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"Successfully overseeing many small groups in her multisite church setting gives Heather Zempel credibility in instructing leaders on the 'perils' and 'promises' of small group ministry. Community Is Messy is well worth the read." (Kathleen Leadley, Brethren in Christ History and Life, August 2013)

"If you'd benefit from isnight to the failed experiments another church/pastor has encountered in developing small groups, though certainly not exclusively, there is plenty of that here. Despite all the mess and failures, there is a beauty to the portrait given here of a group of people who understand and accept the messiness of doing life together and want to learn to grow in and out of it." (Adam Griffin, YouthWorker Journal, January/February 2013)

"Zempel openly shares her experiences―both good and bad―as discipleship pastor at National Community Church in Washington, D.C., and invites small-group leaders to embrace the mess of community life." (Amy Jackson, Christianity Today, September 2012)

"If you could somehow blend equal parts Bonhoeffer, Mr. Wizard and 'Unsinkable' Molly Brown, you'd get something close to Heather Zempel. It would be a fascinating experiment, like those she describes in Community Is Messy. Stories of what worked (and what didn't) provide countless examples of how discipleship in community is usually nonlinear, often random and always messy. With deep insight and ample humor, Heather proves that 'mess' is actually a catalyst for spiritual growth." (Dave Treat, small groups leader, Asbury UMC, Madison, Alabama, and chief innovation officer, thinkingsmall.net)

"Honest, practical and rooted in experience, Heather's direction takes us to those earthy places that we face in day-to-day relational ministry. Her words go beyond platitudes and lead us down paths that point to wholeness in the midst of the reality of messy community. This book offers a fresh angle and creative hope to group leaders and pastors. Embracing this counsel will advance your community forward into deeper expressions and experiences of community. Buy it! Sit with it. Pray through it." (M. Scott Boren, consultant, trainer, and author of Missional Small Groups)

"Community Is Messy offers a fresh perspective on the challenges all leaders face in building biblical community. Zempel draws on multiple disciplines to stretch our thinking on strategy, growth and discipleship. It is immediately in the top five on my must-read list for small group pastors and leaders!" (Greg Bowman, author, Coaching Life-Changing Small Group Leaders)

About the Author

Heather Zempel is the discipleship pastor at National Community Church in Washington, D.C. Before serving at her church, Zempel served in the U.S. Senate as an environment and energy policy advisor from 2001-2005. She has previously published Sacred Roads: Exploring the Historic Paths of Discipleship including DVD leader guides with Threads/Lifeway. Zempel blogs at www.heatherzempel.com.
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 203 pages
  • Publisher: IVP Books (September 1, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0830837884
  • ISBN-13: 978-0830837885
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.6 x 8.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (9 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #753,109 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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I'm a retired Baptist Associate Pastor that retired from a mega church.

In my 40 years as an Associate I "did" Sunday School, Support Groups from Divorce Recovery to Toastmasters, as well as a bunch of other "stuff".

In my opinion Heather has presented a guide to leaders of 21st Century Small Groups...ranging in size from small churches to mega churches.

She doesn't tell you "what to think". She makes suggestions about "how to think" about Small Groups in the church.

This would be an excellent book for seminary classes as well as churches.
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I've had the privilege of doing ministry with Heather Zempel for the past decade. She's the real deal. Heather is one of the most gifted leaders and humble servants I know. She's also brilliant. Her heart for and mind for discipleship are a rare combination. This book is a must read for anybody who is serious about small groups. It's a dose of encouragement, and I think readers will walk away with insights that will change the way they lead.
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People are messy.

You're a mess. I'm a mess.

Everybody's a mess.

A small percentage of people have cleaned up their mess pretty well. Most have cleaned up all the visible mess but have mold growing in the walls. A few folks' mess is on display for all to see.

In other words. People are broken. There are things deep inside that cause stress, breed resentment, elicit fear, that-simply put-hurt.

Now, take two or three or ten messy people and put them together...

You've got a mess on your hands. Mess from wrongdoing, mess from personality differences, mess from past hurts...

But you've also got opportunity for growth, healing, deep friendship, and real love.

That's what Heather Zempel-Discipleship Pastor at National Community Church-writes about in Community is Messy. If you're going to develop real relationships, let people into your life to know you and dive into their lives and know them, it's not going to be a clean enterprise.

Heather dives head first into the mess, drawing on 10+ years of experience on staff at NCC, a masters in biological engineering, and many attempts at intentionally creating community among small groups of people. I cannot recommend her book to you highly enough.

Now for a caveat and a counter to it. Heather is my boss on NCC's Discipleship Team, so I'm sure my recommendation is biased. But the fact that I work for Heather also means that I know she's the real deal. She has opened her life-allowing others into her mess-and has willingly dove into the mess of the lives of others... including myself.
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Heather Zempel's writing is so much fun to read. Her real, raw stories of messy community is very engaging! She gives practical steps how to navigate mess in your life, small groups, and whatever community you find yourself in. This is a must-read for small group pastors and group leaders, but everyone could benefit from reading this book because we ALL encounter messy community. 2 thumbs up!!
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It's refreshing to acknowledge the truth about small groups and community..it is messy. Change is not a bad word in the Zempel camp and that alone is worth the cost of the book
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