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Coming Clean: A Memoir Paperback – May 20, 2014
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Kimberly Rae Miller is an immaculately put-together woman with a great career, a loving boyfriend, and a beautifully tidy apartment in Brooklyn. You would never guess that behind the closed doors of her family’s idyllic Long Island house hid teetering stacks of aging newspaper, broken computers, and boxes upon boxes of unused junk festering in every room—the product of her father’s painful and unending struggle with hoarding.
In this dazzling memoir, Miller brings to life her experience growing up in a rat-infested home, hiding her father’s shameful secret from friends for years, and the emotional burden that ultimately led to her suicide attempt. In beautiful prose, Miller sheds light on her complicated yet loving relationship with her parents, which has thrived in spite of the odds.
Coming Clean is a story about recognizing where you come from and understanding the relationships that define you. It is also a powerful story of recovery and redemption.
- Print length272 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherNew Harvest
- Publication dateMay 20, 2014
- Dimensions5.31 x 0.76 x 8 inches
- ISBN-109780544320819
- ISBN-13978-0544320819
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Kimberly Rae Miller is a writer and actress living in New York City. Her writing on food, exercise, and positive body image has appeared in Condé Nast’s blog Elastic Waist, Yahoo’s Shine, Social Workout, and in Figure magazine. Additionally, Kim writes about New York living, celebrity gossip, and shopping for CBS Radio and CBS New York. In 2010, Kim was featured in Katharine Sise’s breakthrough career guide Creative Girl: The Ultimate Guide for Turning Talent and Creativity into a Real Career. She blogs at TheKimChallenge.com.
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- ASIN : 0544320816
- Publisher : New Harvest; Reprint edition (May 20, 2014)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 272 pages
- ISBN-10 : 9780544320819
- ISBN-13 : 978-0544320819
- Item Weight : 7.7 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.31 x 0.76 x 8 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #743,186 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #304 in Compulsive Behavior (Books)
- #889 in Parenting Girls
- #22,465 in Memoirs (Books)
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Kimberly Rae Miller is a writer and actress living in New York City. Her writing on healthy living has been published on Conde Nast’s blog network, Social Workout, Yahoo’s women’s network Shine, and in various magazines. She also contributes entertainment news to CBS Radio and CBS New York. In 2010, Kim was featured in Katharine Sise’s breakthrough career guide Creative Girl: The Ultimate Guide for Turning Talent and Creativity into a Real Career. You can read her personal blog at TheKimChallenge.com.
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That's why the story of a child living in the homes of hoarding parents was fascinating. The sheer amount of trauma she faced was immense, and I'm not sure how she could keep going year after year. I think a lot of us would tell her, now that she's an adult to just leave. Let them rot in their own doing, but she's a child that loves her parents and over and over again she has to try. I wonder how many of us would say we wouldn't but would.
Her story has twists and turns too. Her mother's health issues, her travels to Europe, her surprising jobs all helped make the hoarding seem even more of an obstacle. The many ways her and her family tries to deal with the problems are surprising, yet I can see how they make sense when put all together in the story. I also am thankful she has good friends and family that helped her along the way.
This was a quick, easy, well written read that I'd encourage anyone to pick up. However, if you have family members that might be hoarders then I'd highly encourage you to read this story. So many families hide this part of their lives in shame, but there is help. There are others out there. You can use the story as encouragement. Oh, and while I think my parents might have too much stuff, I'm thankful they aren't hoarders.
Kim's parents were absolutely wonderful parents in every other way...they just could not control their dysfunctional hoarding. She pretty much blames her Dad, her mother had serious life long health problems and although she may have become complicit at a point, it was Dad's pathology that lead to in-patient treatment and was the root of the compulsive behavior. However, he was an extremely engaged and loving father. Mom adored Kim as well and had a compassionate and loving relationship with her. They made sure she had everything she needed (besides a space to live in that was habitable) and guided her and eventually paid for a lovely and expensive education. This whole situation was quite the anomaly. I would venture to guess that there are not a handful of true hoarders in the country who have turned out as successful of a daughter as Kimberly Rae Miller. She loves her parents exponentially, and has been willing to attempt to help them so many times through the years because she realizes this. I do not mean to minimize her pain in growing up this way...I am sure it was completely miserable. But I have to wonder how many people have grown up in spotless homes that looked like showplaces to their friends but were subjected to such abysmal parenting that they are much more damaged than Kim.
As educated and sophisticated as Kim is, I would have liked to see her devote much more of the book to the potential sources of compulsive hoarding. She had an opportunity to do some real research here and deliver some information that may have shed some light on this nefarious affliction. She threw out a few possibilities, but the book was really about her. My fear is that people that are suffering from this phenomena may read this and assume that their children will turn out to be as good hearted, understanding, and forgiving toward their offensive parent as Kim is. Not likely....
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If you don't live with a hoarder, it's a fantastic book to educate you on what hoarding really means and how it affects the people who live among it. It's a great story. I hope no-one else has to live one like it.




