrote to me in a recent email. I think my book s strength in that regard is the logic I bring to it, how I show that the arguments that Israel s defenders make are projections [that] should be applied to Israel far more than to the Palestinians. The primary contribution of [the] book . . . is the deconstructing of the mind that creates a world of internal oppression and then projects it out into the world onto appropriate scapegoats . . . who become objects of blame. Equally primary is [the] suggestion that the root problem is a spiritual one, of identity, more so than land or religion as the root cause. If people can begin to intuit their connection to all beings and to life my book will have been effective. I agree. Once we are able to intuit our connection to all beings and to life itself, there will be no need to engage in persecution and war. And isn t that the real end we seek in this so far endless conflict? --George Polley, Palestine Chronicle

About the Author

Richard Forer was born in Trenton New Jersey in 1948. His father was an attorney and his uncle, Joseph Forer, a noted civil rights litigator and lead attorney with the National Lawyers Guild. His younger brother is an attorney and former President of one of the largest Reform synagogues on the East coast and his identical twin brother is a prominent member of an Ultra-Orthodox sect of Judaism. Forer is a practitioner of the Meir Schneider Self-Healing Method, a unique system of healing developed by an Israeli.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Insight Press; First Edition (November 9, 2010)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 371 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0615404588
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0615404585
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.15 pounds
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Reviewed in the United States on August 13, 2011
This book starts off very slow and repetitive, but around 30% of the way through a great book begins. The first chapters are basically reading a person arguing with himself, or trying to argue with or for scholars, which maybe interesting to some, but not to me personally. You can tell the author wrote the book as he was becoming more aware and educated about the situation. His basic arguments at the beginning, are refined and academic but the time the book ends. For a person with no background this may be a dense book, but it flows well enough that a beginner can still enjoy it. The book is more for intermediates, or people who are actively discussing the issue and want a nice handbook on how to discuss the topic from a more academic point of view. His research is well done, cites great books with relative ease, and does a good analysis of these works. At first I was pained to read the book because of its slowness, but after getting 80% through, I am happy I stuck with it until the end. I recommend highly. It is not a generic how to book, nor something so academic that a person without a PHD cannot understand.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 5, 2012
Rich Forer's "Breakthrough" is a masterpiece of research, combining data from many sources and merging it with a humanistic and spiritual viewpoint. I have had the same experiences he has had and the book resonated with me profoundly. It is a book that I wish my family would read so that they would not only gain a true understanding of the Palestine/Israel situation, but perhaps find compassion for "the other" and realize we are one human family.
Forer also includes interviews with a Palestinian refugee and a Jewish woman living in a large settlement who has created a conversation group between Jewish Israelis and W. Bank Palestinians. This was particularly moving because it shows that before she actually met Palestinians, she thought of them as essentially different from Jews. Establishing communication has changed her perception of the entire situation and allowed her to access her compassion.
He also addresses the issue of any Jewish criticism of Israeli policy being called either anti-Semitic or "self-hating". As someone who has been called both, his analysis was excellent.
I have read many,many books since my visit to the W. Bank in 2008, and "Breakthrough" is comprehensive yet incredibly readable.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 12, 2023
Mr. Forer is a great writer and I highly recommend reading this book!
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Reviewed in the United States on February 9, 2011
This extraordinary book is about the wakening into awareness by an American Jew who had never questioned his automatic and reflexive loyalty to Israel, and the wisdom of the standard political rhetoric issued by the government of Israel. He had never doubted the prevailing Israeli myths, repeated frequently in the Jewish diaspora, that Israel is hated around the world and has to struggle daily for its survival against a sea of anti-Semites. Questioning Israel's actions, particularly about the occupation of the West Bank and its treatment of the Palestinians there, and in Gaza, has been regarded by other Jews, both in Israel and in the United States, as disloyal.
