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The Child Whisperer: The Ultimate Handbook for Raising Happy, Successful, Cooperative Children Kindle Edition

4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars 1,135 ratings

You've been there: feeling helpless, clueless, when a child you love totally bewilders you.

Maybe it's the tantrum at the store, or the hour-long bedtime battle, or the head-scratcher of getting your child to eat veggies. You wonder what on Earth to do, so you get advice, read books, watch videos, ask the internet. And still, something's missing.

You need a plan that addresses your child's needs, not everyone else's. Why couldn't children come with a handbook?

Turns out, children are born with a handbook. They ARE the handbook

In The Child Whisperer, bestselling author Carol Tuttle explains that children tell their parents every day exactly how they need to be parented. They tell their teachers exactly how they need to be taught. Children are trying to tell adults who they are so they can be recognized and treated in a way that honors them uniquely.

The Child Whisperer reveals that the key to raising happy, healthy, cooperative children lies in understanding and responding to a child's inner nature.

Children's true natures are written in the shape of their faces and expressed daily in their appearance, body language, tone of voice, and choice of words. Your child's unique laugh, cry, joys, worries, and even tantrums speak volumes about they type of parenting they need. And you'll learn exactly how to offer it by reading The Child Whisperer.

This simple but unique approach actually makes parenting more intuitive, fun, cooperative, and most importantly customized to your individual child.

The Child Whisperer will give you the tools to:

- Have a happier, more cooperative child, using less discipline
- Foster more confidence and natural success in your child
- Repair trouble parent/teen relationships
- Reconnect with your adult children

The Child Whisperer teaches how to read unsaid clues that children naturally give every day, and shows how parenting, teaching, coaching, and mentoring children can be an even more intuitive, cooperative experience than ever.

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About the Author

Carol Tuttle is a teacher, speaker, gifted healer, and best-selling author of 10 books. As a pioneer in the field of personal development, she has dedicated her life to healing.

Carol helps her readers, fans, and clients improve every aspect of their lives—from money to health, self-esteem and self-image, relationships and parenting, to overall emotional well-being. She has improved millions of people's lives through her books, online learning platforms, and social media channels. She is a regular contributor to top business, health, and wellness sites, including Entrepreneur, Elite Daily, Bustle, Thrive Global, Healthy Living Magazine, She Knows, and Psychology Today.

See how Carol can help you heal and love your life at caroltuttle.com

Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B00A6HR884
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Live Your Truth Press; First Edition (November 20, 2013)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ November 20, 2013
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1023 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 417 pages
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars 1,135 ratings

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Carol Tuttle is a teacher, speaker, gifted healer, and best-selling author of 7 books. As a pioneer in the field of personal development, she has dedicated her life to healing.

Carol helps her readers, fans, and clients improve every aspect of their lives—from money to health, self-esteem and self-image, relationships and parenting, to overall emotional well-being. She has affected millions of people's lives through her books, online learning platforms, and social media channels. She is a regular contributor to top business, health, and wellness sites, including Entrepreneur, Elite Daily, Bustle, Thrive Global, Healthy Living Magazine, She Knows, and Psychology Today.

See how Carol can help you heal and love your life at caroltuttle.com

Customer reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars
1,135 global ratings

Customers say

Customers find the book filled with helpful information and insights. They describe it as good, amazing, and a nice read for new parents. Readers appreciate the wonderful insight on personal traits and personality. They say it's useful at any age and helps tune in to their child. Additionally, they mention it has greatly improved all their relationships and brought a sense of acceptance and joy.

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175 customers mention "Information quality"175 positive0 negative

Customers find the book helpful, insightful, and insightful. They say it helps them understand their child and provides fresh insights into their strengths and flaws. Readers also say the book is an awesome tool to guide any parent who is interested in raising their children. They mention the author gets to the point and communicates these ideas concisely.

"...First, this book has TONS of examples of children's behaviors and interactions with them...." Read more

"...What surprised me most was how it has helped me to understand myself, my value, and my needs. Highly recommend." Read more

"...There are plenty of alternative ideas for parents that want to work with their child's temperament and development rather than against it...." Read more

"...This book will save lives, this knowledge will heal relationships, this concept will restore families!..." Read more

135 customers mention "Readability"127 positive8 negative

Customers find the book good, invaluable, and a great read for educators. They say it's well-written, clear, and easy to read. Readers also mention that everything makes perfect sense and is written to be read quickly and put to use immediately.

"...But this is a nice little read for new parents and those whose babies are just reaching the toddler years but they don't want to go down the hitting..." Read more

"This book is incredible! You will learn so much! Even if your kids are grown and out of the house, or you don’t have kids yet...." Read more

"...Overall the book was okay, I will keep it for the insight to the types but about 70% of the actual parenting advice is no more than"be nice to your..." Read more

"This book is well written and clear. I was able to get through it quickly without being bogged down with wordiness and repetition...." Read more

24 customers mention "Personality insight"24 positive0 negative

Customers find the book provides wonderful insight on personal traits and personality. They say it's invaluable in understanding human dynamics and helps them understand certain attitudes. Readers also mention the insights are amazing and valuable.

