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Compassion (&) Conviction: The AND Campaign's Guide to Faithful Civic Engagement Kindle Edition
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Have you ever felt too progressive for conservatives, but too conservative for progressives?
Too often, political questions are framed in impossible ways for the faithful Christian: we're forced to choose between social justice and biblical values, between supporting women and opposing abortion. As a result, it's easy for Christians to grow disillusioned with civic engagement or fall back into tribal extremes. This state of affairs has damaged Christian public witness and divided the church.
The authors of this book represent the AND Campaign, which exists to educate and organize Christians for faithful civic and cultural engagement. They insist that not only are we called to love our neighbors through the political process but also that doing so requires us to transcend the binary way the debates are usually framed. In simple, understandable language, they lay out the biblical case for political engagement and help Christians navigate the complex world of politics with integrity, from political messaging and the politics of race to protests, advocacy, and more. The book includes a study guide for classroom use and group discussion.
When we understand our civic engagement as a way to obey Christ's call to love our neighbor, we see that it is possible to engage the political process with both love and truth—compassion and conviction.
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"The book, Compassion (&) Conviction: The AND Campaign's Guide to Faithful Civic Engagement is a much-needed text that skillfully guides believers on how to exercise their civic duties without compromise. The authors assert that people of faith have a moral obligation to demonstrate love for our neighbors by weighing in on political matters, yet we should also respect and work constructively with nonbelievers. If ever there was a time for people of faith to love others while standing up for what is right, that time is now. This book offers a framework and guidance on how to civically live out your faith." -- John K. Jenkins Sr., pastor of First Baptist Church of Glenarden, Maryland
"Compassion (&) Conviction is an outstanding tool in sharing the consistent, courageous, and faith-filled message of the AND Campaign. At a time when too many Christians let their politics shape their faith, this book is an example of faith shaping politics. You don't have to agree with every word in this book, but we should be grateful for the biblical principles and moral analysis that make this resource so timely and challenging. Justin Giboney, Michael Wear, and Chris Butler offer a path to faithful citizenship in tough times." -- John Carr, director of the Initiative on Catholic Social Thought and Public Life at Georgetown University
"Empowering. Practical. Enlightening. Convicting. Finally here's a resource for Christians to understand their civil duty in voting and how they should engage in political affairs. We've gone far too long without a professionally detailed resource that answers our specific controversies such as our involvement as Christians in politics, our engagement in social justice without compromising our faith, and our dedication to justice. This book isn't just an explanation of our Christian duty in the public space; it's an invitation to actively engage in politics and civics as informed believers. This resource must be taught, used, and circulated locally and abroad. Our republic depends on it." -- Cornelius Lindsey, lead pastor of the Gathering Oasis Church, Atlanta
"The partisanship, point-scoring, bickering, and pettiness that mark Christians' engagement with politics often belies the message of hope offered in Jesus. If we, as a church, do not learn how to seek the good of our neighbor and the broader world without being beholden to a particular political party, we will, however inadvertently, preach a false gospel in our actions and public life. Because of this, reconstructing a political theology that is wise, humane, just, and deeply biblical is the most urgent calling facing the church in America today. The AND Campaign is a leader in this vital work of reconstruction, casting an alternative vision for a politics rooted in faith, hope, and love. In this book, Giboney, Wear, and Butler provide basic tutoring in civics, Scripture, race, justice, and political engagement that will help us, as a church, find a more faithful and truthful way of walking as Christians in this world of political turmoil. I want every church in America to give an ear to these men as they help us walk the way of Jesus as a community and a political people." -- Tish Harrison Warren, author of Liturgy of the Ordinary
"Compassion (&) Conviction provides a reconciliatory prescription for a political environment infected by discord, animus, and extremism. This book stands as a clarion call for a movement founded on the principle that every human being carries the image of God and driven by a passion to do justice and change the world. This is not just a must-read, this is a must-do!" -- Samuel Rodriguez, president of the National Hispanic Christian Leadership Conference, lead pastor of New Season Christian Worship Center, Sacramento, California
