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Choosing ME Before WE: Every Woman's Guide to Life and Love Paperback – February 1, 2009
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Kimberly Wilson, author of Hip Tranquil Chick
With wit and wisdom, Arylo teaches us how to find the answers about love and relationships inside ourselves. From here we can accomplish our most heartfelt dreams.”
Marcia Wieder, founder and CEO of Dream University®
Christine Arylo offers the tips and tools a woman needs to fall in love with her ultimate soul mate: herself. And from that foundation, she can find a he’ and create a healthy and supportive we.’ Every woman should have Choosing ME before WE on her nightstand.”
Christine Hassler, author of 20 Something, 20 Everything
Top Customer Reviews
Thanks to this book, I finally got off autopilot and realized I'd been living and repeating the same pattern of making bad decisions because I believed I was not worthy enough to have something good. I finally saw that the people, especially the men I was attracted to, I'd been attracting into my life were reflecting how I felt about myself and since I didn't love me, they couldn't love me in the way I needed either. Heck I had left me, so why would anybody else stick around?
Thank you Christine for everything! Thank you for being such an inspiration and for helping countless other women like me to finally understand that validation and acceptance must come from within, first and always. I hope to pay forward my blessing and I've told all my girl friends to read your book.
This book opened my eyes on how I was seeking others for self validations (men particularly), rather then myself. Through the exercise and questions asked through out this book, I reached the "aha" moments that Oprah Winfrey talks about. This book touched my heart and soul. I wished I read this book 10 years ago.
Thank You Christine, for leading the way!
Regardless of where you are on the relationship spectrum...
married, committed, single, dating, happy with a partner or miserable with a partner
CMBW gives you the tools you need to check-in with yourself and access the most important relationship you have in your life:
the one with YOU.
Because you can't really love anyone until you really truly love and honor yourself
and know what your heart really desires.
I love that Christine Arylo shares her own personal journey with the readers
of what her life was like before she really loved herself.
she learned she wasn't living her heart's deepest desires
and many years of training and inner exploration gave her the tools that she in turn shares with us, her readers
whether you read the book from cover to cover
or decide to just pick a random page to read for the day
her book will give you the insight and practices that are deeply thought-out, fun, and totally transformative!
Plus, Christine is friggin hilarious ;)
HUGELY thankful for this book!
and so are the many friends and family whom I have gifted it to .. :)
Thank you for this wonderful book, Christine
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I am a strong advocate for marriage and compromise and for living up to commitments I make. I found I could relate these teachings to areas in my life, beyond my interpersonal relationships, where I might have put other's needs ahead of my own. I am in a loving relationship with my husband and find our bond has strengthened as I have learned more about myself. I also have two daughters and I aspire to set the best possible example of how they can be strong women and loving partners.
I really appreciated the lessons in this book and will recommend it to friends.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
Great in formation on loving yourself, to help you to keep healthy boundaries in your life.Published 5 months ago by by jeri
Been a looooong time since I had a book I didn't want to put down! I love this book! I wish I could buy all my friends a copy!Published 8 months ago by stever l.
Okay, wow... If you identify as an "independent woman" or "feminist", you will hate this book. Read morePublished 11 months ago by Jancee
If you keep picking the wrong guy over and over again. Get this book, and get into yourself.Published 12 months ago by kathy thomas