"...books I have read, I have never seen such a thorough resource for understanding children's individuality and how to guide them into joyful,..." Read more

"...This book gives insight into children’s different personality and overall energy types, how they interact with the world, and how to interact with..." Read more

"...The 4 types of people chapters are VERY interesting and I couldn't put it down. (I hate reading) I finished it in 4 days...." Read more

"...My husband, parents, siblings and even myself! What a lovely way of viewing all humans...." Read more

18 customers mention "Age range"14 positive4 negative

Customers find the book useful at any age. They say it's helpful in understanding their child long-term, an asset to childrearing or teaching, and provides great tips and resources for parents. Readers also mention the book can be applied to every age level from infants to grown children.

"...children's individuality and how to guide them into joyful, productive adults...." Read more

"...Carol does a masterful job describing the four types and explaining their strengths, weaknesses and needs...." Read more

"...most applicable to those that are really young, but still useful for all age ranges...." Read more

"...While some what informational, this book is wordy, repetitive, and poorly written. The thoughts are disorganized...." Read more

14 customers mention "Peace"14 positive0 negative

Customers find the book helpful for living in harmony with all the people in their lives. They say it brings a sense of acceptance and joy to all their relationships. Readers also mention the book helps reduce arguments and tantrums.

"This book has helped me in many ways. It has greatly improved all my relationships...." Read more

"...It really helps to validate how you feel and have an overall better understanding of people...." Read more

"...the conscious use of it's ideas and will help heal , enliven and create peace throughout all levels of existence...." Read more

"...information I haven't read elsewhere, is relatable, insightful, and humbling...." Read more

8 customers mention "Value for money"5 positive3 negative

Customers have mixed opinions about the value for money of the book. Some mention it's well worth the money, while others say it's a waste of money.

"...For me it was insight gained and well worth the money." Read more

"...This book was a complete waste of money and I would not recommend it for anyone seeking any constructive parenting guidance." Read more

"...Even though I'm not a parent, I got great value from this thoughtful book...." Read more

"...There's a ton of extra's worth the money!" Read more

8 customers mention "Pacing"0 positive8 negative

Customers find the pacing of the book repetitive and short. They say it doesn't meet their needs.

"...While some what informational, this book is wordy, repetitive, and poorly written. The thoughts are disorganized...." Read more

"...Minus one star for what felt like a lot of repetition in the chapters after the profiling ones." Read more

"...3 stars for good ideas, but poor execution." Read more

"...discover the different energy types, only downside is that it was a bit repetitive" Read more

Top reviews from the United States

Reviewed in the United States on October 26, 2012
I have read Carol's other books, and I am a fan of them, however this book has ROCKED MY WORLD! I know a lot about children (both educationally and personally), and I do know about her energy profiling system, and this STILL was an eye-opener.

First, this book has TONS of examples of children's behaviors and interactions with them. There's also practical solutions that honor the very core nature of the child. (Hearing the part for T3's about not having to "do" anything for love and acceptance brought tears to my eyes. (I will be parenting my inner child a little kinder too!)

Second, When I read the section on T4, I just completely understood and LOVED my daughter even more. And, I apologized for the times I have been sarcastic, interrupted, singled-her-out, and shared her funny but embarrassing stories. She said, in such a true to T4 way, "Oh yeah, you had to read a book to GET me?" She made a stink-eye face, and we both laughed. I think this interaction while funny to us, was the start of an even BETTER relationship. Most of the T4 things about my child I had previously learned through trial and error, but I still wasn't really valuing those qualities within her. Now, I GET the WHYs behind the behaviors, and I LOVE them. This book also gives me ways to work WITH her nature to have a better relationship. She also GETS me and my T3 nature a little more. And she can let things "roll off" more too.

This is Carol's best book to date. I hope there will be a handbook for husbands next ;). I know the "It's Just My Nature" book was helpful, but the really specific stories of this current book, blows the others out of the water.

When I was a teacher, this book would have really been valuable to me to know my students nature individually. When I become a grandparent, you can BET I'll be using it! And, when my children have children, this will be something I give to them to help them be the kind of parent they would want to be. Now, I'll just be using it to improve the relationship with my children, and within myself. I am glad that I got the hard copy of the book as well as the ebook, because I will referencing this book frequently.

Just can't say enough good things about this book! (And if you buy it this week on Amazon, there's extras that you can get at the book's website.)
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Reviewed in the United States on March 31, 2013
I've been a Carol Tuttle Follower for over two years absorbing everything on the forums, club nights, facebook groups, blogs, etc.... I love knowing my primary energy (3/2) and applying it to the dynamics of my family and my profession. When the book came out it wasn't totally new info to me. Yet, I love hearing the info over and over from a fresh perspective. This time through the needs of our children.