"At a time when America's body of Christ is as divided as our nation itself, the AND Campaign has presented a much-needed model for those who aspire to stay true to biblical principles―all of them!―in their civic engagement. Free of partisanship and cultural bias, this book provides a framework that, if adhered to, could lead to unity, healing, and perhaps even revival. Just in the nick of time, the AND Campaign has given us a gem, a light, a guide for how Bible believers can accurately represent Christ in a public square so desperately in need of our true and faithful witness." -- Chris Broussard, broadcaster for FOX Sports, founder and president of the K.I.N.G. Movement
"People commonly lament our age's political division and tribalism. Some have lived at the poles of political discourse, and they've forgotten their way back to a commonly shared center. Finding our way back to one another can only happen if we learn not to bifurcate our politics. We need a movement to reunite ourselves, reunite with our neighbors, and reunite political ideals that never should have been divided in the first place. That reunion will feel like a strange new land for many us, so we need guides, pathways, tools, and discipline for talking and working together for the common good. You hold in your hands a creative struggle for wholeness, just the kind of help we need in our age." -- Thabiti M. Anyabwile, pastor of Anacostia River Church, Washington, DC
"The authors urge Christians to think holistically and consistently about issues that drive their voting and civic involvement. . . . By engaging in politics to pursue love and justice, they assert, Christians can magnify God's name―not their own. Politically minded Christians will want to take a look at this punchy manifesto." -- Publishers Weekly Review, May 2020
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"The partisanship, point-scoring, bickering, and pettiness that mark Christians' engagement with politics often belies the message of hope offered in Jesus. If we, as a church, do not learn how to seek the good of our neighbor and the broader world without being beholden to a particular political party, we will, however inadvertently, preach a false gospel in our actions and public life. Because of this, reconstructing a political theology that is wise, humane, just, and deeply biblical is the most urgent calling facing the church in America today. The AND Campaign is a leader in this vital work of reconstruction, casting an alternative vision for a politics rooted in faith, hope, and love. In this book, Giboney, Wear, and Butler provide basic tutoring in civics, Scripture, race, justice, and political engagement that will help us, as a church, find a more faithful and truthful way of walking as Christians in this world of political turmoil. I want every church in America to give an ear to these men as they help us walk the way of Jesus as a community and a political people."
-- Tish Harrison Warren, author of Liturgy of the OrdinaryAbout the Author
Michael Wear is a member of the executive leadership team for the AND Campaign and the founder of Public Square Strategies LLC. He is the author of Reclaiming Hope: Lessons Learned in the Obama White House About the Future of Faith in America. He lives in Northern Virginia.
Justin Giboney is cofounder of the AND Campaign, an attorney, and a political strategist in Atlanta, Georgia. He has served as a delegate for the Democratic National Convention and as the cochair of Obama for America's Gen44-Atlanta initiative.
Chris Butler is the senior leader of the Chicago Embassy Church Network and has been involved in several efforts to improve educational equity in Chicago. He serves as the founder and executive director of Parent Power Chicago as well as the founder of the Chicago Peace Campaign, which organizes churches and other faith-based institutions to build peacemaking networks in local communities.
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Chris Butler is a pastor and "serial organizer" hailing from the Southside of Chicago. Pastor Chris leads Chicago Embassy Church Network, a mission-based network church in America's third largest city and is an experienced organization builder. Pastor Chris got a very early start in community organizing when he joined a small neighborhood organization in Chicago's South Austin community at age 12. By age 18, Chris has completed two organizing internships and launched his first organization, Organized Students of Chicago.
Pastor Chris has seemingly organized everywhere. He organized youth and young adults in Chicago's Southland for then State Senator Barack Obama's 2004 Senate Campaign, led the Field Operations for A+ Illinois (the organization blazed a trail school funding reform in the state), spearheaded organizing efforts to improve school choice in Chicago through New Schools Chicago. In 2013, Chris founded Citizen Consulting Group Inc. an organizing and communications consulting firm where he helped launch organizations in Chicago, Philadelphia, and Washington State.
