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Sex and Relationship Experts Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste Hirschman, M.A, have worked with thousands of clients helping them realize their full sexual and emotional potential. They are the creators of the experiential and cutting edge Somatica Method of sex therapy and relationship coaching and are training other professionals in this revolutionary method. You can find out more about them at www.celesteanddanielle.com
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 274 pages
  • Publisher: Somatica (January 14, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0983240302
  • ISBN-13: 978-0983240303
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.6 x 8.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.9 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (21 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #148,214 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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This book should be required reading for every high school student. It took me until my 40s before I started to understood what women really want from a man. This book is written by women telling men the things that women want from men. It is well organized and well written, and there are lots of practical exercises to help men build the confidence (cockfidence?) and boldness, which not only helps with relationships with women, but also in all other aspects of their life.
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Every woman needs to share this with her man, and every man should beat them to the punch and get it first!Cockfidence
The writing is clear, concise and upbeat yet it takes the reader through some challenging places with insights and tools to be an empowered, "cockfident male and still be vulnerable, open and available to women. These authors are sharing the best of intelligent, sexy, woman's wisdom about how to enjoy a rich sensual life without judgment and intimacy without fear!
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Do women want men who are sensitive or powerful? That is a trick question, they want both. Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel have written a book that concisely and in practical ways explains how a man can gain confidence to embody what attracts a woman to a man. The book is full of practical exercises for developing this confidence both in and outside the bedroom. Celeste and Danielle have a relaxed writing style, quick and easy to read, the book isn't full of psychological theory, but down to earth language. I highly recommend it for all men, single or who have partners already.
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"We want to let you in on a big secret. Very few women will tell you that they are excited by men who live their lives from their own desires and passions because they are also frightened of it."

With this beginning, the authors create a new story for men that felt both ancient and modern. This is the power of the metaphor they create...combining our strong masculine desire with an acceptance and openness. The book gives specific exercises for each step along the pathway to help us feel confident in ourselves and with women by taking us from our heads to our bodies, where deeper learning occurs.

With stories, case studies and exercises, this book gave me the tools to shake up some of my old paralyzing stories and transform the negative emotions that I associated with sexual longings. We, as men have a right to be sexual and be loved. This book provided a personal road map.
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When I use these techniques each sexual experience is special and in the moment. I am a single man that walks around in this world knowing that if a woman says yes to me she will receive an amazing confident experience. This has helped with fear of rejection and I no longer feel responsible for my lovers happiness. Thanks Celeste and Danielle I am definitely going to attend one of your workshops one day!
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'Cockfidence is a tour de force by San Francisco's most innovative sex therapists. Celeste and Danielle understand women, men, and sex; they also understand how these three fabulous ingredients best combine. Their well-written book addresses these topics from a fresh perspective based on proven results.

A short review can only hint at Cockfidence's many insights. The book's point of view is perfect. Not only is it a book by women for men, but its perspective is quite yin/yang. The book's premise is that men and woman are different but sexually complementary. The perspective is liberating for men, for the authors explicitly exempt the man from responsibility for the
woman's happiness: "it is not your job to make your partner happy." Instead, men are entreated to be Present, Accepting, Confident, Generous, Passionate, Empathetic, Curious, Spontaneous, and Sensual (all concepts that are discussed in considerable detail), and ultimately to achieve "embodied empathy." Embodied empathy is "being so connected with yourself and your internal sensations that you can feel your partner's emotions, bodily sensations, desires and responses in your own body."

Cockfidence is filled with practical techniques (ranging from different types of touch, through G-spot stimulation, to BDSM, and anal play) for heightening female arousal. Everything is explained in the clear Anglo-Saxon language that people actually use for their body parts.

One of the most useful -- and innovative -- parts of Cockfidence explains how to deal with emotional women. Celeste and Danielle point out that men often try to do too much; "your job is not to apologize or try to fix what she is saying you have done.
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Despite the silly title and cover art, this is actually full of really good advice, told in a really accessible manner. I've bought more copies to give to friends.it's that good. Without a doubt, worth buying.
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"I hate self-help books but this one was really practical and genuine. I got the feeling that the authors really cared about me, and men, and I guess ultimately becuase they wanted my wife to have a better man. It's funny because my wife enjoyed this book as much as i did and reading it together got us thinking of ways to enhance our sex life as a married couple. Let's just say that after reading this book and putting it to practice we found our selves "Winning" in areas we never explored before and we love ourselves and our marriage even more! Thank you for finally writing a book that a man's mind can understand!:)
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