To wake up, to question and to learn, thus becomes a kind of heresy. This is a brave, beautiful and generous book. It is brave because the author has risked much to share his story of awakening. He has lost close connections with his family because he no longer holds the correct views about Israel and the Palestinians. To my mind, this is a tragic and unnecessary loss that humans pay in order to be right. This book is deeply grounded in historical fact and impeccably researched.
Forer's awakening began during the summer of 2006 when Israel was involved in the invasion of Lebanon and fought with Hezbollah. Forer was someone who had been deeply loyal to the state of Israel and was terrified as he witnessed the latest war that threatened the country he loved so much. He shared his anxiety with close friends here at home in the US. To his amazement, several friends urged him to get his facts straight. They recommended he read about what was actually going on between Israel and the Palestinians. Forer spent the next several months reading books on the subject by historians that were vetted as to the accuracy of their scholarship. In the midst of this he had an experience that which occurred for him as a tremendous weight being lifted, and which left him with a peaceful heart and compassion for the Israelis as well as the Palestinians.
Although I am neither Jewish nor Israeli, Palestinian or Muslim, I have an abiding interest in this conflict and wish to see it settled one day. I am deeply awed by the transformation Forer has undergone and would love to see this kind of thing happen to more people on both sides, so that both peoples could embrace each other with more understanding.
One of the most interesting gifts of this book is the understanding Forer brings to how Zionism is still at work in the Israeli mind set. Forer believes the Israeli state is "out of control" and "greedy", that it is, in a sense addicted to claiming more land, and that they have abandoned traditional Jewish values. He notes that people who have long been persecuted, like the Jews, will go to any lengths, once freed from oppression, to insure that they are never oppressed again. This may explain why Israel chose to acquire overwhelming military might. The problem is that those who have been powerless before always succumb to the abuses of power when they become strong
And so Forer speculates how tragic it is that Jews, with their horrific experiences in Europe, did not guard against this kind of paradigm. "Who would have thought that the Jewish people would safeguard their future through a movement, Zionism that required the subjugation of another people?" I differ with Forer on this point because to have expected the Israelis to have been conscious of or foreseen the dangers of Zionism and taking power, would be to expect them to have been superhuman. Instead they were ordinary people who went through tremendous trauma over many generations. There was no understanding of trauma and how it gets carried down and re-enacted and carried on into myth in the 18th, 19th and early 20th centuries. To them, in the early twentieth century Zionism looked like a good way to stay safe.
However, now that we do understand these things, societies, as well as traumatized individuals can heal, can wake up and repair their damaged and fractured nations. Indeed, as Forer says, "There are no enemies, only people who have forgotten their common humanity." It's time for everyone involved with this conflict to wake up.
We all have a long way to go in learning that lesson but Forer's book is an important reference tool in learning the curriculum.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 14, 2013
This is a book that should be read by everyone on the planet, particularly those among us with even the slightest interest in the Palestinian/Israeli conflict. A former Zionist himself, Rich Forer took it upon himself to learn the painful realities of what Palestinians face daily living under Israeli occupation, while at the same time acknowledging and understanding the reasons for Jewish fears and mistrust. Rich Forer "gets it", and he shares his journey openly, honestly, and overflowing with love, kindness, and compassion. It is my sincere hope that "Breakthrough" will encourage anyone who reads it to evolve to a place where hatred is no longer an option and peace is an absolute necessity. I highly recommend this book.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 1, 2019
Rich Forer’s book offers hope for a ‘breakthrough’ in building a future of ‘peace-with-justice’ for ALL who share ‘the holy land’, meaning Jews, Arabs and everyone else who cares for this unique part of earth’s geography.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 14, 2013
It is a brilliant and intellectual book beautifully written about an awakening that changed the author's life.
More should be written on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict from the perspective of personal experience.
This true story, 'Awakening' describes the author's journey from an avid Israeli supporter (he is Jewish)
in its occupation of Palestine to an awakening to the reality of cruel occupation and persecution.
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