Having worked across the spectrum of organizations and types of engagement, Chris' often lends insight and leadership to the efforts of elected officials, organization heads, community organizers, and other faith leaders.
Pastor Chris co-authored "Compassion and Conviction: The AND Campaigns Guide To Faithful Civic Engagement" with Justin Giboney and Micheal Wear.

Michael Wear is the Founder, President and CEO of The Center for Christianity and Public Life, a nonpartisan, nonprofit institution based in the nation's capital with the mission to contend for the credibility of Christian resources in public life, for the public good. For well over a decade, he has served as a trusted resource and advisor for a range of civic leaders on matters of faith and public life, including as a White House and presidential campaign staffer. Michael is a leading voice on building a healthy civic pluralism in twenty-first century America. He has argued that the kind of people we are has much to do with the kind of politics we will have.
Michael previously led Public Square Strategies, a consulting firm he founded that helps religious organizations, political organizations, businesses and others effectively navigate the rapidly changing American religious and political landscape.
Michael’s first book, Reclaiming Hope: Lessons Learned in the Obama White House About the Future of Faith in America, offers reflections, analysis and ideas about the role of faith in the Obama years and what it means for today. He has co-authored, or contributed to, several other books, including Compassion and Conviction: The AND Campaign's Guide to Faithful Civic Engagement, with Justin Giboney and Chris Butler. He also writes for The Atlantic, The New York Times, The Washington Post, Catapult Magazine, Christianity Today and other publications on faith, politics and culture.
Michael holds an honorary position at the University of Birmingham’s Cadbury Center for the Public Understanding of Religion. Michael and his wife, Melissa, are both proud natives of Buffalo, New York. They now reside in Maryland, where they are raising their beloved daughters, Saoirse and Ilaria.

Justin Giboney is an attorney and political strategist in Atlanta, Georgia. He's also the co-founder and president of the AND Campaign, a Christian civic organization.
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- Reviewed in the United States on July 21, 2020“What are you willing to do for the people you love? If a family member was being mistreated, in addition to your prayers would you also use your time and resources to stop them from being hurt?” (8)
Compassion (&) Conviction is a gospel-shaped, biblically-built framework for “Christian Democrats, Republicans, and Independents to engage in a more faithful, informed, and effective manner.” (4) The authors believe that loving one’s neighbor as oneself entails engaging in the political process. The heart of this book lies in the ampersand of the title. Christians should embrace both love AND biblical conviction. We should work for justice AND moral order. Here’s how the book unfolds.
Chapter One (Christians and Politics) locates politics in the broader plan of God. The Christian’s primary objective in life is to make known the gospel of Jesus Christ. Political activity should not supplant the work of proclaiming and professing the gospel. “If the Great Commission becomes secondary, or if Christianity is understood primarily as a means of accomplishing social or political goals, then we’ve handed to Caesar what belongs to God (Matthew 22:21).” (7-8)
In that context, the book calls for political engagement as a reflection of the Great Commandment (to love God and love our neighbor), and the Great Requirement (to do justice, love mercy and walk humbly with God).
Chapter Two (Church and State) begins with a review of how our government works. If Christians are to engage, we must know who to engage with, how the political system works and how the church relates to the state. The second half of the chapter discusses the inevitability and importance of bringing our values to the political process.
Chapter Three (Compassion and Conviction) creates the biblical framework for all our political activity. In one sense this is the heart of the book (the title of this chapter is the title of the book). Rather than being forced to choose between compassion or conviction (for example, “do you love the poor or do you believe in personal responsibility?”) we ought to pursue both loving justice AND moral order. Ephesians 4:14-15 is the ground for this framework.
Chapter Four (Partnerships and Partisanship) answers the question, “Who should I cooperate with in the political process?” It includes seven steps to help the reader evaluate cultural or political partnerships.
