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The Colors of Grief: Understanding a Child's Journey through Loss from Birth to Adulthood 1st Edition

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The Colors of Grief: Understanding a Child's Journey through Loss from Birth to Adulthood by Janis A Di Ciacco is an intersting book that discusses ways to aid children in their journey through grief. While it is less academic, it is very much an excellent description of the concepts of grief as applies to various age groups of young grievers. Many practical suggestions are offered in the apprendices including therapeutic activities such as massage, puzzles, rock, aromatherapy, stress balls and story telling; transitional tools such as window cards and pain comforters; and lastly, "Mary Poppins' Milk Recipe". It is a very strucured book For those who like lists and orderly presentations, it is an excellent book. While most of the information is not new, it is presented in a fashion that makes it easy for the reader to understand what is being presented. It would be considered to be a very good "self-help" book for parents and others who work with children. Counsellors might find it useful It is well organized and quite readable. It is a good book that deserves to be read. I recommend it. -- Illness, Crisis & Loss I believe this book has the potential to profoundly change how our culture perceives and experiences grief. I believe this book is an impressive contribution to understanding the loss experience. It introduces with great depth a variety of therapeutic strategies, techniques, and practices that may be of great interest for parents, caregivers, teachers, counselors, psychologists, therapists, clinicians, mentors, social workers, and other professionals who have to deal with knowledge and understanding of not only our attachments and relationships as children but how we feel, think, and act as adults. This book should also be considered as an excellent scientific and practical resource for researchers and practitioners in this area or related specializations. The book introduces a great intellectual challenge. It raises new questions in relation to our practices concerning the issue of loss in our educational and social organizations. -- PsyCritiques This is a revealing and accessible book for both parents and professionals working with, or caring for, bereaved infants, children or young adults. -- Bristol Bereavement Forum This book explores strategies for supporting a grieving child to ensure a healthy passage into adulthood. The confusing emotions experienced by a grieving child are likened to a prism of many colours, hence the title...The author's experience shines through and I think this book would be useful to both health care professionals and parents who are involved with a grieving child. -- Palliative Care Australia

About the Author

Janis Di Ciacco, PhD has a Master's Degree in Special Education, a Diplome Linguistique from the Universite de Besancon and a Doctorate in Psychology from the University of Denver. She is a licensed clinical psychologist and a certified school psychologist. For the past 30 years, Dr. Di Ciacco has worked with children and their families around issues of attachment and loss, death and dying, foster placement and adoption, post-traumatic stress disorder, fetal alcohol spectrum disorder, autism / Asperger's, and pediatric brain injury. She is also founder of Mindful Moods, LLC, dedicated to the creation of preverbal emotional tools for children and adults and is the creator of the Mood Patch. Dr. Di Ciacco regularly gives seminars and presentations for parents and professionals throughout the US.
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 174 pages
  • Publisher: Jessica Kingsley; 1 edition (June 15, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1843108860
  • ISBN-13: 978-1843108863
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.4 x 9.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 5.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,313,288 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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In The Colors of Grief, Janis A. Di Ciacco describes for parents and practitioners the process and expressions of children's grief at various developmental stages. She combines psychological insights, such as the stages of grief or cognitive development theory, with practical implications for parents who are trying to understand and aid their grieving children. While some of the author's spiritual assumptions are questionable, the tight focus of this book on children makes it a valuable resource for me as future children's pastor.

Content Synopsis

Part 1 of Di Ciacco's book is about the general concepts of grief and loss as they affect children. All infants bond with the first person that they are physically close to, generally the mother. The infant attaches emotionally and psychologically to the primary caregiver, so if she dies or is killed, the infant is significantly traumatized. The security and familiarity of routines, physical contact, and hidden regulators are lost, causing fear and anxiety. Di Ciacco then walks the parent through normal emotions during grief, including fear, anger, shame, guilt, depression, and withdrawal. These are all normal responses to the vulnerability and abandonment a child feels after a loss. Many emotions actually serve as defensive mechanisms to postpone the grieving process until a child's brain has matured to deal with the abstract reality of death. Next, Di Ciacco describes the stages of grief, giving common false beliefs by children of different ages as they deny what happened or reflect a misunderstanding of the totality of death. One significant observation here is that due to the lack of development, many children cannot use words to describe their emotions.
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Yes I would recommend this book to anyone raising a child of any age that has had trama and greif. This book really helped me to understand what my 6 old daughter, went through and will go through in the coming years after the suicide of her father when she was 2.
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An exceptional guide to helping caregivers, parents, siblings, and loved ones provide compassionate and sensitive support to children in grief. Written by a thoughtful professional grief therapist who understands what children endure and how to help them move beyond coping to thriving.
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This book is an absolute must for caregivers and professionals working with children. It is a compassionate, thorough, developmental look at loss through the eyes of a child. This book has been invaluable for me working with familites of loss.
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The Colors of Grief: Understanding a Child's Journey Through Loss from Birth to Adulthood This book is the best! My husband and I have adopted 3 children. Parenting for everyone is challenging. For parents who have adopted children, there are many factors that go beyond the "normal" parenting responsibilities. Dr. DiCiacco's book is a great source of knowledge for me in trying to understand the "why is my child behaving like that?" What happens during a child's developmental years is so important. For an adopted child, grieving is already a part of their makeup. So to have a readable book full of knowledge that makes sense to my many questions is exciting. Our children have struggled in making good decisions and have difficulty in "connecting dots". I recommend all adoptive parents and professionals working with children to have a copy of this book to read and use as a resource. I guarantee you will be enlightened. DRM - Denver, Colorado
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