I had a hard time identifying my son's energy type. By the time I was done reading, no doubt I had a 1, 2, 3 (the husband), and a 4. Not all kids embrace their type. Mine love their types and flaunt it back to me. This book isn't about the dressing your truth course, yet all along my type 4 son preferred black Tee's and bold hair. My generation associates that with goth. He's not goth and he looks great. His intuition was right on and I could let him stick with his black (and purple hair) and know that is what is best for him without forcing more color. I also know he needs his quiet time (he loved when I read him the part about 4's needing electronics, Carol won his affection). I understand he will come to me when he needs me and I know he needs a different type of attention than the other boys.

My type 2 son gravitated to muted colors long before I knew what type 2 was. Again, demonstrating that children can follow their intuition when left to be. He was easiest to type based on his emotions and (slow) detailed, speed.

My type 1 wants to do everything his brothers do. It's not because he's the youngest; it's because he is a Type 1!!! On a recent kayak trip, everything was a game. You paddle, I paddle, now we both paddle together. Now we yodel, echo, climb off on to sandbars. This was so different than taking my type 2 son on a kayak trip... we talk philosophy and wildlife identification. This is where my type 1 flaunted his energy. " I am a "1" and you have to let me have fun!!"

All my boys are normal. I can honor them for who they are. The T2 is never going to be fast paced like his younger brother. I shouldn't expect the younger one to sit for hours like the older ones.

I tell you all this to tell you how this book really helped! I took my three boys to visit their three cousins for a few nights. My sister is a type 2 and her kids have mostly 4 in them. The six kids hadn't seen each other in a long time. Knowing all their types helped us help them get along. We knew who needed down time-- Everyone but my little one!! With intent we divided my little "1's" time between the rest of us to keep him stimulated and give him opportunities to do what everyone else was doing. It really worked out great.

Raising kids is hard. I am glad I have this insight to the different types of energy. The baby phase came easier to me than the teen/tween stage.

I had a barrier to get over with this book. It's the title. I am not keen on the "whisperer" theme. There is a book from an entirely different author on being a baby whisperer. My family is Cesar Milan fans (Dog Whisperer), but the baby book is not a book I recommend in my professional/medical/breastfeeding/attachment parenting world. Fortunately for MY readers and followers the child whisperer has NOTHING to do with the baby whisperer. I also use what I learn in this book to identify my patient's types and understand my practice (sneaky, huh?). I highly recommend this book to my practice (and when you figure out your type and your baby's, I want to know if my haunch was right!).

I would have liked the author to claim her own, Carol Tuttle's Ultimate Handbook for Raising Happy, Successful, and Co-operative Children. Yes! She could have pulled off her name in the title! She is that great!
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Reviewed in the United States on February 3, 2024
This book has helped me in many ways. It has greatly improved all my relationships. It has made a big difference in my ability to be the best parent to my children. What surprised me most was how it has helped me to understand myself, my value, and my needs. Highly recommend.

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Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars A whole new way of seeing and understanding your children!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 30, 2018
This is one of the best and probably the most helpful book I have ever read. The Child Whisperer has helped me understand my children and relate to them in new ways. It has taught me to see their strengths and value what each Type brings to my family. It has also helped me understand other people better, e.g. why they react in a certain way or prioritize different things. This book is amazing! It helps parents and others who work with children connect with them, understand them and "speak their language". A must-read!
Amazon Kunde
5.0 out of 5 stars Großartiges Buch
Reviewed in Germany on December 22, 2018
Wie der Titel schon sagt, geht es um Kindererziehung bzw. die Unterstützung von Kindern bei deren natürlichen Entwicklung, die ihrem jeweiligen Charakter/Energie-Typ entspricht. Das Buch vermittelt einen sehr schönen Zugang zu einer optimalen Eltern-Kind-Beziehung, aber auch interessant für Paarbeziehungen oder um sich selbst besser verstehen zu lernen. Ein absoluter Gewinn!
Patricia Enriquez
4.0 out of 5 stars Good
Reviewed in Mexico on January 23, 2017
Good material for self discovery, the author is quiet clear and beautifully written in honoring the different energy types. I recommend this book.
Anonymous YK
5.0 out of 5 stars changed the way I interact with my kids, for the better!
Reviewed in Canada on October 24, 2016
I've taken Carol's Dress Your Truth course, and read It's Just Your Nature (didn't like that one as much, thought it was too much about her family anecdotes), so I'm familiar with the concepts. This book was the best resource by far, in my opinion, to determine my type and my children's types. I had been confused about my secondary type, and found it, loud and clear, in this book! Well written, concise, with lots of examples. It's an easy read, and super interesting. It's also helped me adjust the way I approach my children (with great results), and made me much more observant, and compassionate, about my own behaviours. I also recommend her online videos and articles - she gives amazing free content, very generous!
AmazonGuru
3.0 out of 5 stars Nice book, with a unique type system.
Reviewed in India on April 24, 2015
Good book, it helps in understanding your child in a better way.
However for indian scenarios, we may have to adapt some practices to suit our culture, styles etc.

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