Chapter Five (Messaging and Rhetoric) is about how we use our words, and how we hear the words of politicians.
Chapter Six (Politics and Race) is again grounded in Scripture (in particular Galatians 2:11-13) and addresses the history of racism in America, color blindness, identity politics, mob dynamics, and the way forward toward reconciliation.
Chapter Seven (Advocacy and Protest) is about seeking what is good through the political process (advocacy) and calling out what is wrong (protest). This chapter looks at biblical examples of both, while addressing how both should be done by a wise and godly Christian.
Chapter Eight (Civility and Political Culture) examines the biblical ground for civility in political discourse, how to cultivate civility, the misuse of it, and the importance of civility to our Christian witness.
The strengths of Compassion (&) Conviction are many. First, it’s self-awareness of its location on the map of God’s concerns. The book aligns well with John Piper’s aphorism: “Christians care about all suffering, especially eternal suffering. Christians care about all injustice, especially injustice against God.” The authors make this clear in Chapter One:
“Do not interpret this book’s focus on the political space as a suggestion that professing the gospel should be subordinated to political activity. While God has given us power to bring about change and help those around us in real ways (James 2:15-16), our world will continue to be a place of sin and suffering until Jesus returns (Romans 8:19-21). This truth is important to keep in mind as we discuss our interactions with society. It provides us with perspective, helping us remember the ultimate things rather than being consumed by the temporal matters of this world. Our civic participation will not glorify God if it’s placed above worship, evangelism, or Christian fellowship.” (8)
Second, the authors’ use of Scripture is careful. It’s clear that they have considered the meaning of a text before putting it to work for their point. If this book represents the foundational thoughts of the AND Campaign, then Berean-minded Christians will not be turned off by the incorrect use of Scripture. On the contrary, this is a biblically-built set of propositions.
Third, the tone of the book is calm and reasoned. It is designed to persuade, not bully. In an atmosphere of loud voices and power plays, Compassion (&) Conviction employs the better tools of a liberal democracy - persuasion with words and careful thinking, the way we see Paul teaching in the public square (Acts 17).
This tone was, in fact, the biggest surprise of the book for me. At times it reads almost like a textbook. Which is smart, given that the authors are not just writing a book, but defining a movement. They have defined their position and their direction by God’s Word, and that is where the power lies.
Fourth, the consistent integration of biblical behavior with political activity (humility and protest, for example) is something we don’t often see. Here’s a sample:
“Behavior is an outflow of matters of the heart. Spiritual discipline is of the utmost importance for believers who want to engage in protest and advocacy. We have to be dedicated to regular, prayerful self-assessment, asking God to search our hearts and prove our motives. Those engaged in protest and advocacy are particularly susceptible to two temptations: power and offense.” (115)
Fifth, the book is practical. I’m grateful for the list in Chapter Four (Partnerships and Partisanship) on evaluating potential partners. It includes steps like, “Who are you? Be confident in your identity in Christ,” “Get to know your partners and understand their endgame,” and “Don’t take on your partner’s identity.” They also offer guidelines on how to effectively communicate in the public square, and how to listen to a politician (“Christians do not listen to politicians in order to be affirmed or even to hear politicians express beliefs they share. Instead, we listen to politicians because their words provide us with leverage to hold them accountable” (93). Each chapter ends with discussion questions and exercises that can be used in a small group.
As for weaknesses, I wish the book were more explicit about the gospel in two ways. It seems that the power of the ampersand lies in the cross of Christ, where both mercy and moral order meet (Christ was both just and justifier). In a cultural moment like we face, we need power to reconcile seemingly unreconcilable groups of people. That power is in nothing less than the cross. Related to that, secondly, is our inability to love our neighbor apart from the work of Christ in our hearts. The call to love our neighbor as ourselves can be crushing if not followed quickly by the “but Christ” of the gospel. This truth is there for sure (especially in the “Closing Exhortation”), but I had wished it were more visible. As inclined as we are to believe we can do all things through ourselves, we need to be reminded often of Galatians 2:20 “I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.”
Second, I would have appreciated clarity about what the authors expect churches to do, as churches, and what they expect individual Christians to do as individuals. This is an important question for church leaders as they sort out what is related to the mission of the church, and what isn’t.
And third, I would have benefited from a “further reading” list. Who else is thinking this way? Who has influenced the authors most strongly?
A personal reflection: for decades I largely remained distant from the political process, except for voting as best as I could. Not only disengaged, but I was wary of “justice.” God’s Word and God’s Spirit have convicted me of both my doctrinal errors, and my hard heart.
With these small steps of change has come a desire to understand God’s mind about justice as it relates to politics. In that context I have benefited from the teaching and writing of Jonathan Leeman, and now this book as well.
What has been most inspiring about Conviction (&) Compassion is the authors’ consistent biblical faithfulness, and then their ability to apply biblical truth to political activity. At a number of points I found myself smiling at connections rarely made -- at least in my mind.
Finally, I’m convinced of the need to ask the question quoted at the beginning of this review: “What are you willing to do for the people you love?” The authors continue:
“If a family member was being mistreated, in addition to your prayers would you also use your time and resources to stop them from being hurt? If they were unjustly imprisoned, would you advocate for them? If a teacher was treating your child unfairly, would you address the issue? Of course you would. We rightly expect that kind of urgent action from the people who say they care about us.
“In the Great Commandment, Jesus tells us to “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” and to “love your neighbor as yourself ” (Matthew 22:37-39)” (8).
Jesus commands me to love my neighbor as myself. Jesus defines my neighbor as anyone I have contact with. And then most importantly of all, Jesus makes it possible, by his death, resurrection and his power in me, to obey him.
This means that I am called not only to hold firmly to and teach truth, but also to actively pursue justice, in love for my neighbor.
I highly recommend Compassion (&) Conviction.
- Reviewed in the United States on July 21, 2020I would recommend this book to anyone Christian who struggles to know how to think and act in our contentious political climate. The authors break down complex subjects in easy-to-understand ways, without sacrificing nuance. A few quotes I particularly appreciated:
"Have you relied on the worst arguments and behavior of those you disagree with to avoid considering whether they might have a point? Try to pick at least one issue where you know significant numbers of Christians disagree with you and commit to earnestly learning why they believe what they believe and consider it. The worst that can happen is that you will better understand your brothers and sisters who disagree with you. And maybe you’ll learn something that will sharpen or even change your opinion."
"As we assess policies, we pay special attention to how they will affect people, particularly those who are less fortunate, rather than treating public policy as a way to advance ideas without any regard for their practical impact. We will not support policy or rhetoric that demeans any group, and we do not view our convictions or our political power as justification for bullying any group or any person. Love and justice can never be absent from our public witness."
"...being aware of the profound mercy and forgiveness of God, we should find grace to confront our personal and cultural issues knowing that we serve a God of love who intends to cleanse us from sin rather than to destroy us because of it (1 John 1:9)."
"The health of our form of government depends on an informed and rigorously engaged citizenry. Advocacy and protest are the tools we use to manage our elected servants. Because we live in a democracy, Romans 13:1 is not an injunction against protest and advocacy, but a mandate for it."
"Incivility often stems from the loss of patience with our neighbors and indignation that they do not yet—and may never—see the world as we do. Yet patience is often in shorter supply for the zealous convert to a cause than the long-suffering laborer. It is not usually the most vulnerable who are the most vitriolic, nor is it usually they who have persevered for what they believed who are most bitter. Instead, often the people for whom these issues are primarily emotional are trying to prove their commitment rather than just being committed. Those who have advocated for an issue for a long time are able to track progress, are aware of the various points of disagreement, and understand the terrain. Recent converts are often battling self-hatred that it took them so long to “see the light,” and they can take that out on those who have yet to see it for themselves. “I’ve arrived—when will you?” they seem to say."






